Work From Bed Friday

Choosing What You Have: Come As You Are Chapter 9

Amy Hoffmann & Tommy Borden Season 3 Episode 12

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In this last chapter of Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are, Amy & Tommy discuss the the practice of happiness, how Nagoski misses the idea of play, and how we are all swimming in a patriarchal hot tub. Also, cross-body bags and DECIDING. To decide is to educate your monitor. It totally works.

Mentioned in this Episode:

"What Science Knows About Grief" in The New Yorker

DTF St. Louis

Hot Jason Bateman

Ted Lasso

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph. D.

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins

Magnificent Sex by Peggy Kleinplatz, Ph. D. and A. Ménard, Ph.D.

Muistardeaux Collective


Original Music:

Song: Sleepy Little Heart

Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth

Album: Shong's Order


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Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.