Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.
Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are.
Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power.
But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast.
Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth.
Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free.
Around here we explore:
• Conscious creation & creator identity
• Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning
• Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence
• Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler. - it's time to play!
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
🎙️ Podcast #48 You’re Not the Problem. Your Nervous System Is Protecting You
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Most people think they are the problem.
But what if the real issue isn’t you — it’s the unconscious identity your nervous system built to survive?
In this episode, Dustin Wheeler explains how your survival programming formed in early childhood, how your self-conscious mind learned “how the world works,” and why your nervous system continues to replicate what feels familiar — even when it’s limiting your growth.
You’ll learn:
- How identity forms between ages 0–4
- Why your nervous system resists expansion
- The difference between contraction, stabilization, and expansion
- Why forcing growth leads to collapse
- How to retrain your nervous system to feel safe in what you desire
- Why your identity is chosen, not fixed
Your survival identity was never the problem.
It was created for you, by you, out of love.
But it may be outdated.
Conscious creation isn’t about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about remembering who you are and retraining your unconscious to automate your superpowers toward what you’d love to create.
If you’re tired of expansion highs followed by collapse, this episode will give you clarity and relief.
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