Talking with Emma: The feminist health coach
Talking with Emma is the podcast for women who are tired of feeling like their health is the one thing they can’t get sorted.
I’m Emma Wright — feminist health coach, author, and someone who knows exactly how exhausting it is to live like not matter how much you try, the way you eat and look is never quite “good enough.”
After years of controlling my food, exercising harder, and constantly feeling like a failure, I discovered something different — and more powerful:
Coaching tools that break free of patriarchal structures so you can powerfully change the way you think and feel - and take charge of your health the way you want to.
Each episode, I’ll share the exact tools I use with clients who want relief from the mystery of why health feels so confusing and out of reach — and who are ready to reclaim their power, with the calmness and confidence to reach for their goals.
If you’re ready to see where patriarchy has infiltrated the health and wellbeing industry and kept you in a cycle of blaming yourself and keeping yourself small, this podcast is for you.
📥 Want to go deeper?
Download the Midlife Body Image Assessment — a free tool to help you uncover what’s really going on beneath the food and body noise that patriarchy is very happy for you to have, so you can start feeling more grounded, confident, and in charge.
Curious about working together?
I’m currently welcoming new 1:1 clients. Book a no-cost consultation where we’ll talk about how to achieve the health goals you have and what kind of support you need to do that, and of course, whether coaching with me feels like the right fit.
Talking with Emma: The feminist health coach
14: Avoiding Photos is a Safety Issue, Not a Vanity Issue
Avoiding Photos is a Safety Issue, Not a Vanity Issue
Have you ever avoided being in a photo, untagged yourself on social media, or felt instant dread when someone pulled out a camera? You might think it’s about vanity — but in this episode of Talking with Emma, I explain why it’s actually about body image safety and nervous system survival responses.
We unpack how decades of diet culture, midlife body image pressures, and unrealistic beauty standards have trained our brains to see unflattering photos as a threat to belonging — and why that instinct runs deeper than simple self-consciousness. I share my coaching tool, EXPECT IT, to help you break free from the exhausting “fix-it” loop and start feeling more confident in photos, at work events, and in everyday life. Plus, you’ll hear how my client Maria used this strategy to step in front of the camera without fear or shame.
If you’ve been wondering how to feel confident in photos, overcome photo anxiety, and stop letting mirrors or images wreck your day, this episode is for you.
⏱ Timeline Highlights
[2:15] - Why avoiding photos isn’t about vanity, but nervous system safety.
[5:48] - How cultural beauty standards and diet culture create an impossible “ideal.”
[9:21] - The brain’s ancient need for belonging and how it drives body image anxiety.
[14:02] - The never-ending “fix-it” loop — and why it keeps you stuck.
[17:35] - The EXPECT IT tool: how to anticipate and navigate triggering moments.
[21:10] - Maria’s story: using EXPECT IT to feel confident in professional photos.
[27:18] - Building midlife body confidence without changing your body.
Links & Resources:
🎧 Download the Midlife Body Image Assessment + audio guide. It helps you see what’s really driving your food and body noise — and what to do to get relief.
Curious about working together?
I’m currently taking private clients. Book a no-cost consultation where we’ll talk about your goals and see if I’m the right coach to support you.
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