Out Of Her Mind with Kobi Pollock - The Podcast

Lie #5: “I Don’t Want to Be a Burden” (Why This Is Keeping You Stuck & Disconnected)

Kobi Pollock Season 3 Episode 45

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This is lie number five in the Five Lies Killing Your Calm series…
“I don’t want to be a burden.”

It sounds harmless.... even selfless and this belief is quietly keeping you stuck, disconnected, and carrying everything alone.

In this episode, I unpack what this lie really looks like in everyday life, the “I’m fine,” the holding it all in, the overthinking about who you can or can’t open up to.

Because the truth is…
You’re not protecting others by staying silent.
You’re making yourself invisible.

We explore:

  •  Why you feel like “too much” (and where that comes from) 
  •  How this belief impacts your nervous system and relationships 
  •  The hidden cost of always being the “strong one” 
  •  Why connection requires visibility 
  •  Practical ways to start opening up safely (without overwhelm) 

Plus, I’ll guide you through my S.L.O.W method to help you move through the moment when you feel like shutting down.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, unsupported, or like you have to handle everything on your own this episode is for you.

You are not a burden, you are a human who needs support sometimes.

If this resonates please share it with another woman who needs to hear this and don’t forget to subscribe so we can get this message into more women’s lives.

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Thanks for tuning in to Out Of Her Mind with Kobi Pollock, it's in these conversations, the true meaning of  WOMEN DON'T HEAL ALONE, WE HEAL IN THE REFLECTIONS OF EACHOTHER  becomes known.

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Until next time remember - you get to hold it all with grace, ease and joy. 

With love 

Kobi xox

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