Hope Beyond Betrayal: Healing from Porn Addiction & Infidelity

#61 - Why Men Lose Motivation in the Work — And What Can Motivate Them

Eileen & David Posadny Episode 61

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In this episode, David and Eileen discuss how many men in recovery fall into one of two categories: those who don't believe they have a real problem, and those who admit it but resist doing the actual work to change. This episode unpacks why traditional motivators — guilt, shame, or simply "getting caught" — rarely produce lasting change. Ultimately, inward motivation will fade and it requires someone coming along side you to see you through the hard times as you grown and develop internal motivation.

Continuing to share their own experiences (and some car and house analogies), David and Eileen explore the real truths of helping a partner heal from betrayal trauma and how accepting that can provide a more secure motivation to the guy who finds it hard to motivate himself.

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