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Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice

Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice — the podcast for women who are done waiting for “the one” and ready to become a parent on their own damn terms. We’re talking fertility, pregnancy, the emotional chaos, and the village it takes to raise a kid.

Sometimes you cry in the bathtub. Sometimes you're crying because your toddler bit you. And sometimes, you cry because you chose all of this.

Unfiltered conversations about solo motherhood—because doing it alone doesn't mean doing it quietly.

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Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice

Science, Probability, and Kelley's Decision to Move Forward

January 12, 2026 • Laura Nave • Season 1 • Episode 28

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In this episode of Choosing Chaos: Solo Motherhood by Choice, Kelley joins Laura for an honest conversation about the emotional realities of becoming a solo mother by choice.

Kelley reflects on why relationships aren’t always easy — and why leaving one can be just as complicated as staying. She shares how the path to motherhood through IUI or IVF can take time and carry an emotional toll, and why connection matters — including what it means for her and her daughter to be connected to donor siblings.

We also talk about postpartum anxiety — how difficult it can be, how it can cause you to second-guess yourself, and why recognizing it and seeking support is so important. And finally, Kelley reminds us that while becoming an SMBC is both difficult and courageous, it does get easier.

We also address postpartum anxiety, explore ways to recognize it, and share supportive resources for anyone who may be struggling.

Postpartum Support Resources:
Postpartum Support International — support line, online groups, and local referrals: 1-800-944-4773 or https://www.postpartum.net

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