The Mindset U Playbook

# 62 - Gary Dhillon - Identity

Curtis Pelletier Season 1 Episode 62

In this conversation, Gary Dhillon and Curtis Pelletier explore the concept of identity, discussing how it is shaped by self-talk, environment, and social media. They emphasize the importance of authenticity over the facade of 'faking it till you make it.' The discussion also touches on the impact of parenthood on identity, the role of positive reinforcement, and the potential for individuals to redefine their identities at any point in their lives. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their self-image and the narratives they create about themselves.

Titles

  • Redefining Identity: The Journey of Self-Discovery
  • Faking It vs. Becoming: The Truth About Identity

Sound Bites

  • "You can't fake consistency or character."
  • "Identity is shaped by self-talk and beliefs."
  • "You can change your identity at any point in life."

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Identity and Boundaries

02:16
The Dangers of Faking It

03:38
The Reality of Consistency and Identity

05:55
The Impact of Self-Image on Identity

09:30
The Importance of Long-Term Health Over Short-Term Goals

11:29
Cultural Influences on Identity

14:23
Identity in Recovery and Personal Growth

17:54
The Role of Self-Talk in Shaping Identity

21:55
Rediscovering Identity Beyond Parenting

23:38
The Challenge of Identity in Retirement

26:03
The Importance of Continuous Growth

27:55
Identity and Change

30:49
Building New Habits

33:47
The Power of Environment

36:33
Rewriting Your Life Script