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Reclaim Session w/ Ashley Brown

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Ever notice how one heated moment can rewrite the story—casting you as the problem while the real issue slips into the background? We go straight at that trap and unpack the quiet ways we hand over our power: explosive reactions that cost credibility, silence that breeds resentment, and people-pleasing that looks kind but leaves us empty. Through raw, funny, and candid stories—from a Chuck E. Cheese confrontation to navigating racial disrespect with composure—we explore how to stay grounded when others expect a performance.

Ashley opens up about military life as a Black woman and the pressure to fit the “pit bull” stereotype, sharing how calm leadership can be more effective than volume. We walk through what it means to be strategic under stress: when to speak, when to document, when to step back. The conversation moves into trauma, therapy, and the long work of rebuilding self-worth. Fear still knocks, but it doesn’t get a vote. If you’ve ever felt stuck in loops of overthinking, muted needs, or relationships that drain, this is a roadmap out.

We get practical with boundaries that actually protect peace—saying a full-stop no, skipping environments that sabotage growth, and setting standards in dating and friendship that add rather than subtract. We talk parenting as a mirror for power, leaving toxic patterns when our kids start to dim, and choosing purpose over approval through daily habits that build momentum. Faith undergirds it all—naming God as the source of courage and the anchor that steadies every step. Hit play to learn how to hold your center, keep your voice, and move forward with intention. If this spoke to you, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs strength today, and leave a review to help more people find these conversations.

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SPEAKER_00:

Welcome back, everybody. Welcome back to Be for You podcast, where we burn the pear, break the cycles, and become unstoppable. And today, welcome back. I'm beautiful sister, Ashley Brown. And today we're here to talk about how we how we take back our power. And I'll ask my uh Ashley to come on here and let's just have a conversation about it.

SPEAKER_01:

Hi Ash. Hello.

SPEAKER_00:

Oh the shirt. Love the shirt. Why am I just now seeing the shirt? The shirt is amazing that you made that yourself, Didn't you?

SPEAKER_02:

I added some of them on there. It wasn't enough, so I put some more on there.

SPEAKER_00:

No, okay. So let me ask you when you hear um the phrase talking about giving away your power, what comes to mind? What comes to mind when you when you think about how you've given away your power?

SPEAKER_02:

Um it's something I like I always teach my kids. You never allow somebody to know that they got power over you. So how I look at it is is I'm showing somebody what it is that can make me tick, what it is that can like break me down or put me so low that they kind of like control me. And I've been teaching, but especially my son, I've been teaching him this for the longest. You don't never allow anybody to know or to be able to see that something that they did made you that mad or got to you that bad that they now have like permanent space in your brain, like that's all you're thinking about is that so live in a ring free rank free. So okay.

SPEAKER_00:

Yeah, can you can you share a time when you realize that you gave your power away? I'm I mean, I know it's been many a time. Give me that one example that you can remember where you just lost it.

SPEAKER_02:

Oh, just recently. So um at my son's job, one of his managers, like she was talking to him crazy. But when I'm around, you know, as a whole, hey Kiki Kiki, how you doing? And I realized that me going up there hot, I came in hot, like hot. I walked in Chuck E. Cheese, everybody's trying to say hi to me. I was like, nope, not you, not you. You move you right here outside. Let's go. Like I felt like because that was my child, that's how I needed to go in there. But after I thought about it, I was like, you know what? Let me calm down because there's too many things that can happen in situations. One being I can go to jail for child endangerment because I'm whooping somebody's tail up and chuck and cheese or whatever. But and then the other, I'll be taking away from my kids. So I'm coming to defend my child, but I'm in here acting a fool. And it kind of at that particular time, I'll I realize that I allow her to have power over me because while I'm acting a fool, she over in the corner just standing there. So it looks like I'm the one, you know, that's in the wrong. And I'm like, God, I just let this girl got. And I wanted to beat her even worse after that.

SPEAKER_00:

Yeah, what now what race was she made?

SPEAKER_02:

She was black.

SPEAKER_00:

Okay.

SPEAKER_02:

She was black. She um she tried my child and she will never try him again because after I calmed myself all the way down, my boyfriend had to come up there. I calmed myself all the way down, then I caught myself just extremely calm, and that scared her even more. That I'm just talking to her regularly, like, hey, the next time you feel like you want to do this, this, and that it took me six minutes. It's only gonna take me three minutes next time, you know. Just explaining to her very calmly that I will break you in half about my child. And it's now she does not know how to take me because I don't let her know if I'm mad, if I'm sad, she knows nothing now. It's always the same face. I had to take my power back because she had it for a moment now. She had and you know what?

