Journey To 30
There’s no perfect roadmap for life, parenting, or marriage—but after 30 years together, we’ve learned a few things along the way. Through highs and lows, laughter and lessons, one thing has remained constant: our deep love and unwavering commitment to each other.
Join us on this 30-week journey as we share the real, raw, and redemptive moments that have shaped our marriage. From practical wisdom to hilarious mishaps, we’re pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to build a love that lasts. Buckle up—this road trip is one you don’t want to miss! This is our “Journey To 30”!
Episodes
30 episodes
Guardrails In Marriage
Every marriage, just like a tour bus going up the side of a mountain, needs guardrails. The guardrails aren't intended to be restrictive. As a matter of fact they are designed too keep things in place as life gets busier and busier. There are s...
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Season 1
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Episode 27
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47:49
The Power of An Apology
Sometimes in marriage it's easy to underestimate how powerful an apology is. You ability to do so can take your marriage from average to amazing. In this episode Gary and Tammy explore the apology landscape and what it really means to be emotio...
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Season 1
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Episode 26
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43:31
Intimacy Beyond The Bedroom
In this episode Gary and Tammy are exploring what it means to know each other in a deep and meaningful way outside of the bedroom. One of the greatest gifts you could ever give to your spouse is the willingness to know them in a way that touche...
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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54:39
When Church Meets Marriage
In this episode Gary and Tammy explore the terrain of balancing marriage and, "Fill in the blank". For them it's ministry, but for you it could business, children, extended family etc. You want to be sure to lean on this one. There are a lot of...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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48:26
Dating While Married
In the episode Gary and Tammy explore the vital importance of keeping the spark alive in marriage. At some point the children will be gone and there will be no more band practice, dance recitals, summer camps or the like. So building in the dir...
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Season 1
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Episode 23
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45:35
What ATL Taught Us About Marriage
This week's episode has a bit of twist and turn. For the very first time Gary and Tammy are recording the podcast on the road. This episode finds them in the great city of Atlanta, GA fresh from the Podcast Summit. This past week they had the c...
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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39:26
The Power of Oneness
In this episode Gary and Tammy are exploring the beauty of being one in marriage. There are enough happenings in life that will naturally come to pull at the fabric of your married life. Take every opportunity to strengthen your relationship so...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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47:39
Married...But Still Part Of A Family
Whether you like it or not people are not truly individuals they are a small piece of a larger collage called a family. They come from traditions, backgrounds and ideals that are completely different from you...but that's a great thing! If you'...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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56:12
The Misconceptions of Marriage
For many couples entering the marital space the ideas and concepts espoused can often be influenced by television or media of some sort. But you must remember those things are scripted and have a predetermined outcome. Marriage is not lik...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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52:45
Is This Still Working?
One of the absolute worst things you can do is not attend to the maintenance on your vehicle. Well the same sentiment is true of your marriage. If it is not well maintained through honest communication and intimacy the engine of your marriage w...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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52:33
Don't Give Me What's Left
In this episode Gary and Tammy explore the terrain of marriage in the context of intentional time spent. Whether it be in the marriage, family, business, career or even beyond giving your family your leftovers is a recipe for disaster. Your fam...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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1:03:06
Fight Right- How To Disagree Without Destroying Your Relationship
This week Gary and Tammy deal how to convey your concerns, disagreement and even your disgruntlements without destroying the fabric of your relationship. Having disagreements are par for the course. How you communicate them is where your emotio...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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1:17:48
Foundations: The Principles That Made Us Work
Every successful organization in the world has guiding principles. In order for your marriage to work you should treat it like and world class foundation. In this episode Gary and Tammy share some foundational principles of their marriage that ...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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51:31
You Are Valuable - Full Father's Day Edition
For years Gary and Tammy endured things in their marriage because of information that was missing from Tammy's life. As time progressed and language was able to be given for what Tammy was experiencing it made life easier for them to navigate t...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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1:03:07
You're Valuable (Podshot)
Pssst... dear listener...guess what? This isn't a full episode! I know, I know, you're thinking, what's up with that? Well we're releasing this potshot because we want to jump back in here with us later today as Gary and Tammy release this full...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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1:38
If It Makes You Uncomfortable
In this episode Gary and Tammy explore the terrain of relationships that can potentially be dangerous to the marriage. You'll find that relationships, whether it's friendships with those who are the same gender as you or opposite sex friendship...
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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1:00:36
We Grew Up Together
One thing is for sure, your children are always watching. That's not a bad thing at all it's just truth. This week Gary and Tammy are interviewing babies A & B, Shai Salter-Presely and Shameria Salter-Roland. This one is enough to make you ...
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Season 1
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Episode 12
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1:20:27
Raising, Releasing & Respecting
One of the most daunting tasks for parents would have to be learning how to allow your children to become. It's not that you we don't trust, sometimes its just that letting go can be difficult. This week Gary and Tammy relive some of the trying...
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Season 1
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Episode 11
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59:19
When I'm Not Okay
This week Gary and Tammy delve into the hard conversation of how to deal with your spouse when they are not oaky. You won't always be the best version of yourself. the blessing though is when you have your spouse who sticks it out with you no m...
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Season 1
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Episode 10
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1:45:07
Raised In The Room With Love
This week Gary and Tammy have brought along two of their faves in the entire world, their two youngest children Sierra and Sanaya and a cameo by their oldest grandchild, Brooklyn! This episode deals with the viewpoint of their children as they ...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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1:09:30
We're Not The Same
This week Gary and Tammy are digging into the notion of being different and how we can be better because of it. Just as the man and the woman are anatomically different they are also different intellectually, emotionally and psychologically. Th...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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44:56
We Tiiiiieeeedddd...
Sometimes when you see people who are moving at a high rate of speed it's easy to understand their sacrifice! This week we are the poster children for tired. Everyday this week it's been up by 4am, out the door by 4:30am, work our entrepreneuri...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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6:58
The Little Things Matter
Because of how we're wired we can tend to think certain things don't matter. Well that may not be true. There are acts of kindness and thoughtful gestures you may be foregoing not realizing your spouse really needs it. Let's jump into thi...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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52:51
Whose Dream Is It Anway?
One of the greatest gifts one spouse can gift to another is to support what the other wants to do unwaveringly. As a spouse you should be your spouse's greatest cheerleader especially when the steam in that engine does not have to come from you...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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45:49