The Tattoed Truth with Anna Love
The Tattooed Truth with Anna Love
This is where raw truth meets deep healing.
Hosted by Intuitive Empowerment Coach and Subconscious Healing Guide Anna Love, The Tattooed Truth is a space for soul-led rebels who are ready to rise in their full expression.
Every episode offers embodied conversations that go beyond surface talk. You’ll hear unfiltered insights, real stories of transformation, and live coaching sessions with bold guests willing to meet themselves at the edge of their truth.
This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about reclaiming your voice, rewriting the patterns that have kept you small, and remembering who you are beneath the noise.
Come as you are. Leave more connected to your power, your softness, and your sacred fire.
The Tattoed Truth with Anna Love
11 - When Love Becomes an Identity: Healing Attachments and Finding Yourself After Breakup
Hey love! Welcome back to the Tattooed Truth Podcast.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most transformational topics I’ve personally lived through: how attachment shapes our identity in relationships and how to reclaim your sense of self after heartbreak or loss.
If you’ve ever found yourself saying “I don’t know who I am without them,” or even “I don’t know who I am inside this relationship,” this episode is for you. Together, we explore how early childhood conditioning and attachment styles — anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure, impact how we love, connect, and lose ourselves in relationships.
I share my story of losing my identity in an eight-year relationship, how conditional love shaped my patterns, and the moment I finally reclaimed my voice and self-worth. You’ll learn practical ways to rebuild your sense of self after heartbreak, regulate your nervous system, and rewrite your inner story.
This isn’t just about healing from someone else; it’s about remembering who you were before you learned you had to earn love.
⏱ Episode Timestamps
[00:00:57] How attachment shapes our identity in relationships
[00:03:40] The subconscious blueprint of love and safety
[00:05:55] Understanding the four attachment styles
[00:09:29] Anna’s story: the eight-year relationship that defined her identity
[00:13:25] Why we chase what hurts — and mistake conditional love for real love
[00:15:48] Why breakups feel like death (and how to grieve the old identity)
[00:17:44] Who are you when you’re not performing for love?
[00:19:12] Regulating your nervous system and creating inner safety
[00:21:22] Mirror gazing and reprogramming your story
[00:23:23] Reparenting yourself: shifting from anxious to secure attachment
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