More than Milestones

25. Big Kids, Bigger Feelings: Alyssa Campbell on Supporting Emotional Development in Ages 5 to 12

Kaitlin Rickerd

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Alyssa Campbell joins More than Milestones to dive into one of the most overlooked yet critical stages of child development: ages 5 to 12. With a master’s degree in early childhood education, research experience in emotional development, and as the founder of Seed and Sew and a two-time bestselling author, Alyssa helps parents understand why big emotions in big kids are not something to fix, but information to listen to. We explore how emotional and social development shows up differently in school-aged kids compared to toddlers, why connection is the foundation for everything, and how parents can stay close even as peer influence grows. This conversation offers practical insight for navigating big feelings, conflict, honesty, and tough topics with confidence and compassion.


Key Topics Covered


  • Why ages 5 to 12 are a critical and often overlooked stage of emotional development
  • How big emotions show up differently in school-aged kids versus toddlers
  • Why big emotions are not a phase, but important information
  • The nine senses and how they influence emotional regulation in kids
  • How to identify what triggers your individual child and what they truly need
  • Staying connected as kids start prioritizing peer relationships
  • How to repair after missteps in connection with your child
  • Talking to kids about puberty, sex, drugs, and peer pressure earlier than expected
  • Why lying can be developmentally appropriate at this age and how to respond
  • Navigating conflict between kids and knowing when to step in versus step back


Follow Alyssa on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/seed.and.sew/


Alyssa’s Website: https://www.seedandsew.org/about


Free Questionnaire: https://regulationroadmap.softr.app/


Get Your Copy of Alyssa’s Book Tiny Humans, Big Emotions: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/Tiny-Humans-Big-Emotions-book


Get Your Copy of Alyssa’s Book Big Kids, Bigger Feelings: https://links.milestonesandmotherhood.com/amzn/big-kids-bigger-feelings-book


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