Los Doyers!!!!

Spencer skips a championship parade to sit in the pocket with Jelani—and what unfolds is a masterclass on legacy, presence, and the long game. Baseball becomes metaphor: the quiet between pitches, the pressure in the ninth, the heads-up play no one sees coming. Jelani celebrates his son’s white belt and the way confidence finds a voice. They talk work trips, restraint, core memories, and why the future of hip-hop might sound more like soul and gospel than streams and charts. If you’re building a family culture that feels like a team that knows how to win, this one’s for you.

TOPICS COVERED

• Choosing presence over spectacle when a city is celebrating
• Baseball as a living blueprint for patience, pressure, and precision under bright lights
• Reading the count: slowing down between pitches as a father, leader, and partner
• Taekwondo belts as a family ritual: voice, confidence, and intergenerational memory
• From white belt to worldview: why early wins should teach form before speed
• Work-trip discipline vs. “demon time”: boundaries, accountability, and self-respect on the road
• Investing in people like a GM: contracts, rosters, and how families build depth charts
• Streaming metrics vs. resonance: why charts don’t equal culture or legacy
• Hip-hop’s next chapter: soul, gospel, and what we want our kids to absorb
• Making core memories at home: small traditions that outlast public fireworks
• Coaching the household: standards that feel like safety, not surveillance
• When to call a timeout: rest, reset blocks, and breathing in high-pressure moments
• Language of confidence: teaching the body to match the message
• The long game of love: playing for October while showing up on a random Tuesday

QUOTES

• “Sometimes the loudest parade is the one in your living room.”
• “Belts don’t just measure progress—they teach the voice to match the strike.”
• “The long game of fatherhood is learning when to slow down so the moment can speed up.”

WHERE TO FIND US
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