41: Everything in Your Life Is a Reflection of YOU

Nothing Is Random: Your Reality Is Reflecting You

We often think the huge moments in our life are the things change our lives. Yes, that can be true but what about the small choices that you make daily.

If you choose to look at the small reflections, the tiny ways of how the world is being towards you, this builds up a habit that will change and empower your life. 

I share a simple moment that could have thrown off my whole day but instead became an opportunity to take back control, smash my goals and uplevel my life.

When you start working with the universal law of reflections, you stop feeling like life is happening to you and start realising it’s happening for you.

Press play, you won’t regret it.

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Hello everyone and welcome back to Intuitive Diaries with me, Emily Marie. This is a very different episode. I am not on my usual green sofa. I am actually going on holiday tomorrow morning at like half five in the morning. It is late in the evening. I have had a hectic day. However, I absolutely love this podcast, and I really wanted to put this out to you. I did not want to miss a week just because I'm going on holiday. So I thought that I would do a quick episode here in my home office upstairs. And this episode is going to be about something that happened to me like literally two days ago. I'm gonna try and keep it quick, but it's such an amazing example of how everything in our life is a reflection. So at the moment I'm talking about huge things that's happened in my life. So, for example, if this is your first episode with me, hello, hello, welcome. I am just going through a whole journey at the moment, and I'm looking back through my life, and I'm looking at how and when I knew like intuitively something, and I'm also going back through my life and thinking about all the big things that have happened and how it was a reflection of my own energy, like huge things, huge breakups, huge friendship breakups, huge business, like weird business dynamics, where like a business partner like stole loads of money from me. Um, just loads of huge, crazy big things that have happened in my life in different areas of my life. But I just wanted to come on and say that it doesn't have to be huge things because I am talking about very big wow moments that have happened in my life, but everything in your life right now, everything that has happened in your life is a reflection of your own energy, like literally down to the small tiny little moments. So, absolutely everything. So, have a look in your bank account. What is the number that is a reflection of your energy? Have a look around. What do you see? What is your house like? What are your relationships like at this moment in time? What situations do you find yourself in daily? All of this is a reflection of our own energy, it's a reflection of our own belief systems, our self-identity, our self-worth, our self-concept, our mindset, our experiences, the actions that we put out into the world. It's a whole concoction of me. It's a whole concoction of you. Oh, I've just if you that was so so cool. I don't know whether you've if you're watching this, I can literally see a reflection of me in my little microphone. I've turned it around, it's a bit weird. Um, and I am still on a journey to really embody this, and it has just been such an amazing journey. Some days I just go about my life and I just don't really think about that everything is a reflection of me, and I have those moments where I'm like, Oh my god, this happened to me today, without thinking that that is a reflection of me. I created that. Yes, we create everything in our lives, and if we create everything in our lives, it means that we can change it. And this happened to me a couple of days ago where something was happening, a situation in front of me, it was unfolding in front of me, and just for a minute there, I was like just really, really annoyed, and then it took me a minute to be like, no, Emily, I I really want to embody this. I know that the concept of the law of reflections, which is a concept that I have spoken about in previous episodes, I know that this is literally the key, the key to up-leveling in life, to changing your reality, to reaching the goals that you want to reach in life. I know that this is the key. So something was unfolding in front of me, and I was like, I took my power back. I was like, okay, no, I am not going to go down the rabbit hole and go down the path of oh my life, what is this person doing? How annoying, blah blah blah blah blah. No, I'm gonna go down the power path. I'm gonna be like, okay, I'm fucking creating this right now. What am I doing to create this? How is my internal world right now? So, to go back a couple of days ago, I was just sitting in my office, and this is like such a small thing. Sitting in my home office, and I'm working. I've got such a big job list to do, like such a huge big job list, and I'm working, and my I'm gonna be really, really quiet here because she's just next door, and I live in a terrace house, guys, and the walls are paper thin. But my beautiful neighbour, she's lovely, she's you know a little bit crazy, but everything is a reflection of us, so the craziness that I see in her is only a reflection of the craziness that's in me, but she's our crazy neighbour. Hey, every fucking neighbourhood's got one, everybody's got the crazy neighbour. We all love them, alright? She's doing her thing, she's being crazy, she is just putting out washing. She puts out washing sometimes like five in the morning. Fair play. She puts out washing, right? And she's touching the pole that holds up the