SPEAKER_00:

That's the it's it's all about like trying to train your brain. I'm gonna speak about a little bit about what's going on now at today's age, because now the white they are on go, they are on go right now, they got the the gold at the ass card right now, and I've been watching a couple of videos. I watched this one video with this young lady and her mother was on a cruise, and she uh was uh allowed to go on a uh like the upper deck of the ship, and she was authorized to do so, but she didn't have the bracelet that I was for. So there was a white couple on that uh part that you know realized that they didn't have the band on or whatever, so it was really disrespected, and I mean, was talking about them trying to get them off. I mean, it was they went through a series, and to make this long story short, the way she handled herself, like this girl could have really gone off the way they was just talking about her, like belittling her racial comments, like you don't belong up here, and you're kind of you can't afford to be up here, it was some it was something to that nature, but she kept her composure the whole entire time because what they were trying to do is get a rise out of her, yeah and she handled it so professionally, and that's another thing that I would really like to talk about, like for people today, like including me, because I live in a predominantly um white area, and every day that I, you know, I'm doing things in the community, and you know, some people are rude and disrespectful, and I have to say to myself, don't do it. Don't do it. They want they want the nigga to call it a part, you know. They want you to be that angry black woman to act a nigger as they say, and you know, it's like you know what, and a nigger just means ignorant person. So I don't put a color on the on the word, you know. So they wanted that, they want sometimes that angry black woman. But what I would say to people out here that you know, take look at some of these figure out another way to handle ignorance. You know, I look at another way to handle ignorance because you want me to act a certain way the mad black woman, but instead I come back with intelligence. I come back to let them know that hey, I'm just as intelligent and I deserve and I have every right to be standing in the same space that you're standing in because I worked my way to get here. So that's uh um uh one thing about thinking that's I think that's like the top thing that keeps a lot of people cool today about not acting like they expected to act. And I applaud the people of color because they're really doing, they're doing it. There's a lot of people doing it. There's a lot of people I've seen a lot of videos where airplanes were, you know, um it was a woman, a black woman that was being disrespected, and the white man did not know that there was a big black man, he just kind of picked them up by his shirt and sat him down in the seat. So, hey, I mean, you know, but we just have to pick and choose when is the best time, yeah. Oh, or not when is the best time, but learn that when things and struggles come upon us, you know how we're gonna handle them without giving away so much of our power where we lose ourselves. And I know the um uh some of the examples where we give away our power is people pleasing. Whew.

SPEAKER_02:

So go ahead. With that, um, maybe this is where people call me mean or whatever, maybe it's the Leo with me or whatever, but I have never really cared about what somebody else thought about me. So I've never tried to be that people pleaser, but on the flip side of that, I'm always the one that wants to make sure that everybody else is okay first. So I don't know if that's considered a people pleaser, but in my head, I don't really think it is.

SPEAKER_00:

No, but I think I'll go ahead. Let me tell you not a people. You're not a people pleaser. A people pleaser is me, and now you know from where I was, I had a big old group of uh of girlfriends, of sisters. That I just had this. Look, that's me. That's me because my whole my whole thing, and and now that I'm starting to realize it was trauma from my past that made me want to make me into the people pleaser. Always wanting to, are you okay? Are you all right? Do you need anything? Here, let me be your friend, let me show you love because I realize that I'm trying to please these people to show them how good of a person I am.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah, and then a lot of the times you see pieces of yourself in somebody, and it's like, well, nobody tried to help me. Let me try to help them somebody else. And it's like we can't fix other people. We try, but a lot of the time trying to fix other people really makes it worse for you.

SPEAKER_01:

Break it down, they're breaking down.

SPEAKER_02:

It's helping them, but in the meantime, all of their weight is like getting put on you, and it's like, God, I'm trying to help them, I'm making it worse on myself because now I'm remembering when I was in this place.

SPEAKER_00:

And then what happens once you get them there?

SPEAKER_02:

You get them there, they good, and now you back to and they look, they look, they looking at you, you know, that you want to they you they got what they needed from you now.

