The Fairy Elephant Effect
Welcome to The Fairy Elephant Effect Podcast, a space where we’ll explore the powerful, often hidden influences that shape our lives. Each week, we’ll dive into themes from my book, The Fairy Elephant Effect, as well as other topics that help us unpack how our experiences and beliefs shape the lives we live. Together, we’ll examine how words and actions—both our own and those of others—can leave lasting imprints, holding us back from living authentically and fully. Once a month, we’ll feature an inspiring interview with someone who has navigated their own journey of transformation and healing.
My mission is to support you in creating a life you truly love, where you not only love yourself but also truly like and accept every part of who you are.
Welcome to The Fairy Elephant Effect—where everything starts and ends with you.
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Podcast 40: Boundaries Without Guilt
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Boundaries are not walls. They are bridges back to your own self-connection.
In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, we go deeper into the real meaning of boundaries and how to set them without guilt. You’ll hear why boundaries are not rejection, how they keep you on your side of the street emotionally, and why guilt is simply an old story we no longer need to live by.
We’ll explore the difference between walls and healthy boundaries, the cost of living without clear limits, and the surprising truth that boundaries actually make relationships stronger — not weaker.
You’ll also get practical reflections and simple boundary phrases you can start using right away. By the end, you’ll see that boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re acts of love — love for yourself and love for others.
Remember: You matter. It all begins and ends with you.
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