Found at 40
Turns out, life doesn’t come with a manual—but it does come with a podcast.
Found at 40 is a podcast for women in midlife having honest conversations about relationships, work, parenting, and figuring out who we are in this season.
Each week, guests over 40 share their best lessons, hilarious moments, and wisdom that only comes from surviving the ultimate group projects of marriage, motherhood, and careers. Together, we talk through the chaotic season of shifting identities, evolving marriages, growing kids, perimenopause knocking at the door, and the quiet panic of reinvention.
It’s what we’ve learned now that we’re finally old enough to know better—and still occasionally do it anyway. Because midlife isn’t a crisis… it’s just incredibly well-researched content.
Welcome to the group chat you didn’t know you needed.
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Found at 40
When Your Life Plan Falls Apart: A Midlife Reinvention Story
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What happens when the life you carefully planned unravels — and you realize that it’s time to rebuild a completely new life? In this episode, Chrissi sits down with lifelong friend Melissa Griffiths (who is also the creator of the food blog Bless This Mess) to unpack a bold midlife pivot, from leaving a dream life behind to starting fresh across the country. Their conversation explores reinvention, resilience, family, community, and the messy magic of choosing change on purpose.
(0:00) 🎙️ Why chosen life pivots can feel scarier than unexpected ones
(2:00) ❄️ From Southern Utah sunshine to snowy Northern Vermont
(5:00) 🏡 Building a dream life with full confidence it would last forever
(8:00) ⚠️ When comfort turns complicated — early signs of change
(11:00) 💔 A major family business shift that changes everything
(15:00) 🧠 Navigating betrayal, grief, stress, and emotional overwhelm
(19:00) 🚚 Searching the country for a new future — and landing on Vermont
(23:00) 🏫 Moving kids, switching schools, and adjusting as a family
(28:00) 🌱 Grieving the old life while building a new one
(33:00) 🧘♀️ Nervous system healing, health shifts, and slowing down
(39:00) 🔄 Midlife reinvention, identity changes, and redefining success
(46:00) 👩👩👧👦 Friendship, community, marriage, and intentional living
(52:00) ✨ Advice for anyone at a crossroads — courage, connection, and what’s next
Follow Melissa (and her new Vermont life!) at @blessthismessblog or discover your favorite new recipe at her blog Bless This Mess
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