Spiritually Kinky: Creating the Path to Being Fully Seen, Deeply Felt & Wildly Free
Spiritually Kinky is a podcast about conscious creation, personal transformation, nervous system awareness, and reclaiming your authentic identity.
Hosted by Dustin Lea Wheeler, this show explores how to break inherited patterns, move beyond self-sabotage, and create a life aligned with who you truly are.
Dustin teaches the shift from living as the oldest version of your past self into the youngest version of your future self, helping listeners recognize the “Not-It Identity”—the survival identity formed in childhood to belong and stay safe—and step into their creative power.
But this isn’t your typical self-improvement podcast.
Welcome to Spiritually Kinky—the playground for your wild soul and untamed truth.
Here we ditch the masks, question old conditioning, and remember how powerful it is to be fully seen, deeply felt, and wildly free.
Around here we explore:
• Conscious creation & creator identity
• Breaking inherited patterns and generational conditioning
• Nervous system awareness and emotional intelligence
• Purpose, power, pleasure, and authentic self-expression
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
If you’re ready to stop fixing yourself and start creating the life you were meant to live, welcome to the Spiritually Kinky revolution with Dustin Lea Wheeler. - it's time to play!
All with a wink… and a whip of wisdom.
Episodes
70 episodes
🎙️ Episode #69 The Light Behind Michael Myers | James Jude Courtney on Shadow, Consciousness & Human Potential
What if the actor behind one of cinema's most terrifying characters is also one of its most conscious?In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, I sit down with James Jude Courtney, the man behind Michael Myers in the Halloween
🎙️ Episode #68 Knowing Better Isn’t Changing Your Life
Most people think their life will change once they understand themselves better.It won’t.Because knowing isn’t what changes your life.Building does.In this episode, I share a behind-the-scenes look at a week that did...
🎙️ Episode #66 How To Collapse The Illusion You’ve Been Building Your Reality From
What if your life isn’t stuck…what if it’s reinforced?You say you want more freedom.More peace.More truth.A life that actually feels like yours.But the moment you get close to it…you hesitate.You soften your voi...
🎙️ Episode #65 What Are You Afraid to Lose? The Real Reason You Keep Choosing the Same Life
What are you actually afraid to lose?Because it’s probably not what you think.You say you want more freedom, more peace, more truth, a life that actually feels like yours. But the moment you get close to it, you hesitate. Y...
🎙️ Episode #64 The Cage Nobody Talks About: Why Success, Healing & Achievement Still Leave You Feeling Trapped
What if the thing you think is trapping you isn't actually what's trapping you?Most people spend years trying to improve the conditions inside their cage.A better job.More money.A healthier relationship.
🎙️ Episode #63 Why You Don't Trust Yourself (And How to Rebuild It)
Most people think they struggle with trust because they've been hurt by other people.But what if the relationship that's hurting the most is the one you have with yourself?In this episode of Spiritually Kinky, I'm exploring...
🎙️ Episode #62 The Secret Fear Nobody Wants To Admit
What if the thing you've spent your entire life trying to fix... was never broken?In this deeply honest episode, Dustin Wheeler explores one of the most painful and universal fears many people carry in silence:The fear that...
🎙 Episode #61: The Erotic Tension of Becoming
What if the reason you feel exhausted…is because you keep trying to become one thing?Only healed.Only certain.Only powerful.Only “aligned.”But life doesn’t move in straight lines.Life...
🎙️ Episode #60 The Dangerous Lie of Alignment
What if the reason you feel stuck… isn’t because you’re broken — but because you’ve been taught to worship your emotions as truth?In this deep and emotionally raw episode, Dustin Wheeler explores the dangerous lie behind “feeling ...
🎙️ Episode #59 The Loneliest Part Of Becoming
What happens when life hurts… and you still have to choose whether you’re going to stay open?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler shares a deeply honest conversation about grief, emotional resilience, nervous system regulation, and the part o...
🎙️ Episode #58 The Lie of the Perfect Path
Why do so many people stay stuck waiting for the “right” decision?Why do high achievers overthink themselves into exhaustion… even when they deeply want more from life?Because most people unconsciously believe ther...
