The Rockyn YES Podcast - with Dr. Raquel Yarroch

Valentine’s Day: Choose You

Dr. Raquel Yarroch Season 3

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Valentine’s Day can bring up a lot—comparison, loneliness, pressure, grief, old stories, and the feeling of “why am I not chosen?” In this short bonus episode, Dr. Raquel Yarroch delivers a powerful worthiness reset to help you stop outsourcing your value and start choosing yourself—today.

You’ll reconnect to the truth that you don’t have to perform for love, chase love, or shrink to keep connection. This episode includes a gentle “Body Check” to notice where relationship stress lives in your throat, chest, and gut, plus a simple “Choose You” practice and one self-respect challenge for today.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • A Valentine’s Day worthiness reset (no fluff, all real)

  • The “Choose You” practice to anchor safety and self-worth

  • A body-based check-in for stress and emotion

  • The line that frees you: “I don’t chase love, I choose love.”

A one-step self-respect challenge for today

Timestamps 

00:00 Welcome + Valentine’s context
 01:10 The old stories that show up today
 02:35 Why we perform for love
 03:35 Body Check (throat/chest/gut)
 04:30 Choose You practice (worthiness statements)
 06:00 “Where am I negotiating my worth?”
 06:55 The rewire: “I don’t chase love, I choose love.”
 08:10 Partnered vs single—how to apply today
 09:15 One act of self-respect challenge + close



In This Episode

  • Why Valentine’s Day triggers old stories (and what to do instead)
  • Love without performing: stop auditioning for belonging
  • Body Check: throat/chest/gut signals
  • Choose You practice (hand-to-heart worthiness anchoring)
  • “I don’t chase love, I choose love” rewire
  • One act of self-respect challenge



Ready to Go Deeper?

If this hit home and you’re ready to get unstuck and become unstoppable (mind + body), check the links in the show notes for what’s currently open through Rockyn Health—including options like Release, Rise, and upcoming Retreats. Not sure what you need? Message “YES” and we’ll help you choose your best next step.


Connect With Dr. Raquel

Instagram: @dr.raquel_rockyn.health
Website: RockynHealth.com
Podcast: Rockyn YES: Your Empowered Self


Quick Note

This podcast is for education and inspiration and is not medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personal medical decisions.

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