SPEAKER_00:

You all out of energy, busted and disgusted, and some help, and they like they got nothing for you, not even not even a five-minute phone call to see how not even a two-second. I'll break it down to a two-second phone call to say, hey sis, how you doing? Everything good, haven't heard from you. But you know, people please and people, some people will drain you, they get all that they can from you, and then you look around for the help and nobody is there. Now you have some you know, friends or family members that you don't have to talk to all the time, but you can pick it right back up and say, Hey, how you doing? What's been going on? Now that's fine. You know, I will give another example of giving your power away. And I think one of those examples is saying silent out of fear. What do you got that? Woo! Well, come on now, because somebody needs this help, somebody needs this deliverance because this is a serious topic, right?

SPEAKER_02:

It's like it's it's almost like a toxic trait that you possess and don't realize that you possess it because it's one of them things like I'll take a relationship, for instance. You're in a relationship that you got so many things that you dislike about it, but you don't want that person to get mad at you by saying something to them. So you sit there and it's like, well, I guess it's not that bad. And you suffering in silence, you draining, you you just walking around like a zombie, and that other person is like, you know, extremely happy while you y'all out in public. That person is and you're you know, you know, it's crazy. But I I'm not gonna lie, I did that for a long time, and then it took us getting into an argument, that particular relationship, it took us getting into an argument, me saying that stuff, and then he's like, Why you just didn't tell me? I'm like, I'm upset because it's like, oh, that's all I had to do, just tell you, and I'm telling you, and it just after opening up and saying what my problem was, I ain't had the problem since. And it's like, that's all I had to do. And I'm sitting here suffering side as I am sitting here, like, you know how sometimes us as women, we go through these whole scenarios in our head. We just made up a whole month worth of stuff in your head, ain't nothing ever happened, and it's like you're just piling it onto what you already have going on when all you gotta do is say, Hey, I don't like that you're gonna say good morning to me in the mornings or something like that. You know what I'm saying? And it'll change like that.

SPEAKER_00:

The power of your voice, the power of the tongue is a is a powerful thing, it is powerful. I'm gonna go and say that I was saying piling out of fear from a trial trauma. My cousin was the first to take my vision. And I didn't understand, I think I was under the age of 12. And because he was so mean and you know, like really scary, you know, you're like, and I'll I'll throw it hard to say. I think I was maybe about, I don't know, I had to be about eight. I was very young, I was very young, and when you go through those situations and somebody, you know, and that's the kind of you know, um, people that I want to help too, young children, young people who have been made by fear to silence themselves so they don't say anything, they don't say anything, and then the cycle just keeps going and you keep being afraid. That's why I raise my children to tell them don't you ever everything, tell me everything. You tell me everything. If somebody tells you that you better not tell because I'ma do this, I'm gonna do that. I let my know my children know I'm a warrior. Can't nobody do nothing to me. You tell me that you're going to see what I do. So I you know, talk about breaking those cycles, breaking those cycles of fear, you know, and staying quiet, you know, when we need to stuff. Some things we should be quiet on, you know. That's where something, you know, like I said, know the difference when it takes back your power or how to take back your power. You don't always have to be aggressive, and then silence is not always a good thing to be silent, speak your speak your truth, and then the other thing is living by others' expectations. Now we military now. Come on, come on. Sorry, first class, living up to others' expectations. I know we could talk about that just for my goodness.

SPEAKER_02:

It being military was like extremely hard. Being a black female in the military, and on top of that, the type of female I am, like, you ain't about to just tell me anything, okay? That is not gonna work with me, and you ain't about to get crazy with me because the energy you give me, trust me, understand. I'm gonna times about four and give it back to you. Don't play. I don't, I don't care who you are, don't play with me. But it's like I've been told before that um, like when I was a drill sergeant, I had a first iron literally tell me he's like, Hey, you know, we need you to be like the erg, you know, like the pit bull. I'm like, are you the breeder or something? Like, what you mean? You need me to be a pit bull. Why I need to be the pit bull, it's all these other female drill serns, but I was only black female drill cern at the time, so it's like, because I'm the black one, I gotta be the pit bull, I gotta be the enforcer, I gotta be the rah-rah rah, but that's just not how I was. Like, I'm one of them, I was one of them drill serns that I would yell sometimes, but sometimes it was so much easier to just walk behind a private, talk real low behind and scare the living ish out of them by talking calm. I didn't have to expect down and screaming, but it's like they expect it because I was I'm not I'm only five four, so you know I'm not that tall, but they was expecting it the to have the little the little angry black woman, you know what I'm saying? Like, get out of here.