🎙️ Episode #57 (Part 3 of 3) Why You Go Back to the Same Patterns (Even When You Know Better)
You didn’t fail.You didn’t lose your progress.And nothing is wrong with you.So why does it feel like you keep going back?In this episode, we explore one of the most misunderstood parts of personal growth:Why c...
🎙️ Episode #56 (Part 2 of 3) You’re Not Broken… You’re Overloaded: Why Nothing Is Sticking
You’ve done the work.You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, and tried to “fix” yourself more times than you can count.So why does it still feel like nothing is fully changing?In this episode, we explore the real r...
🎙️ Episodet #55 The Lonely Path: The Part of Becoming No One Talks About
Most people will tell you that following your purpose feels aligned… expansive… exciting.But there’s a part they don’t talk about.The part where it gets quiet.Where the validation disappears.Where you start questioning eve...
🎙️ Episode #54 (Part 1 of 3) You’re Not Stuck… You’re Looping - And You Don’t Even See It
You don’t actually have a motivation problem.And you’re not stuck.But you are repeating something.In this episode, we break down the hidden pattern that keeps recreating the same emotional experiences in your life — no matt...
🎙️ Episode #53 Why You Feel Like Something Is Wrong With You (It’s Not What You Think)
There are seasons in life that don’t make senseThe quiet ones. The heavy ones.The ones where nothing is technically wrong…but everything in your body feels like it is.In this episode, I take you inside one...
🎙️ Episode #52 You Don’t Need to Heal — You Need to Decide
What if the reason manifestation isn’t working… has nothing to do with how much you’ve healed?What if the real reason you feel stuck… is because healing quietly became the place you’ve been hiding?In this episode...
🎙️ Episode #51 No One Talks About This Part — When Love, Loss, and Life Collide
Most personal development and manifestation advice will tell you to stay positive, shift your mindset, and keep your vibration high.But what about the moments when life feels heavy… raw… and completely out of your control?In this ...
🎙️ Episode #50 The Biggest Lie in Personal Development
What if the biggest lie in personal development is the belief that you must fix yourself before you can create the life you want?In Episode 50 of the Spiritually Kinky Podcast, Dustin Wheeler breaks down the hidden trap inside the self-h...
🎙️ Episode #49 Why Your Nervous System Resists The Life You Want (It’s Not Self-Sabotage)
Why does your nervous system resist the life you say you want?Most people believe they are the problem.But what if the real issue isn’t you—it’s the identity your nervous system built to keep you alive?In this episod...
🎙️ Episode #48 You’re Not the Problem. Your Nervous System Is Protecting You
Most people think they are the problem.But what if the real issue isn’t you — it’s the unconscious identity your nervous system built to survive?In this episode, Dustin Wheeler explains how your survival programming formed in earl...
🎙️ Episode #47 What To Do When Nothing Is Changing (The Truth No Coach Shares)
In this episode, I dismantle the high-vibe illusion sold across Instagram and TikTok and reveals the unsexy truth about conscious creation: it’s not about manifesting a life without storms. It’s about learning to face them without abandoning yo...
🎙️ Episode #46 When You’re Doing All The Work… And It Still Hurts
You can be doing all the nervous system work, shadow work, conscious creation practices… and it can still hurt.In this raw, grounded episode, Dustin Wheeler breaks the illusion of high-vibe spirituality and talks about what most coaches ...
🎙️ Episode #45 Stop Trying to Create a Pain-Free Life: Why Worth Is Blocking Your Wealth
What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t misalignment…but inner conflict?In this raw, honest episode, I unpack why so many good-hearted, conscious people struggle with money, ease, and expansion—despite doing all the personal d...
🎙️ Episode #44 Borrowing Tomorrow's Sorrow (Raw, Real & Here)
There are moments in life where you don’t need another mindset shift — you need permission to stay present inside the storm.In this raw, honest episode, I share what it’s been like walking alongside my cat, Simba, for months with a condi...