The Unfiltered Daily
I’m Coach Curtis, your host, your performance coach, and quite possibly the only guy who’s gonna tell you the hard shit you don’t wanna hear… and do it with a smile. Or at least a well-timed fuck off.
Now, before we dive in, let me tell you who I am—because, honestly, I’m not your average “influencer” peddling some half-assed eBook on how to live your best life. I’m the real deal. I’m a husband—second go around because, yeah, life’s messy, and sometimes we screw it up before we get it right. I’m a proud dad of three daughters who keep me grounded and occasionally question my sanity. I’m also a former slugger in baseball—played at the highest levels, swung a big bat, and yeah, I’ve still got the swagger.
I’m a guy who’s been through the fire. I battled addiction—booze was my poison. I used to call myself an alcoholic, but I don’t anymore. Because here’s the thing—the way we talk to ourselves shapes who we become. More on that later, but for now, just know this: I’ve been at rock bottom, and I climbed my ass out.
I love nice shit—cars, watches, a perfectly cooked steak—but I’m not out here flexing for the ’Gram. And I’m definitely not the clown shirtless on your feed yelling, “Buy my course to level up your life!” Fuck that noise. I actually coach. I actually care. And I actually get results.
So, if you’re looking for some cookie-cutter, overly positive life advice—you’re in the wrong place. But if you want real talk about performance, parenting, life, and all the messy, gritty parts in between—buckle the fuck up.
The Unfiltered Daily
Optics Are Bullshit
In this episode, Curtis Pelletier dives deep into the concept of optics, discussing how they often mask true values and identities. He reflects on his experiences in sports and business, emphasizing the importance of authenticity over curated images. Curtis challenges listeners to confront their fears and the societal pressures that lead to living for optics, advocating for a more genuine approach to life and performance.
Takeaways
- Optics often mask true values and identities.
- Living for optics can lead to a lack of authenticity.
- The pressure to maintain a curated image is pervasive.
- True strength comes from acknowledging weaknesses.
- Mental performance is often overlooked in favor of optics.
- Authenticity is more valuable than societal approval.
- The danger of optics is losing touch with reality.
- Facing the truth is essential for personal growth.
- Optics can create a false sense of security.
- Choosing authenticity over optics can lead to true fulfillment.