UNFINISHED MEN
Unfinished Men is a podcast about the emotional lives of men, the silence, the pressure, the contradictions, and how those truths shape the world around them.
But this isn’t just a show for men.It’s for the women who love them.The children they raise.The people affected by their presence… or their absence.
This is where we unpack what men carry, what they don’t say, and how it echoes through families, love, work, and identity.
Some stories are told by men.Some by women.All of them are unfinished, and that’s the point.
Episodes
10 episodes
Money, Fear, and the Myth of Worth- The weight of Worth
Money isn’t just currency. Its identity.From the moment a boy becomes a man, he is measured by how much he can earn, provide, and carry.His worth becomes tied to his wallet. His value to his bank balance.But who ...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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9:25
Marriage- is it worth it?
In this reflection, I’m asking the question most people are afraid to say out loud:Is marriage worth it?Is it worth the emotional labor, the financial sacrifices, the silent compromises, the risks of heartbre...
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Episode 8
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6:17
Migration and Marriage – Part 2: When Women Choose Freedom
In Part 2, we explore the other side of this story: the women who carried everything, felt invisible, and eventually chose themselves.We talk about:✨ Why some women leave even after years of sacrifice✨...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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1:41
Migration and Marriage – Reflections & Advice for Men
In this short reflection, I share thoughts and reminders for men who have given everything in love and felt left behind.✨ How to protect your peace when you feel betrayed✨ Why your worth doesn’t depend on who...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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3:03
Migration and Marriage- Part 1: When Independence Breaks a Marriage
In this episode, we explore the stories of Nigerian men who gave everything to build a life abroad with their wives, only to watch the relationship unravel.We talk about:✨ Why gratitude is not always enough to sustain l...
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Season 1
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Episode 5
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4:18
Grief Or Content?, Why Everyone’s Posting Their Pain”
People used to go to therapy, to their elders, their friends, or even just sit in silence.Now?You break up today, and by evening, there’s a “Storytime” or “POV: When he cheated and thought I wouldn’t find out” video with bac...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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2:55
The Cost Of Struggle, People don’t know how expensive it is to be poor
They never tell you how expensive it is to be poor.You don’t just pay with money You pay with sleep,With silence,With sacrifice.I watched "Straw by Tyler Perry"And two lines bro...
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Season 1
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Episode 3
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3:19
Good Night, Bro: Why Can’t Men Say It?
A trend went viral: men calling their guy friends to say “Good night.”The reactions? Awkward. Funny. And… quietly heartbreaking.In this short reflection, I ask: Why is softness still foreign to men? Why does expressing care feel u...
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Season 1
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Episode 3
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1:47
The Why
This is the beginning.A personal voice note that became a podcast, a purpose, and a place for untold stories. In this short intro, I share why I created Unfinished Men, what inspired me, and why this space matter...
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Season 1
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Episode 2
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2:59
Sick, Silenced, and Disbelieved: Men, Abuse & Paternity in Crisis
What happens when a man says he’s hurting, and no one believes him?In this raw, voice-led episode, we explore the emotional toll of abuse, false accusations, and the silence around paternity doubts. These are not just stories, they’re co...
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Season 1
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Episode 1
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5:56