SPEAKER_00:

I think I was as a leader, I never wanted to be looked at it like I was so for me, it's like uh you're not carrying so many lieutenants and commanders, majors, whatever, female people carrying this stuff, and like what you know, so sometimes the expectation in the military kind of look like uh you're you're a woman. You're a woman, so therefore you're weak. Therefore, you can't do the same thing that a male can do. And I think that's why a lot of our female soldiers now take that challenge and they're going into ranger school, they're doing up, you know, they're becoming Marines because I think some of us get sick of that expectation, so we're a woman, so we can't do what a man do. But I've seen females rock a piece of test better than the male soldiers, you know. So I always was like, I didn't want anybody to just, you know, carry my bag or you know, help me through something. I worked hard to get to the ranks that I worked through because I wanted that expectation of being a woman not to be with me or me because I was a soldier before I even joined the military. So this is why we have to do a like reclaim of power. We need to learn how to reclaim our power. Me reclaiming my government, standing, standing up when no one's looking, reclaiming my power, me. I will say the biggest thing that I when I learned to reclaim my power was 2023. And this is what I talked about how, you know, and I'm not ashamed to say that I went to mental health, I went to a PTSD survey, and I reclaimed my power because I realized that all those things of past and of childhood is what stole my power and the reason why I stayed silent, the reason why I didn't, you know, do a lot of the things that I wanted to do is because out of fear. Today I'm not I'm not gonna say that, hey, I'm completely completely healed. I still run through fear, but what I learned is that I have the power to stick to that fear and move it out of my way. So, what did reclaiming your power look like for you? Um is it a moment that you like you know, like I said, I went to therapy and learned where my my trauma came from. That gave me the strength and the healing. It has to be a story where you realize that I'm taking ashes, I'm taking my power back, you have no more control.

SPEAKER_02:

Um I think the best example I can give is uh with uh an ex I had. Once I realized it was affecting my son, and it was affecting his behavior, it was affecting his happiness. I was like, Yeah, hell no. Uh-uh. I'm taking everything back, I'm getting rid of him because he was toxic as I don't know what. And I'm I'm getting back to being me. I'm not getting ready to just be mad about something, not saying nothing, then walk around the house, pouty face, man, whatever the case being, and that energy brows off to my son. Like, I'm not doing that. Once I saw that he was not happy, he wasn't in a space of just being his regular self. Yeah, no, I had to take it back because it wasn't just ruining me, it was messing with my child too.

SPEAKER_00:

If anybody, everybody knows your children are number one in your body, always, always have been. And I applaud you for that. Yeah, children will do it too, and that as everyone knows, I have five children and nine in total, and that's that's another that's you're right. That's another reason why, and my grandchildren. I got 18 of them, so it's like I look at them like I am the example, we are the example for our children. Because if you don't, then yes, I think that it's okay, right?

SPEAKER_02:

That's the other thing. I'm like, yeah, nah, because he ain't about to grow up, be no mm-mm, no to hell, and nah, she ain't about to see this at the time. She was just a baby baby, but hell no, she ain't about to see it either.

SPEAKER_00:

And that and that is good for women who are out here being abused. Okay, you don't want to stay in a toxic relationship or stay a certain way. All you have to do is just look at your children and say, What do I want for them? Because my head mashed me and we can talk all day about how to take back your power, how some of the things, but it takes listen to the audience, you know. And you know, e for you is about guiding people through their traumas, breaking through, breaking through the pain, breaking the cycles, burning through the past, becoming unstoppable. But we can have these talks, but to be realistic, it really takes you. It takes you. You have to make up in your head, in your mind, what you want for you, or else it won't work. It won't work, it won't work. You know, we've all been through suicide, we've all been through the top is a roughest situation. But I would say that it took me to say three hours more, three hours more, and for I want to give you guys some steps on that for the who is listening right now. I want to give you some steps how to reclaim your power. And let's talk about boundaries. Boundaries, boundaries is one thing, uh, one way that you can can reclaim your power. Set some down. Yeah. Give me an example of a boundary that you say how to claim.