washing line, and she's touching it, and every time she touches it, the washing line is connected to the gutter, and her guttering is loose and it makes like this clanging sound. And she's touching the washing clang, clang, clang. She's touching it, she's touching it, and she's walking around going, Oh fuck it out, bro. I don't think it's all. Oh, I've had such a busy day, guys. She's just talking to herself. She's literally just talking to herself, okay. She's like touching washing, she's clanging around. She has the most smallest courtyard ever. You could probably fit about three people in there, so she's just like going up and down, up and down, up and down. This is right underneath where I'm working. So I've got my little home studio, little booth kind of thing, and there's a window right on the right hand side of me, and I can literally just see her. Everything that she says, I can hear because I live in a terrace house, thin walls. We literally just live together. She's touching washing, she's clanging, she's moaning, she's swearing, and she keeps moving this plastic chair out of the way, and then she's like moving to the other side of the gate, and she's clanging and stuff, and then she's dragging this chair the other side, she's dragging this chair, and she is just being bloody crazy, she's being absolutely mad. This is my interpretation of the situation, whatever you interpret your reality to be, and this can be your reality as a whole, or in this situation, little things are pop up in your day-to-day. So, this was a little thing that popped up in my day-to-day, and I'm just sitting there trying to do my thing. I've got my healing frequencies in my ear, and I'm trying to ignore her. However, everything is here for us, everything is here to help us up level. So I was seeing that, and even though I was trying to ignore it because it was do my heading, it was there to help me up level, it was there to show me something, and I was blocking it out. I was blocking it out, guys. I was literally like, no, do my heading, she's been bloody crazy again. Put my healing frequencies in, and all I do is turn it up. I turn that shit up. I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I'm getting my work done. I've only got one more day until I've got um a week-long holiday in Spain, and I've got stuff to do. These things need to get done, they are scheduled for a company. So if I don't do them, nothing goes live while I'm away. Like, it's not like I can get away with not doing it, it has to be done. So I'm like, that I am getting my shit done, and I feel like again, a perception. I feel like the more I try and block it out, the crazier she's bloody getting she's getting crazy. Now there's a cat there, there's a bloody cat there, meow, meow, meowing, and I'm like, oh my god, and she's dragging this chair, dragging this chair, clang, clang, clanging. Oh, the washing's not dry yet. Yeah, I know your washing's not bloody dry yet. You like literally touched it five seconds ago, clanging, and she's moving and moving and moving, and she's like literally talking to herself, she's talking to the washing machine, she's talking to the cat. That's fine. I talk to my dog all the time, but she's like, she's literally just talking to herself, and now she's pacing and she's moving around in circles like a crazy person, pacing, pacing, dragging, dragging, clanging, clanging. The cow's fucking the cow, the cat's fucking meowing, and I'm like, oh my god, and then I crack, I crack, I take my headphones out because I can hear her anyway, and then it I realise it, this is a reflection of me. So I say out loud, universe, and I'm laughing now. I like I'm laughing because I'm like, okay, I'm creating this, I'm creating this. How how I am calm and composed, I am grounded, I am doing my stuff, I've got a big job list, I've got meetings going on. Well, I had meetings in the morning, so I've got my face made up, I've got like a nice outfit on. I feel like, guys, I'm gonna put it out there. I feel like I am better than this crazy person that is just being weird, she's just like, what the hell is she doing? And I am there grounded. I've got fucking shit to do. I'm like a marketing manager for a company, I've got like loads of things to do, and I just put it out there, okay. Universe, half laughing. How the hell is this person a reflection of my energy? Because I am not like that, and this is the thing that we need to really embody. It's not like for like, obviously, I am not in my courtyard dragging chairs around, tapping washing, like talking to myself, I am not acting like her, so it's really hard for my analytical brain to get around this. I'm like, okay, how how am I being like this crazy fucking bitch? This is fucking crazy, like how, how, and then it popped into my head the universe or my subconscious mind, whatever you want to resonate with, spoke to me. Basically, was like, this is what it is, you are being crazy inside, and I'm like, No, I'm not I'm grounded, I'm wearing like my nice Zara outfit. I got my nice makeup on, I'm looking good, but I got my eyebrows tinted. I'm not walking around, dragging chairs around, pacing, pacing, pacing, circling and talking to myself like a crazy person. I'm not, however, and then it popped into my head again. Frantic, frantic energy, and that's what I got, and that was my aha moment. And I turned around and I laughed and I said thank you. I was like, Okay, thank you, crazy neighbor. Thank you, because she has just given me a reflection that I am frantic inside. My energy is frantic inside of me. Your ego is always going to be there to be like, no, you're calm and grounded, like you're the fucking like you know, you're the better one out of this