Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice
Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice — the podcast for women who are done waiting for “the one” and ready to become a parent on their own damn terms. We’re talking fertility, pregnancy, the emotional chaos, and the village it takes to raise a kid.
Sometimes you cry in the bathtub. Sometimes you're crying because your toddler bit you. And sometimes, you cry because you chose all of this.
Unfiltered conversations about solo motherhood—because doing it alone doesn't mean doing it quietly.
Episodes
39 episodes
Hot Mess Express
In this episode, we sit down with Brittinie Tran from Hot Mess Express, a women-led nonprofit creating a judgment-free space for women navigating life’s overwhelming moments.Hot Mess Express is built on the belief that no one has to go t...
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Episode 39
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34:29
Sometimes the Best Things Find You
Nicole’s journey to motherhood didn’t follow a typical path. Early menopause and unexpected challenges didn’t stop her from defining her own path.In this episode, we explore embryo donation, family surprises, and the importance of tellin...
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Episode 38
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43:31
Follow Your Inner Voice with Beth
Beth opens up about burnout in the tech industry and the moment her inner voice spoke up on a drive, leading her to choose single motherhood by choice. She shares what it’s like raising her daughter in some of the biggest tech cities, how she b...
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Episode 37
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43:58
Conservative Roots, Courageous Choices
In this episode of Choosing Chaos, we sit down with Laura Scrieber, a soon-to-be single mom navigating a rollercoaster of fertility and pregnancy. Coming from a strong conservative family, Laura shares the hesitation, courage, and love...
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Episode 36
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43:52
Pathfinder Birth Works
In this episode of Choosing Chaos, we’re joined by Caroline, owner of Pathfinder Birth Works, for an honest and empowering conversation about the role of a doula in pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.Caroline shares how doulas provide stea...
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Season 1
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Episode 35
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1:08:24
Jess’s Story: Navigating Egg Freezing, IVF & Immunology
In this episode of Choosing Chaos, we sit down with Jess to talk about what it really looks like to pursue single motherhood by choice later in life.Jess froze her eggs in her younger years, believing she was preserving an option for the...
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Season 1
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Episode 34
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42:07
Fine, I'll Just Do It Myself with Michelle
Michelle joins us to share the story behind her bold pivot to single motherhood by choice. After choosing to leave a relationship impacted by addiction, she found herself redefining the vision she once had for starting a family. Instead of wait...
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Season 1
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Episode 33
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57:06
Jackie: A Story of Choice, Community, and Connection
We’re sharing a story that beautifully expands what love and family can look like.In this episode, Jackie — a single mom by choice — opens up about her path to motherhood, from beginning her journey with a known donor to ultimately choos...
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Season 1
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Episode 32
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46:50
A Beautiful Path to Motherhood: Masha’s Story
On this episode of Choosing Chaos, I’m chatting with Masha, a mom of two sweet daughters, about her journey into motherhood — the joys, the challenges, and all the unexpected ways love and family show up along the way. 💛We also ...
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Season 1
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Episode 31
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55:25
So… I Became a Mom: Joni’s Story
In this episode, we sit down with Joni to hear her journey to motherhood through IUI — and how that experience helped her discover who she truly is. She opens up about life in the sandwich generation, balancing the needs of her child and her pa...
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Episode 30
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43:46
NICU Moms Speak: The Fear, the Love, the Strength
Birth doesn’t always go the way we imagine. In this episode, we reconnect with Kristen, Lindsay, and Annie as they share their honest and emotional NICU journeys — from fear and uncertainty to resilience, growth, and unexpected strength....
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Season 1
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Episode 29
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1:05:58
Science, Probability, and Kelley's Decision to Move Forward
In this episode of Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice, Kelley joins Laura for an honest conversation about the emotional realities of becoming a solo mother by choice.Kelley reflects on why relationships aren’t always eas...
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Season 1
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Episode 28
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47:34
New Year, Organized Chaos with Sage Haus
New year, same chaos—just better managed ✨In this episode, we’re talking all things organized chaos with Sage Haus and why having the right support can be a total game changer, especially for solo moms by choice. From rec...
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Season 1
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Episode 27
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32:39
Macaile Hutt on Podcasting & Aspiring to SMBC
In this episode, we’re joined by Macaile Hutt, the host and creator of Red Nail Energy — a podcast that centers bold conversations, real stories, and the power of choosing yourself.Macaile shares her experience as a podcast host, ...
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Season 1
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Episode 26
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1:03:11
Lara’s Story: Pregnancy, Loss, and Finding Light in Lockdown - Part 2
In Part Two of Lara’s journey, we step beyond the delivery room and into the tender, vulnerable chapter of bringing Max home. With the world still deep in the pandemic, Lara navigates early motherhood in isolation—learning to care for a newborn...
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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40:24
Lara’s Story: Pregnancy, Loss, and Finding Light in Lockdown - Part 1
In Part One of this two-part series, we follow Lara through her deeply personal journey to motherhood—a path shaped by the challenges of PCOS, multiple fertility treatments, and the emotional toll of failed IUIs and back-to-back IVF rounds. As ...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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46:52
A Known Donor, A New Beginning: J’s Story
In this episode, J—who joins us anonymously—shares her path to solo motherhood through at-home insemination with a known donor. Now navigating life with a lively toddler, J reflects on the beauty, chaos, and honesty of early parenthood. She spe...
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Season 1
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Episode 23
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54:56
Paige Dempsey on Dating with Intention and Becoming an SMBC
In today’s powerful, feel-good episode, we sit down with Paige Dempsey—SMBC mama, dating coach, and a woman who’s redefining what it means to build a life on your own terms. After conceiving her daughter in her 40s, Paige opens up about choosin...
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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57:49
Signature Donors with Victoria Crowe
In this episode, we sit down with Victoria Crowe, founder of Signature Donors, a premier Manhattan-based agency dedicated to helping families grow through egg donation. Victoria shares how Signature Donors brings a deeply personal, hands-on app...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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46:42
Chillin’ for the Future: Andrea’s Frozen Hope
Meet Andrea — a woman who proves that when life doesn’t go according to plan, you can still create something even better. From fertility hurdles to solo motherhood wins, Andrea’s living her dream — with her mini brunch partner by her side. ☕💫
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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52:46
The Heart of a Giver: Amanda’s Journey
This week, we’re chatting with Amanda Bolan, a woman who somehow manages to juggle big life changes, motherhood, and a little bit of chaos — all with a smile. From unexpected turns to heart-led decisions, Amanda’s story is full of love, ...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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1:10:31
Choice Mom Coach, Reema Kiran
Today on Choosing Chaos, I’m chatting with Reema, also known as The Choice Mom Coach. Reema is a certified coach who helps women bring ease, confidence, and clarity to the Single Mother by Choice journey.Drawing on both pers...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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51:44
Flip the Script: Interview with Host Kristen Caples
You hear my voice every week on Choosing Chaos, but today we’re doing something a little different. So many of you have asked to know more about me — the person behind the mic — and this episode is my chance to share a bit of my story....
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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50:21
Chosen Path, Shared Roots with Erika
In this episode of Choosing Chaos, Erika shares her journey as a single mom by choice — from multiple rounds of IUI to fun “sperm donor parties.” She opens up about the challenges and joys of solo motherhood, meaningful dibling relatio...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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50:53