Chris and Jen in the Morning: Self-Care Conversations on Personal Growth, Happiness, and How Our Brains Work

Guilty Pleasures, Guilt & Shame: Why We Judge What Brings Us Joy

ChrisandJenITM Season 1 Episode 34

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In this episode, Chris and Jen unpack the idea of “guilty pleasures” and ask a bigger question: why do the things that bring us joy so often come with guilt or shame? They explore the psychology and neuroscience behind guilt, the cultural and social norms that shape how we judge indulgence, and how guilt is often used as a tool for control rather than care.

Through personal stories and thoughtful discussion, they examine the difference between guilt and shame, the impact of social perception, and how our relationship with pleasure changes when we recognize time as finite. The conversation encourages listeners to find balance, build inner confidence, and enjoy life’s small pleasures with more intention and less self-judgment.


https://www.calm.com/blog/guilty-pleasure 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/overthinking-tv/202011/guilty-pleasures-are-just-pleasures

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Chapters

00:00 Guilty Pleasures: A Deep Dive
06:36 Understanding Guilt vs. Shame
16:44 The Psychology of Indulgence
20:47 Understanding Guilt and Shame
24:06 The Impact of Social Perception
26:15 Finding Inner Confidence
29:30 The Finite Nature of Time
32:52 Guilt as a Social Construct
35:58 Cultural Control through Guilt
41:02 The Role of Guilty Pleasures
42:11 Balancing Indulgence and Responsibility
47:44 Outro

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