situation, you're not like her. Like for like, no, however, my energy inside that day was so frantic, and I was doing something crazy. I will explain. My job list for that day was two blogs, it was two email campaigns, and then I had the whole afternoon to schedule in and edit two weeks worth of social media on different platforms, and it was getting towards midday, and I love scheduling, I love time management, I love time blocking. I had done my two blogs, I had done my email campaign, I hadn't started on my social media job list at that time. And guess what? I was doing guys, I was doing another bloody blog. Why? There was something in me that was for some reason I wanted to get loads of other blogs done and more email campaigns done before I moved on to my priority, which was my social media campaigns, and I had this such a frantic energy inside, suppressed, no one can tell, but it's inside me, and it's so frantic, and I'm literally being crazy because I am doing something that I'm not meant to be doing. It's so frantic energy inside me, and it is ridiculous of me to think that I can do all of that in one day, and I was doing something that I wasn't meant to be doing, I was overdoing it, I was literally doing more blogs and more email campaigns that I needed to because, for some reason, maybe a little bit of overwhelm, maybe a little bit of self-sabotage in there, whatever it was, I was not doing what I was meant to be doing. I was not doing my social media campaigns on my job list. My frantic energy had led me down this crazy path, and I was doing loads of other things that my ego told me to do, and it wasn't necessary, and it was very, very frantic energy inside because I kept repeating, oh my god, I've only got like you know, four hours, oh my god, now I've only got three hours, oh my god, now I've only got two hours, and I was concentrating on something that I need didn't need to be like concentrating on, and I did feel so mental inside, so crazy inside, and I had this frantic energy. And when that clicked, I was like, Oh, I was like literally pissing myself laughing. I was like, Oh my god, it is me, it is me. I'm going on this journey with you. I'm like, it is me, it is me. As soon as I got this, and I just fucking stopped what I was doing. I was like, no, no more. Thank you. I said thank you to the crazy neighbour, thank you for showing me where I need to change my energy, and it is only going to help me doing this. I started to look at the things that I needed to, the things that were most urgent, the things that were top priority. As soon as I did that, she went inside the house, and I didn't hear from her again. And I had a great afternoon, just concentrating on me, concentrating on the things that I had like needed to get done in the time that I had. Like, I mean, how amazing and how beautiful. And I just want to pop on here and say this that I have been talking about huge things in my life that have happened, but everything in your life, everything in my life is a reflection of me, everything in your life is a reflection of your energy, down to the tiniest little fly that flies past you, down to you sitting in traffic, down to that bloody crazy neighbor, whatever it is, it's everything, it is everything, and when we realize that, and when I fully embody that, I know I am gonna like literally just up level so much because then you take your power back, then you're like, Okay, if I've created that, what do I need to do to shift it? And it literally just changes in front of you, and I know that this sounds crazy. I am the one that is going through this at this moment in time. I am really embodying it, and I am like trying to not like I'm going through it with you too. I'm like, is this really real? Is it I want to figure this out too, and the more that I'm doing it, the more it's becoming a habit in my head, and the more I'm not looking at like the big things in my life, which is amazing to do. I feel like okay, I've got that, and now I'm on a different journey of looking at all the small tiny little things, all the small tiny little things, and realizing how they are a reflection of my whole energy, aura, electromagnetic field, mindset, subconscious, whatever you want to call it, it's fucking happening. You can call it whatever you want, you can call it a bloody smurf if if that resonates with you, whatever it is, it's happening, it's happening right now, and even if we don't realize it, it is still happening. So I want this to be like an aha moment, I want this to be like shit, it's fucking everything is everywhere, and it is such an amazing, empowering thing because it's like okay, okay, okay, Emily. Even when it's the small tiny things, I can change that, and yes, you can, but first off, just be aware of it just today for one day, make it pop up into your head, be self-aware of it when something triggers you, when a situation happens and you autopilot, which our brains have been programmed to do, it is not our fault. Our brains have been programmed to look at the external, and instead of going to be like, Oh, that bitch is doing it again, or oh, he's just cut me up in traffic, whatever it is. Think okay, just say it to yourself or say it out loud, whatever you want to do. How am I being? How I am interpreting this situation. First of all, how am I interpreting these the situation? And then next, how am I being like this? Either to someone else or to myself. Thank you so much for being here, guys. The next time you see me, I will be back from holiday. I love you so much. I really, really value you being here. It's like you honestly, your time, your energy is so bloody valuable. So, thank you for listening to this, and I'll see you in a week.