In the Grey
Life, identity, and everything they told us not to talk about. Because life isn't black and white.
Episodes
24 episodes
I'm back.... with Toxic Love and Betrayal
Sometimes the people who hurt us the most aren't strangers. They're the people we trusted with our hearts.In this episode of In the Grey, we explore the painful reality that not everyone who says they love you wants to see you s...
When You Realize You’re the Problem
There’s a moment most of us try to outrun.Not the moment someone hurts us. Not the moment something falls apart.But the moment we realize we’re not just reacting to life…we’ve been contributing to the patterns we keep fin...
You Can Be a Victim and Still Be Toxic
Being hurt doesn’t automatically make you safe to be around.In this episode of In the Grey, we sit with one of the most avoided truths: trauma can explain behavior without excusing it—and unresolved pain can still cause real har...
Being Hurt Doesn’t Automatically Make You Right.
Pain has a way of convincing us we’re justified, justified in our words, our silence, our distance, our anger. But hurt isn’t the same thing as truth, and suffering doesn’t automatically grant moral authority.In this episode of In the Gr...
Why We Can’t Communicate: Mirroring, Deflection, Playing the Victim & Listening to Respond
In this episode of In the Grey, we’re unpacking the real reasons communication collapses — not in theory, but in the everyday moments when we emotionally mirror someone instead of supporting them, when we deflect instead of taking resp...
Coming Back, Breaking Down, and Christmas
🎙️✨ Hey friends… I’m officially BACK.After taking some much-needed time off social media, I’m here — rested, graduated, slightly unhinged, and more grounded than ever 😅🤍.In this catch-up episode, I open up about why I stepped away, w...
The Entitlement of Millennials
"Are millennials really entitled—or just misunderstood?" In this episode of In the Grey, we dive deep into the millennial stereotype: the belief that rules apply to everyone else but us. From the roots of entitlement to th...
High Functioning But Falling Apart
Some of us don’t miss a deadline. We show up, smile, check on others, and get the job done. On the outside? Calm. Collected. Capable.On the inside? Tired. Hollow. Quietly unraveling.This episode is for the ones who look fine...
Stuck in the Silence: When a Loveless Marriage Becomes Home
What happens when the vows are still intact, the house is still shared—but the love feels like it disappeared years ago? In this episode of In the Grey, we explore the quiet grief of being in a loveless marriage. We talk about emotiona...
Should Men Still Be the ‘Providers’ in Relationships?
If being the provider is your entire personality, what happens when the money runs out?Let’s talk ego, expectations, and partnership in the modern world.
Starving Our Future: How SNAP Cuts Are Leaving Kids Behind
Kids should never have to earn their right to eat.The latest House bill cuts billions from SNAP—and leaves millions of children behind. In this episode, we confront the ugly truth: hunger is now policy. And the most vulnerable are...
Why Juneteenth Matters
🖤❤️💚 Freedom delayed is freedom denied. Juneteenth isn’t just Black history—it’s American history. In this episode of In the Grey, we unpack why Juneteenth matters, why its history is often overlooked, and why recogniz...
Why These Lyrics Go Against the Real American Ideal
Patriotism isn’t about threats or violence—it’s about protecting freedom, even when it’s uncomfortable. In this episode, we unpack why the lyrics to “Try That in a Small Town” go against the very ideals the United States claims to stan...
Why Pride Month Matters (And Why There’s No Straight Pride) 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
🌈 Pride didn’t start with a party — it started with a protest. In this episode of In the Grey, we’re unpacking why Pride Month matters, the truth about the Stonewall Riots, and why straight people should be grateful they don...
The Process of Becoming
Transformation doesn’t happen overnight—and it’s rarely clean. In this episode, we explore the messy, beautiful, and often uncomfortable journey of becoming who we’re meant to be. From letting go of old identities to embracing growth that feels...
Finding Joy in Your Authentic Self
In this episode of In the Grey, we explore what it really means to live authentically—and why it’s so hard to get there. From unlearning expectations to embracing your truth, we talk about the messy, courageous journey of stepping into...
Breaking Up with Toxic Friends
Friendship breakups can hurt just as much—if not more—than romantic ones. In this episode of In the Grey, we’re diving into the hard truth about toxic friendships: how to recognize them, why we stay too long, and what it really takes t...
Trans Rights, Trans Lives
In this powerful episode of In the Grey, we sit down with a guest from the trans community to talk about what it really means to live, exist, and thrive as a trans person in today’s world. From the fight for basic human rights to perso...
Society says kids, I say bullshit!
Everyone says kids are the next step—get married, settle down, have children. But what if that’s not your path? In this episode of In the Grey, we challenge the default narrative around parenthood, question the pressure to have kids, a...
Motivation Is A Liar
We’ve all waited around for motivation to strike—but what if that’s the biggest lie we’ve been told? In this episode of In the Grey, we dive into why motivation can’t be trusted, how momentum and discipline carry more weight, and what ...
The Lies Insecurities Tell Us
Insecurity has a voice—and it’s a liar. In this episode, we unpack the quiet, damaging lies our insecurities whisper to us: You’re not good enough. You don’t belong. You’ll never measure up. Sound familiar? You're not alone. Join...
Religion, but make it real.
In this episode of In the Grey, we’re diving into religion—not the version that’s wrapped in fear or perfectionism, but the real, messy, human side of it. We’ll talk about faith, doubt, deconstruction, and why questioning isn’t t...