A WHOLE Convo

Be So For Real - Would You Date You?

Ella and Ymane

We’re back with a cheeky little fun Convo for you this week as we ponder on whether we would date ourselves….


In a world where dating is available in the palms of our hands🤳 and we can gather matches in the blink of an eye we get into how we feel we would match up for potential suitors. Are we the most attractive version of ourselves? Would we put the time into dating ourselves?


In this lighthearted WHOLE Convo we touch on:


  • Doing the work to evolve and be appreciated
  • Relationships as a great playground for self development
  • Meeting people in a “modern era”
  • Making self study a priority - giving to ourselves BEFORE giving to another
  • Instant culture v sacred union


The conclusion is - one of us would… and the other one would not date ourselves…can you guess who is who👻?





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Ymane Lakhlif https://www.instagram.com/mindbodyveda?igsh=MWFuZWk1aTBkM21ocw==

Ella L. Oliver https://www.instagram.com/domusspiritus?igsh=cnhkdjhia25nM2xt&utm_source=qr