Female Ejaculation: Will Science Throw a Wet Blanket or Get Us All Wet?

Female ejaculation and squirting: What are they? Are they the same thing?

it’s one of the most debatedujhg, misunderstood, and myth-loaded topics in sexual health. Is squirting pee? Is it something else entirely? Is it even real? In this episode of the Shameless Care Podcast, Robert and Anna get (literally) fluid with the facts—digging into the history, the science, the controversy, and the personal experiences that keep this conversation flowing.

We start with our Foreplay segment, where we explore the rising (and eyebrow-raising) trend of “holetox”—yes, people are getting Botox injections in their anal sphincter to make receptive anal sex easier. We talk about what’s actually happening physiologically, the risks and benefits, and whether this is an innovation or just a social-media-fueled gimmick.

Then it’s on to the main event: what researchers actually mean by “female ejaculation” vs. “squirting,” and why definitions get so muddled. We cover fluid composition, the role of the Skene’s glands and bladder, and what the science says—plus how porn, culture, and sexual politics shape the conversation. 

Of course, it wouldn’t be the Shameless Care Podcast without a little fun—so we wrap with a joke about a magic penis sex toy involving a cop, a businessman, and his wife. Because science and humor go together like cookies and post-club coffee.

Whether you’ve experienced female ejaculation, wondered about it, or never thought twice, this episode offers science, stories, and plenty of laughs—without the shame.

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