Chaos & Caffeine - ADHD Parenting Podcast
Welcome to Chaos and Caffeine, where parenting gets real, messy, and fueled by endless coffee refills. Hosted by ADHD parent coach Danielle Kelly, this podcast dives into the beautiful chaos of raising neurodivergent kids, balancing life, and finding joy in the middle of the madness.
From ADHD hacks and emotional management tips to stories that’ll make you laugh, cry, or say awesome Chaos and Caffeine is your go-to resource for navigating the unpredictable world of parenting. Whether you’re looking for expert advice, relatable stories, or just someone who gets it, grab your mug and join the conversation.
Parenting isn’t perfect, but with a little caffeine and a lot of community, we’ll get through it together. New episodes every week!
Chaos & Caffeine - ADHD Parenting Podcast
Raising a Neurodivergent Child Through Grief & Growth: A Raw Conversation with Author Daryl Potter
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In today’s powerful episode of Chaos & Caffeine, Danielle sits down with Daryl Potter, author of Even the Monsters, to dive into the brutal, beautiful truth of raising a neurodivergent child while navigating grief, loss, depression, and the identity-shifting spiritual journey that comes with it.
This is not your typical ADHD parenting episode — it’s honest, unfiltered, and deeply validating.
Daryl opens up about the emotional weight parents carry, the moments no one prepares you for, and the raw reality of loving a neurodivergent child through heartbreak, hope, and healing.
If you’ve ever felt alone, overwhelmed, misunderstood, or scared you’re “not doing enough,” this conversation will feel like someone finally turned on a light in the dark.
Whether you’re parenting an ADHD, autistic, or otherwise neurodivergent child — or you’re navigating your own mental health while trying to show up for your family — this episode holds space for you.
Listen in for:
- The grief and identity shifts neurodivergent parents never talk about
- How spiritual growth and parenting collide (and sometimes explode)
- What Daryl learned raising his neurodivergent child
- A reminder that you are not alone in the hard parts
- Hope, healing, and honesty without toxic positivity
If this episode resonates, share it with another parent who needs to feel seen today.
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Danielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.
Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.
Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:
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Danielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.