Hang In There

25. Beyond Coercive Control: To My Partner- What Safe Love Feels Like

Hang In There Season 1 Episode 25

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"Something in me began again. And this time, I wasn't imagining it. I was living it."

For years, she dreamed of a different life while lying on a basement floor.

Someone kind. Someone steady. Someone she could trust. Someone who would love her children. She could see it. She could feel it. And then reality pulled her back- up the stairs, mask on, keep going.

She had no idea that life was already on its way.

This episode is a love story.

A letter written to the person who found her again after everything, and chose to stay.

A waving emoji sent with shaking hands after 25 years of silence. Hard chairs and three hours that disappeared. Learning that stopping along the way was allowed. Feeling like an adult again for the first time in a long time.

And what happens when someone shows up with safe, steady love, and stays. Even when it's hard. Even when it's heavy. Even when the past comes back all at once.

For survivors still learning what safe love feels like after trauma, this one is for you.

For the partners choosing to stay and love someone through it, this one is for you too.

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