Tiny Little Hearts Podcast: CHD and Heart Mom Life

27. Host to Host: Two Medical Mamas on NICU Life, CHD, and Milestones

Katelyn McMahan Season 1 Episode 27

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This week on Tiny Little Hearts, Katelyn sits down with Alison Winter — host of the Trauma Mamas podcast — for a special host-to-host conversation. Both are navigating medically complex motherhood from different diagnoses (CHD and BPD), but their journeys share more in common than you'd expect.

Alison's son Donny was born at 28 weeks, weighing one pound twelve ounces, and spent nearly two years in the hospital before coming home in October 2024. Katelyn's daughter Goldie, who has CHD, is now two and a half and finally in a beautiful season of stability.

In this episode, they discuss:

  • Donny's journey with BPD and the connection between IUGR and severe lung disease
  • What it feels like to finally be home — and how "normal" gets redefined after years of hospital life
  • The milestone comparison trap: navigating jealousy and finding peace with your child's own timeline
  • How siblings of medically complex kids grow into extraordinary humans
  • Medical parenting as a first-time mom vs. a parent with previous children
  • What they wish they'd had during their hardest seasons — and the one thing well-meaning people say that doesn't actually help
  • Why healing often begins after you're finally safe
  • The power of cross-community connection for medical moms

Connect with Alison & Trauma Mamas:

  • Instagram: @traumamamaspodcast
  • Facebook: The.Trauma.Mamas
  • Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts

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