Tiny Little Hearts Podcast: CHD and Heart Mom Life

29. A Mother’s Day Message for the Heart Moms

Katelyn McMahan

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This Mother's Day episode is dedicated to every heart mom navigating the unique weight of medical motherhood and congenital heart disease parenting. Katelyn reflects on honoring the heart moms who came before us — including her own grandmother, an unsung CHD mom from the 1950s — and opens up about grieving the motherhood experience you didn't get when your child is medically complex. She gets honest about hitting rock bottom, the financial strain of leaving work to become a full-time caregiver for a medically complex child, and why self-care for heart moms doesn't have to be expensive — it just has to be intentional. Whether you're in a season of stability or deep in the thick of hospital life, pediatric heart surgery recovery, or CHD advocacy, this episode will remind you: you are an incredible mom, and your child is lucky to have you.

In this episode:

  • Honoring the heart moms who came before us — including the OG CHD moms with no internet, no community, and no roadmap
  • How becoming a heart mom changes the lens through which you see motherhood
  • Grieving the pregnancy and motherhood experience you didn't get
  • The unique mental and physical exhaustion of being a medical parent
  • Hitting rock bottom and why asking for help is not weakness
  • The financial reality of leaving work to become a full-time caregiver
  • Practical, budget-friendly self-care tips for heart moms
  • How to communicate your needs so Mother's Day actually fills your cup
  • A reminder that you are enough — no matter what stage of the CHD journey you're in

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Keywords: Heart mom / CHD mom, Medical motherhood, Congenital heart disease parenting, Medically complex child, Full-time caregiver for a medically complex child, Self-care for heart moms, NICU life, Pediatric heart surgery recovery, CHD advocacy


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