SPEAKER_02:

Um, well, I've never had a problem with saying no. I think it's the way you say no, to be completely, you know, 100% sure. Like it's not just a I don't think so. It's just a flat out. No, I'm not gonna do that. No, that's not happening. No, it's not gonna go this way or whatever. You gotta be confident in your saying no. Um other boundaries. Um people have to know when enough is enough. People have to know, like, my piece is more important than this whole situation. My piece is more important than the craziness you're talking about, the craziness you're doing. So people understanding that you come, you you have to come first in your own life. You got to choose yourself first before choosing other people because you get like what is it? Self-love, self-care, self-help. You have to have all of that in order to be able to have it for anyone else. In order to love somebody else properly, in order to care for somebody else properly, you got to have that first for yourself. If you can't have that for yourself, how nowhere? You know how to do it for somebody else.

SPEAKER_00:

The boundaries for me are the same thing. It's just setting that that um that that boundary right there to say, hey, you know, these are the things that I don't like from the start, even when meeting girlfriends or meeting new friends, like, well, these are the things I don't I I do, these are the things I don't do. Like, hey, you know, I'm cool if you know you're smoking weed, but hey, I that's just not something I do, you know, setting the boundaries or you know, uh for people who are alcoholics. I deal with people, a lot of people who are alcoholics, you know. And if you're trying to fight alcohol, listen, you know, you don't go out there, go out to the bar with friends, you know, you accept everything, and who cares what they say, you know, what I'm saying, uh, because you oh you're you're corny, you're lame, you're this, you're that. Well, I'll be what you say I'm gonna be, but I know that I have all alcohol problems, so I'm not about to go to the bar.

SPEAKER_02:

What kind of friends learning so I'm learning how to deal with what I'm dealing with. So if you don't want to be a part of that, exactly, you know.

SPEAKER_00:

Uh being a married woman, you know, uh marriage to me now marriage is different to everybody. Some married couples don't mind their significant other going to a strip in the charge household. That's enough. That is enough. That is enough. Because I lived in that realm, I were while I worked in that realm. I know how easy temptation is. Yeah, my name was Sing Baby. I hang from that pole. That was that was my younger day. So for me, they're coming through. For me, for me, you know, I know how to that's another thing. Learning to say no, because I know my limits.

SPEAKER_02:

I'm not gonna put with that though. I don't care. Go to a strip club, you touch anything, or anything here touches anything, on popping. I'm on the way. Best believe, understand, and no. I don't mind because I feel like I'm trying to sound vain enough, but I feel like I got all my man's attention. So let me tell you something.

SPEAKER_00:

I look at the entertainment world. Cardi B, beautiful, Beyonce, beautiful. They have these men have the most beautiful women and they still want back to what's good here.

SPEAKER_02:

I don't know. It's not about it's not all about how they look though. Like, how are they at home when their relationships? How are they? You got Cardi B and Beyonce both said they don't cook. I don't cook, I don't clean. Let me come on.

SPEAKER_00:

Okay, well, you know what? I digress. I'm gonna back out from that. But I say I I protect myself strip clubs, and I I tell my husband, I'm very transparent. Look, you get me in the kid, things are swinging and I'm looking, then that that opens the mind. That opens the mind to let things in. And I know that I'm a beautiful woman, I know my husband loves me without the shadow of a doubt. But if you're going in there and you're watching naked women, then I must be doing something wrong. Then I mean, because I don't understand why you have the need to want to do that.

SPEAKER_02:

So if they're not a frequent flyer, you know what I'm saying? If it's a thing like once, okay. All right. Now, frequent flyer, now uh uh time out. Hold on, buy your pole for the house. I got you. Throw your money in me and I'm keeping it. Don't ask me.

SPEAKER_00:

Look, that's what you want. And look, I could be anybody who wants me to see. I go on a red wing. Uh I can do that.

SPEAKER_02:

I got the millions of hats. Don't let me go.

SPEAKER_00:

You know, that's that's just my thing. And when people or my my girlfriends ask me to go, I just I just don't. I just don't. I'm just saying no. And another way is uh choosing purpose over purpose over approval and daily practices that read and for myself. So I will say that for um that one right there is a that's an everyday thing for me. Every day I wake up, I am practicing because I was always uh looked at or told that I was a or this or that. So when somebody says that, oh, you're so beautiful, you have the good skin, I'm like, what are they looking at? And then I say, hey, hey, hey, hey, back up. Wait a minute now.

SPEAKER_02:

Bring it back, bring it back. Bring it back.

