Sex is Good Podcast
Sex is Good.
And we’re done pretending otherwise.
The Sex Is Good podcast exists to say the quiet part out loud: sex is fun, sex is normal, and sex is something adults get to enjoy without shame, fear, or bad information.
Hosted by the founder of a sex-positive telehealth company and a medical provider who actually understands how bodies work in the real world, this podcast breaks down the science of sex, STIs, desire, performance, relationships, and pleasure — without pearl-clutching, scare tactics, or outdated sex-ed nonsense.
We talk about the things you weren’t taught in school.
We unlearn the myths you were taught.
And we remind you that having a great sex life and taking care of your sexual health are not opposites — they’re partners.
Yes, we talk about STIs.
Yes, we talk about testing and prevention.
And no, that doesn’t mean sex has to be boring, stressful, or wrapped in shame.
You can absolutely have your cake and eat it too. You can have a wild, fulfilling, adventurous sex life and be informed, responsible, and confident about your health. In fact, we’d argue that’s the whole point.
This isn’t a sex story podcast.
It’s a sex science, sex truth, and sex freedom podcast.
Smart, evidence-based, irreverent, and unapologetically pro-pleasure.
Because sex is good. And we’re done pretending it’s not.
Sex is Good Podcast
Moan Science 101: Are Moans Performative, Learned, or Uncontrollable?
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Why do we moan during sex? Is it a natural, biological reflex… or something we’ve learned from culture, porn, and partners? Are moans performative — signals meant to turn on someone else — or are they raw, uncontrollable expressions of pleasure?
In this episode of the Shameless Care Podcast, Robert and Anna dig deep into the science of moaning, exploring the intersection of biology, psychology, and social learning. We trace moaning back to its evolutionary roots, looking at animal research and human sexual behavior studies to understand what our bodies are really doing when sounds escape during intimacy.
We also explore how moans are shaped by culture. In some societies, vocal expression of pleasure is celebrated; in others, it’s suppressed or even stigmatized. Pornography has amplified expectations about when, how, and why women (especially) should moan — raising the question: are we performing moans for partners, or truly expressing ourselves?
But moaning isn’t only about performance. Neuroscience shows that vocalizing can actually enhance sexual pleasure and orgasm by activating key areas of the brain, reducing inhibition, and deepening connection with partners. In other words, moaning can be both a natural reflex and a learned social behavior.
We’ll talk about:
•The biology of moaning: how sounds emerge from arousal, orgasm, and the nervous system.
•Cultural conditioning: why many of us have “learned” to moan a certain way (or at certain times).
•Moans as communication: how they signal arousal, consent, and satisfaction to partners.
•The psychology of sound: why hearing your partner moan often increases your own arousal.
•Whether moans are controllable — and why sometimes, they just aren’t.
This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered: am I moaning because it feels good, because I think I should, or because I literally can’t help it? We break down the science with honesty, humor, and zero judgment — because sexual health is about more than silence.
Whether you’re ENM, monogamous, curious, or simply interested in how sexual behavior works, this episode will give you a fresh perspective on one of the most recognizable (and misunderstood) parts of human intimacy.