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Brandon Held - Life is Crazy
One man's life, journey and point of view. Listen to my life's journey. Maybe you find it entertaining, maybe it resonates with you, maybe you feel like you can learn from it. Either way, I hope anyone can listen and find a place to share life stories and experiences. Allow everyone to learn from each other to reinforce our place in this world. To grow and be better people and help build a better more understanding society.
This podcast discusses sex, has adult language and adult themes. This is intended for 17 and over. If you are under 17, you should receive your parents permission before listening to this podcast.
Brandon Held - Life is Crazy
Episode 28: Divorce: The TRUTH They Don't Tell You Pt.1
Brandon Held shares profound insights from his three divorces and how these experiences have shaped his approach to his current marriage. He explores the evolution of his self-awareness and the lessons that failure taught him about relationship success.
• First marriage at 19 while in the Air Force was driven by practicality and loneliness
• Second marriage resulted from giving in to an ultimatum despite knowing he didn't want to get married
• Third marriage lasted 12 years but failed partly due to the significant age gap and a lack of respect
• Learning to balance personal interests like football watching and video gaming with relationship responsibilities
• Daily communication is essential for maintaining connection
• Trust without transparency isn't real trust
• Applying the golden rule in relationships helps guide behavior and decision-making
• Healthy relationships require compromise and adaptation from both partners
• No successful relationship exists without some level of mutual accommodation
