Mindful Balance: Enhancing Women's Attention Span and Well-being in 5 Steps

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Welcome to the The Positive Growth Doctor Podcast®! I am your host, Dr. Christina Wilson. 

Women juggle many competing roles every day and are expected to have it all together.

This mental juggling can actually lead to cognitive overload. It  reduces the ability to focus on individual tasks and increases fatigue.

It’s no wonder why women often struggle to find time for self-care and personal interests. 

This lack of personal time can lead to burnout, increased distraction, and diminishes attention span and overall well-being.

In this episode, we will explore the intricate relationship between attention span and the everyday challenges faced by women. 

I offer insights into the mental load women often carry and provide practical strategies for enhancing concentration and reducing stress. 

You can expect to gain valuable tips on prioritizing self-care, setting boundaries, and fostering a positive mindset to navigate life's demands more effectively. 

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Understanding the Impact of Distractions on Women's Focus

I have a question for you. Do you find yourself “multitasking?” 

Perhaps you set out to complete an important task, and the next thing you know you are adding 2-3 more things at once.

I used to think, “Oh, look at me. I can multitask” while thinking it was a good thing. 

It turns out that is not a skillset. It is a bad habit!

The average individual’s attention span is estimated to be 8 to 12 seconds for tasks that require sustained attention without any particular interest or engagement. 

Attention span is dependent on the age, interest level, and the presence of distractions. It also varies by an individual’s personal habits, environmental factors, and cognitive abilities.

So, 8-12 seconds is an average. Distractions can significantly impact well-being, mindset, and increase self-doubt in various ways.

Our well-being takes a hit when distractions lead to stress and anxiety as it prevents you from focusing on tasks and responsibilities effectively. 

As a result, we experience feelings of being overwhelmed, as the constant switching between tasks can make it difficult to complete anything thoroughly. 

Ultimately, we can experience self-doubt when we don’t get things done.

You might question your abilities and feel less competent, which can further erode confidence. 

This cycle of distraction and self-doubt can hinder personal and professional growth, making it challenging to pursue passions or take on new challenges so you can grow.

Distractions can shift your mindset from one of focus and determination to one of scattered attention and procrastination. 

That is a rabbit hole you don’t want to go down! 

A distracted mind finds it harder to maintain a positive and growth-oriented mindset. 

Instead of concentrating on opportunities and solutions, you might find yourself dwelling on problems and setbacks, which can hinder creativity and innovation and lead to negative thought loops and cognitive distortions.

Balancing Roles as Women: Navigating the Mental Load with Mindfulness

Even though God set us free from bondage, we find ourselves as human beings, once again enslaved by the distractions of the world… our to-do lists and all the things we juggle. 

Maintaining that freedom is difficult because of our human nature. It takes work.

What patterns has God set you free from in the past? How did that feel? It’s frustrating when we get stuck in old ways again. 

In Galatians 5:1, we are reminded that He set us free and to not be burdened by those old ways. This is where mindfulness comes in. Catch those habits and old patterns. Be mindful of them, so you can turn from them. Strengthen your self-awareness. 

To mitigate these negative effects of increased cognitive load from distractions, it's important to create an environment that minimizes distractions, set clear goals, and practice mindfulness or meditation to enhance focus and clarity. 

When you do this, you can maintain a healthier well-being, build self-confidence, and foster a positive mindset that supports personal and professional development.

We develop these naughty habits due to the widespread use of digital devices and social media, which have been shown to impact attention spans. These things aren’t going away. 

Many studies suggest that the constant notifications and the habit of multitasking with digital devices can shorten attention spans over time.

Neuroplasticity is the brain's ability to rewire or reorganize over time. 

Research tells us that the brain is adaptable, and attention span can be improved through practice and training. 

This can occur through mindfulness practices, meditation, and cognitive exercises as they enhance focus and prolong attention spans.

When we are engaged in meaningful activities, our attention span is often extended. The level of engagement can significantly affect how well someone can focus on a task.

But we need to know how to effectively handle things that don’t keep our attention very easily.

Here are 5 tips to navigate distractions, create balance, achieve the freedom God gave you, and grow on your journey as a woman:

1) Balance Multiple Roles: Many women juggle various roles, such as being professionals, caregivers, friends, and family. This constant role-switching can lead to frequent distractions, making it challenging to maintain focus on any one task, thereby impacting productivity and increasing stress. 

My tip is to schedule tasks on your calendar to hold yourself accountable and start with the most difficult or less enjoyable task first to get it out of the way. 

This way you will not be bogged down by the negative thoughts about the task that will distract you during other tasks you set ahead of it. You will get it out of the way.

2) Workplace Challenges: In professional settings, women might face additional pressures, such as proving their competence in male-dominated fields or dealing with gender biases. These pressures can heighten stress levels, making it harder to concentrate and potentially affecting their attention span. 

My tip is to shift your focus away from, “I’m not enough” to who you were meant to be. You are not there by accident. 

Remind yourself that you earned your seat at the table and focus on how you can continue to grow and persevere. 

Consider using daily affirmations to remind yourself. You can place them in your notebook or your bathroom mirror.

3) Mental Load: Women often carry the mental load of managing household responsibilities, which involves planning, organizing, and remembering numerous tasks. This mental juggling can lead to cognitive overload, reducing the ability to focus on individual tasks and increasing fatigue. 

My tip is be aware of your stress levels and stress triggers. High stress levels can negatively impact concentration. So can anxiety and depression.

Stress management techniques, such as meditation, devotionals, physical exercise, prayer, breathing, or grounding can create a balanced lifestyle and can help improve focus.

4) Self-Care and Personal Time: With so many responsibilities, women may struggle to find time for self-care and personal interests. This lack of personal time can lead to burnout, further diminishing attention span and overall well-being. 

My tip is to set 15 minutes of time on your calendar to engage in self-care. You might also consider taking a short break every 30-45 minutes to stretch, go to the bathroom, and fill your water bottle. Throw in some deep breathing exercises before getting back to work. That will reset your mind and body for what’s ahead.

5) Societal Expectations: Societal expectations and pressures regarding appearance, behavior, and success can create additional mental burdens. These pressures can contribute to self-doubt and anxiety, making it difficult to maintain a positive mindset and focus on personal goals. 

My tip is to grab a free copy of my Confidence Workbook! It gets you thinking about things and personalizes for you. This link is in the transcript.  https://thepositivegrowthdoctor.com/confidenceworkbook

Here is a bonus tip!

Check out The Positive Growth Doctor’s social media on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn for the 7-Day Daily Challenges for this week called the #MentalClarityChallenge

I do a new challenge every Monday!

You can also join the 👉 Women’s Empowerment Group on Facebook from The Positive Growth Doctor to gain support with a new challenge to grow starting every Monday! I included the link in the transcript. 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewomensempowermentgroup

I hope this helps! I am thankful you are here to pour into yourself and know that you are loved!

Let's meet up again next week for another episode.