Choose To Notice And Meet A Need This Season

Lights twinkle, calendars fill, and yet so many people walk through the holidays with a quiet ache. We open up about the unseen side of the season—loneliness after loss, the stress of dysfunctional family dynamics, the distance of living far from home—and offer a grounded path forward: notice the people in your circle, ask what would help, and meet one need with care. Our conversation blends practical mental health insights from Constance’s counseling work with a warm, faith-centered invitation to observe others around us and demonstrate kindness.

You’ll hear real-world ideas you can act on today: invite a single friend or widow to your table, send a handwritten note to someone grieving, offer a gift card to a neighbor who lost work, or simply text a sincere I’m thinking of you. Anchored by John 13:34, we lean into a love that’s concrete, specific, and responsive to the needs right in front of us.

 Whether you’re navigating your own hard holiday or looking for ways to stand with someone else, this episode exhorts you in love, to pay attention to those around you and if you see a need, meet a need. If this resonates, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs encouragement, and text us what’s on your heart so we can keep this care-filled conversation going.

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Transcript

Holidays: Joy And Hidden Pain

Constance lavonice 0:00

It's the holiday season here in the United States, and it's typically a happy and celebratory time. We're gathering with family and friends, connecting with each other, but it's also a time of sadness and loneliness for a lot of people. I want to encourage you to look around and pay attention to the network of people that you come in contact with on a daily or weekly basis. And if you see a need, meet a need. You're listening to Wholeheart Conversations, a podcast especially for women to receive biblical encouragement that fosters resilience through the practical application of God's Word. I'm your host, Constance Lavonice. There are many people going through a hard time right now. Some have lost jobs. Others have experienced the death of loved ones. Some are single or widowed. There are many who don't have anyone to spend the holidays with. And then there are those who have dysfunctional family dynamics. The holidays are not a happy time for everyone. In fact, it's one of the most busiest times for me as a mental health counselor. This is the time of year when I see people who are depressed, who are grieving, who are having emotional triggers because of the loss of loved ones or family, or who are just feeling lonely. How do we meet a need? Just pay attention to the people around you. Are they single? If so, and if you're able, invite them over. Do they live away from home, away from their family? If you're able, invite them over. If someone has experienced a death in their family, give them a word of encouragement. Or send them a card. Do you know someone who's lost a job or who's struggling financially? Do the same. Invite them over or give them a gift card. Ask God to show you how to respond to those in need. Jesus said in John chapter 13, verse 34, a new command I give you. Love one another as I have loved you, so you must love one another. I remember when I was single, and I was single for a while before I got married. One of my friends invited me over to her home with her family who lived two hours away for Thanksgiving. And I was so happy to have someone invite me to spend time with their family. And I had a lovely time with her family. And to this day, I'm thankful for that. And I appreciate her for that. And so this holiday season, I want to encourage you to do the same. Let's practice demonstrating acts of kindness and love this holiday season by identifying a need of someone in your reach of influence and meeting it. And thank you for joining me today. If you've heard anything helpful, please subscribe and share, and text the show and let us know what's on your heart.