SPEAKER_00:

I am beautiful. Thank you for that. Because yeah, and you know, I had this thing like, oh, I'm not beautiful, don't say that. Don't don't say that, you know. And then I, you know, so daily practice is just to reinforce to know yourself worth, don't let anybody take from you what they didn't give you in the first place, you know, and I teach that amongst my family. Stop letting people take things from you that they didn't give in the first place. But the reason why we allow them to take it is because we're gonna know who we are. Look, we're gonna have church in a minute, you know, because if you reinforce your self-worth, if you have a significant other that doesn't want to rise, I look, I just told one of my daughters the other day, you know. I told her, I said, if you're looking for a soulmate, if you're looking for a partner, because she tends to find herself in a relationship where she's always trying to bring the man up. Well, first of all, if you get with somebody, that's what I mean, coming to the table knowing what it is. Is first. Ask questions. Okay. If you're out there and you're dating and you're meeting someone, you need to see because you got the table. You need to see what somebody is bringing to that table. Okay. You got the bread, the eggs, the meat, the cheese. I got the table. I got silverware. What are you bringing? Don't set yourself up to where you have these high expectations of someone when they, you know, not to say that the person, you know, is a bad person or the wrong person. It's just that, you know, what's wrong with being friends? If that person is not on your level and able to add to you, and they come in taken away, drop the mic. Drop the mic. You know, you don't have to do if somebody is not, which because I know me and you, we've been through some things in our relationship. And I'm not about to let nobody come in and destroy what I built. And when I met my husband, he was a warrant officer. So it was like, I knew what I wanted. Like, hey, I knew that uh I wanted my credit score to be a certain uh at a certain level. I wanted my bank account to be at a certain level, and then you you come to the come to the table. So that's that's just some of the things that um people really need to realize when they're out here in the dating realm, in the workforce, all of that. Just boundaries, learning to say no, choosing your purpose over approval, daily practice of re-inself and self-work. Because if you don't think more of yourself, nobody is gonna do it for you. Nobody is gonna do it for you at all. So um burn burn the fear, break the cycle, become unstoppable. And I would just say um that we talked a little bit about the things that we had to burn to make it through the cycles that we had to break. Let's talk about who we are becoming now. Throughout all the things, Ashley, that you went through in your life. And you know, we talked, I'm sure those have seen your story before. And that was just, you know, uh, that was just really the surface of you explaining how you went through your child childhood problems of losing nothing. So all the things that you have went through today, who are you becoming now that you proclaimed your do you see a better you?

SPEAKER_02:

Um, I see a stronger me, I see a more focused me. Um, I see more driven side of myself. At times I'm like, I know I can do this, but ain't nobody gonna support it or whatever case being. But now it's how I can do this. You don't support me or well, somebody else will. That's how I'm looking at it now. I'm not worried about if somebody's gonna support me, I'm worried about do I have enough done for people to support me.

SPEAKER_00:

There you go. Hello. That's good. That popcorn drive coming up, right? That's good. That's good. That's good. That's it. That's that that is that is one way. I will say for me now that I have now that I'm becoming walking into my purpose. Um, the way that I reclaimed my power, the way that I will say I'm reclaiming the power is every day I'm waking up telling fear, you don't belong here. That's my biggest thing. My biggest thing is fear, fear over death, fear over, you know, even with this podcast. So people not gonna watch it, or what I'm saying, you know, I and you know as well. I now have gotten to the point where I don't care who's watching or not. I care about the people who need the help who hear the message, right? Messages that throughout all that we have been through, I will say for me, God is the number one per the number one being who has kept me throughout all my trials and tribulation. And that's the purpose for the platform to let those know that without the without God, without that spirit, the Holy Spirit that lives in us all, if we just tap into that, we are some powerful, powerful, powerful evil. And that's how I'm reclaiming my power today. So we are going to definitely come back, Ashley. I thank you for coming on the show and partnering with me and talk about how we could take our power back. And we're gonna hear a lot about this. And um, I can't wait for the release of my book. They take back. That is my message. That is the message because today we need to teach people to guide people how to take how to take back their power. Take that power back, keep it, and keep moving on. It ain't always gonna be good days, but just learning to be in control of ourselves and of the power that lives within us. And we will uh definitely, definitely um become unstoppable and excel in life. So thank you for tuning in to today's episode. Remember, you don't have the power, powerless. God gave you authority to rise, reclaim, and become unstoppable. Thank you for another second for being reached.

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Bye.