The Fairy Elephant Effect
Welcome to The Fairy Elephant Effect Podcast, a space where we’ll explore the powerful, often hidden influences that shape our lives. Each week, we’ll dive into themes from my book, The Fairy Elephant Effect, as well as other topics that help us unpack how our experiences and beliefs shape the lives we live. Together, we’ll examine how words and actions—both our own and those of others—can leave lasting imprints, holding us back from living authentically and fully. Once a month, we’ll feature an inspiring interview with someone who has navigated their own journey of transformation and healing.
My mission is to support you in creating a life you truly love, where you not only love yourself but also truly like and accept every part of who you are.
Welcome to The Fairy Elephant Effect—where everything starts and ends with you.
Episodes
42 episodes
Podcast 50 - Starting Late, but Starting: My 65th Birthday Reflections
Starting Late, but Starting: My 65th Birthday Reflections”In this heartfelt episode, Elysabeth reflects on turning 65 and realizing that life is far from winding down — it’s expanding.She shares what it means to move into a...
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Episode 50
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Podcasd 49 The Pollyanna Game
Buzzsprout Summary: In this uplifting episode, Elysabeth Wolter explores the timeless wisdom of The Pollyanna Game — a gratitude practice that turns everyday moments into powerful mindset shifts. Discover how changing your f...
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Episode 49
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Healing, Self-Regulation & The Power of Belief
In this deeply personal episode, Elysabeth shares her journey through a major dental procedure — having all her bottom teeth removed and a denture fitted — and how fear transformed into empowerment through the use of EFT tapping, visualisation,...
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Episode 47
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Podcast 46 - "Aligning Identity with Your True End Goals”
"Aligning Identity with Your True End Goals”In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, I explore how identity can quietly shape our goals — and how aligning who you are with what you truly want transforms everything.
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Podcast 45: Facing My Fear and Finding Freedom
Today, I want to share something really personal with you — my phobia of flying. For years, that fear held me back. It wasn’t just about the plane — it was about control, surrender, and trust. Every time I even thought about f...
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Episode 44 -The Abundant Self Awakens
A Conversation with Renee Ormond — an Empowerment Coach, Ultimate Cycle Breaker, and 9D Breathwork Facilitator based in Tūrangi. Renee guides women to release outdated money stories so they can create new, abundant realities. What inspire...
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Podcast 43 - The Small Things That Shape Our Lives
The small things are never small. ✨ The arguments, frustrations, and breakdowns don’t happen in one moment — they’re built in all the little choices that came before. The silent resentments. The words we speak behind someone’...
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Podcast 42 An Interview with Brandy Graham
Brandy R. Graham, known as the Legacy Liberator™ and Identity Coach, helps women break free from old patterns of self-sabotage and step into a new legacy of worth. She’s created the Safe to Become™ space where the nervous syst...
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Podcast 41 Why I Love EFT Tapping and you can too
In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, I share the first time I used EFT tapping during a panic attack—while sitting in the car with my kids. For the first time in years, I didn’t have to get out and walk around to calm myself. EFT gave ...
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Episode 41
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Podcast 40: Boundaries Without Guilt
Boundaries are not walls. They are bridges back to your own self-connection.In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, we go deeper into the real meaning of boundaries and how to set them without guilt. You’ll hear why bounda...
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Podcast 39 - Language as a portal
Elysabeth Wolter explores how language can become a powerful portal to transformation. Building on last week’s shift from “I have to” into “I get to,” this episode dives deeper into how the words we choose shape our energy, intention, and reali...
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Podcast 38 From I Have To → I Get To: Shifting the Energy of Your Choices
This week on The Fairy Elephant Effect, Elysabeth Wolter explores the power of a two-word shift that can transform your energy and your life. Moving from “I have to” into “I get to” changes how you approach everyday tasks, turning obligation in...
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Podcast 37: Staying in Your Lane: Redirecting Your Energy and Rebuilding Solid Foundations
This week on The Fairy Elephant Effect, Elysabeth explores the cost of scattering your energy into other people’s lives and how to bring it back to you. Building on last week’s conversation about boundaries and guilt, this e...
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Episode 37
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Boundaries: The Courage to Come Home to You
Building on last week’s conversation about empaths and emotional hypervigilance, this episode explores what happens when we overgive, overfunction, and lose ourselves in the needs of others. Elysabeth unpacks the “martyr loop,” why guilt shows ...
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Episode 36
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Are You an Empath – or Emotionally Hijacked?
: Elysabeth Wolter | Lizzie’s Insights Coaching Website: lizziesinsightscoaching.com Book: The Fairy Elephant Effect – Available now on Amazon YouTube Tapping Video: “Staying on Your Side of the St...
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Episode 35
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Podcast 34 Get out of your own way - Growth beyond the comfort zone
In this week’s episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, Elysabeth dives into a powerful topic: how fear, control, and perfectionism can block our growth — and how to finally get out of our own way. She shares behind-the-scenes r...
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Episode 34
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The Perfect Day Pattern: Create Your Life from the Inside Out
Have you ever paused long enough to imagine your perfect day—not someday, but today? In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, Elysabeth Wolter invites you into a powerful and gentle practice that can shift your habits, your emotio...
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Episode 33
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Waking Up Soft – Listening to the Whisper Instead of the Roar
Sometimes we wake up feeling softer, slower, and less ready to push through. But what if that’s not a problem — what if it’s a portal? In this episode, Elysabeth Wolter invites you to explore those quiet, tender mornings as opportunities for de...
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Episode 32
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Pod Cast 31: Redefining What’s Possible: Movement, Muscle, and the Mindset That Changes Everything
In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, I’m talking about what’s truly possible when we stop agreeing with decline — physically, emotionally, and mentally — and start redefining what our body can do. I share my own story of recov...
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Episode 31
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Podcast 30 Activating Love Languages for Safer, Stronger Kids
In this heart-led episode, Elysabeth Wolter shares why she believes teaching love languages to children—and activating them in ourselves—can transform classrooms, emotional literacy, and personal connection. She explores the five love languages...
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Episode 30
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What Ripple Are You Creating in the Pond Today?
In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, Elysabeth explores the ripple effect of our habitual thoughts and how they shape our emotional lives, relationships, and future. She unpacks why we’re often programmed to focus on what’s wr...
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Episode 29
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Podcast 28 Real Talk with Candice Dorsey of Hey BOSS Ladies!
In this raw and real conversation, I’m joined by Candice Dorsey, the dynamic founder of Hey BOSS Ladies! — a community dedicated to uplifting women entrepreneurs through connection, collaboration, and visibility.<...
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Episode 28
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Episode 27:Saying No Is an Act of Self-Love
In Episode 27 of The Fairy Elephant Effect, we delve into the transformative power of saying "no" as a profound expression of self-love. Discover how setting boundaries can enhance your emotional resilience, protect your energy, and le...
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Episode 27
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