4. 2 and a half tits between us - Mastectomy and Lumpectomy

In this raw and unfiltered episode of Bits & Boobs, Bianca and Dakota open up about the surgeries that changed their lives—mastectomy and lumpectomy. From the emotional weight of writing a “goodbye letter” to your breast, to the practical realities no one warns you about—drains, compression bras, pain management, and the mental prep before going under—this is the conversation you didn’t know you needed.

Bianca shares what it was like facing surgery at 21, navigating body image after cancer, and the unexpected challenges that linger years later. Dakota reflects on the countdown to her own mastectomy, her fears, hopes, and what’s helping her feel ready for such a major shift. Together, they tackle the questions no one asks, the grief that comes with losing a part of your body, and the fierce resilience it takes to keep moving forward.

If you’ve ever wondered what this chapter of the cancer journey really looks like—or want to better support someone you love—this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and deeply moved.

Content note: This episode contains candid discussion of surgery and recovery. Always seek professional advice for your own medical decisions.

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