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UNCUT: The Male Puberty Podcast
Puberty: a universal experience we rarely talk about. In UNCUT, we dive into the unspoken stories of male puberty through candid conversations and a somatic lens. From the awkwardness of masturbation to the confusion of hormones, we explore the body’s journey during this pivotal phase—and the emotional and societal pressures that come with it. Join us as we Unshame the male experience, celebrate vulnerability, and honor the power of embodied growth.
UNCUT: The Male Puberty Podcast
[Ep. 6] Using Women Like I Use Porn: Avoiding my Emotions and Temporary Self-Soothing
In this episode, I take an honest look at how I’ve used both porn and women as a way to avoid my emotions and find temporary relief. I explore the somatic experience of watching porn—how its predictability creates a sense of safety and belonging, yet reinforces patterns of isolation and dissociation.
Through an embodiment practice, I tune into my body before, during, and after watching porn, uncovering the sensations and unmet needs beneath the habit. I also examine how these same patterns show up in my relationships, where I’ve sought comfort instead of true connection.