Breaking Free: The Comparison Detox for Women

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Welcome to the The Positive Growth Doctor Podcast®! I am your host, Dr. Christina Wilson. 

Remember what it was like as an adolescent female? Have you noticed that not much has changed in how we compare ourselves to others? 

Don’t get me wrong. Some people choose to grow. In fact, psychologist Carl Rogers believed that we inherently have a tendency to do just that. We have an innate drive to develop our true potential. 

When we do not, there are a variety of variables at play, but ultimately it is a choice. 

We know that when growth occurs, our thoughts are congruent with our actions or behaviors. So if you are a perfectionist or lack self-compassion, that is reflected in those who fail to grow based on your thoughts and actions. 

In this episode, we do a deeper dive into the destructive concept of comparison. And I give you the tools for a comparison detox.

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Root Causes for the Comparison Trap in Women

Comparison is the act of evaluating oneself against others, often focusing on perceived differences in achievements, appearances, or abilities. 

This behavior is common and can sometimes motivate personal growth. However, it becomes detrimental when it leads to negative self-judgment and dissatisfaction.

In today’s world, comparison is amplified by social media, where curated images and highlight reels create unrealistic benchmarks. 

Women, in particular, may face societal pressures to meet certain standards of beauty, success, or family life, making comparison a frequent and sometimes subconscious habit.

There are two types of comparison.

Are you comparing yourself with others in a way that you negatively make judgments about yourself leading to dissatisfaction? 

Or, are you making judgments against where you wish to be in terms of your own personal growth?

This means that you are realistically looking forward to where you want to be in the future

Comparison Can Be Detrimental to Mental Health and Self-Esteem

1. Distorted Self-Perception: Constantly measuring yourself against others—especially those who appear to “have it all”—can lead to feelings of inadequacy. You might overlook your own strengths and accomplishments because they don’t seem to “measure up.”
2. Increased Anxiety and Stress: Upward comparison often creates a sense of falling behind or not being good enough, which can trigger anxiety. You might feel pressured to keep up with others, leading to stress and burnout.
3. Lowered Self-Esteem: When you focus on what others have that you don’t, it chips away at your confidence. Over time, this can erode your sense of self-worth, making you feel like you’re never enough, no matter what you achieve.
4. Feelings of Envy or Resentment: Comparison can breed negative emotions like jealousy, which can strain relationships and create a cycle of bitterness or dissatisfaction with your own life.
5. Loss of Authenticity: In an effort to match up to others, you might start prioritizing external validation over your own values and passions. This can disconnect you from your true self and lead to a lack of fulfillment.
6. Mental Health Challenges: Persistent comparison has been linked to depression, as it can foster a negative mindset where you’re constantly focused on perceived shortcomings rather than celebrating your unique journey.

What are your standards? Are they unrealistic? 

Social media and other platforms often showcase curated and idealized versions of people's lives. Comparing oneself to these unrealistic standards can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-worth.

We are created in a unique way in the image of God. Are you ready for what God has prepared you to be?

There is something so beautiful and so special about that. 

Is it time for a comparison detox? 

Strategies for a Comparison Detoxing

Here are some practical tips to reduce comparison in your life.

1. Limit social media use: Be mindful of doom scrolling and engage in positive posts instead that are uplifting and help you grow.
2. Practice gratitude daily - You can start your day with what you were thankful for the day before.
3. Focus on personal growth - Spend time in the morning with self-care or a learning activity. It might be a devotional to start the day on a positive note.
4. End the day with self-reflection and mindfulness practices as tools to foster self-acceptance.

I hope this helps! Remember, you are worthy. And you are loved.

Let's meet up again next week for another episode. 

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