The Weight of the Why: Husbands Tell All (Part 4)

In the final installment of our Husbands Tell All series, we get into the nitty-gritty of what it’s like to live a life that everyone has an opinion on, but very few actually understand.

From the frustration of being questioned by people who’ve never stepped foot in a field to the "reason behind the madness" of our daily decisions, we’re digging deep. It’s a hard life, a loud life, and a confusing life to those on the outside—but it’s also the most rewarding one we know.

The guys join us one last time to talk about the weight of the legacy, the grit it takes to keep going, and why, at the end of the day, we wouldn't trade the farm for anything.

Transcript

SPEAKER_04 0:00

This way, it's hard to get people to understand why we do the things we do the way we do them. General society. Oh, that guy's out there spraying. Well, that's bad for Oh, right.

SPEAKER_02 0:10

Everyone's trying to knock farming all the time. Like anything we do.

SPEAKER_04 0:13

Advocate for the things we're doing. We're doing it for a reason. We're not just out there and not just cost us money.

SPEAKER_03 0:19

Yeah, you're not just spending money to spray because you feel like spraying. There's a reason for it.

SPEAKER_01 0:23

So, Brady, I have a question for you. What's it like when the corn is high but the chaos is higher?

SPEAKER_02 0:29

It's a lot of things, but it's never boring. This is the farm wife. Life between the rows. Welcome to the final episode. Oh my gosh, I keep saying episode. Welcome to the final part four. Yeah. We'll see if this gains any traction. Maybe we'll have these guys on again if they'll.

SPEAKER_01 0:50

They've already identified some of their friends that they're like, we need so and so. Then you'll get real good content.

SPEAKER_03 0:55

Just kick Cody and Eddie off the podcast. Or not Cody and Eddie, Brady and Eddie off the podcast, and we'll start running that.

SPEAKER_02 1:01

It might get kind of interesting if we the uh viewing will probably go up a little bit, but I think we would have to click the or check the box that says mature content. I was gonna say explicit material.

SPEAKER_04 1:15

It's okay. Tony Reid's podcast the second.

SPEAKER_01 1:18

Anywho, let's get into it. So we finished last like part saying what is one thing that we as wives should stop taking personal during busy season.

SPEAKER_03 1:30

Everything during busy season, actually. I mean, there's a lot of things that go on during busy season that we don't mean to be personal to yet. That I feel like sometimes you think they're personal.

SPEAKER_02 1:42

Do you have an example?

SPEAKER_03 1:43

Just like the late long hours of the day. Or for instance, calling and saying, Hey, what are you up to? Uh watching the kids. Can you pack me in the car and give me a part? Because I need it.

SPEAKER_02 1:55

Right.

SPEAKER_03 1:56

I mean, I don't mean that personally during your day, but it's helpful.

SPEAKER_02 2:01

Yeah, and I don't know that I I don't know that I really take it personally. I think that's good. I think that um if we're just gonna have like an open and honest podcast episode part four, I think that it would go a long way because the busy season just does get so tedious, and I know that it gets tedious for you. And I know that you're working long hours and like doing extra, but so am I. Like I'm working the same amount of hours, like I'm putting the same amount in, same amount in just at home, but yeah, I'm still going that extra mile to like try and keep you guys fed so that you can keep running, you don't have to stop. Going to get parts, doing I mean, if I have to come out and run equipment, like I'm trying to like lessen your guys' day. So maybe to just be thoughtful, like, hey mom, could you run over and watch the kiddos so Brady could get her nails done? Like, just that little like light of kindness and thoughtfulness that just keeps me going. Like, maybe you guys need a warm meal.

SPEAKER_03 3:07

Yeah, okay, yeah. I can do that.

SPEAKER_02 3:09

Because maybe, like, when I bring out that meal, that gives you guys a little spark of like that was nice, let's keep rolling. I need that too. So, for future reference this coming planting season, there's your little bit of advice. We'll do. And I will do a better job about not taking everything personal. Cody, what do you think?

SPEAKER_04 3:29

Pretty well nailed her, in my opinion.

SPEAKER_02 3:32

You take everything personal.

SPEAKER_01 3:34

I take everything personal, apparently. I think I come off as that sometimes.

SPEAKER_04 3:39

At first, but then you think about it a little more. So maybe she wasn't. And it's but maybe she was. I might be like you get to sit in a cab, there's a lot of thoughts that run through your head.

SPEAKER_01 3:50

No, and I think it it comes down to I am again very, very blunt. So when Cody's asking me to go, like stop and go get this part, especially so with me teaching, it is on the complete opposite side of town. I don't drive by John Deere.

SPEAKER_03 4:08

Right. So for me to still closer than he is.

SPEAKER_01 4:11

Yes, but I can't do that ahead of time. Like I would have to do that at night. So here I am driving 20 minutes from where I teach all the way to the opposite side of town to grab a part at 10 o'clock at night, to drive 20 minutes back to where I was teaching, and then all the way home. That's an extra 40 minutes of my day.

SPEAKER_00 4:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 4:33

Where it would be the same amount of time for Cody to just go back and forth, and it's not at 10 o'clock at night.

SPEAKER_03 4:40

He appreciates it.

SPEAKER_01 4:42

I I know he does, and that's why I'm saying it's like I know that he appreciates it, and I know that he does it, but it's like the logistic thinking.

SPEAKER_02 4:50

Um, and I think to help your cause a little bit, that I think men just don't understand, like, it's not going and getting the part. It's we're in busy season two. Like it, we're in that fight or flight, like just go, go, go. And especially you where you're doing you're in five different circuses all the time. All the time. So then you get an extra call. Hey, I need this part, and it's it's not the part, it's like everything else, and now I have one more thing.

SPEAKER_04 5:16

It's like you're there, you just as well grab it versus me having a drive cler over there.

SPEAKER_01 5:21

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 5:22

It's better return on investment because it's a little bit more. Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_01 5:26

Stupid return on investment. Yeah, anyway, go ahead. No, I think and it yes, it's not getting the part. I would I do enjoy helping out and being able to just so Cody doesn't have to take his after he gets off work to go get the part and then go down to the farm because I know how important it is for him to just go straight down to the farm. So I I get that, but it's like I don't think Cody always thinks through the planning that occurs for me to actually go get that part.

SPEAKER_04 5:59

No, whatever coffee place, construction place. But at 9 p.m.

SPEAKER_01 6:04

at night it is going down, Cody.

SPEAKER_03 6:06

And again, because you gotta pay for the coffee.

SPEAKER_01 6:08

At 9 p.m.

SPEAKER_02 6:09

at night, scooters isn't open with the rewards of his wife's happiness, which is maybe something you then need to learn about.

SPEAKER_04 6:14

Between something like you've done before, they're open.

SPEAKER_01 6:18

If I but that's the thing, like even when I was working in Beatrice, I would have to stop and go in between meetings, and that wasn't always doable in my world of just oh, you're there, it's easier for you to go grab.

SPEAKER_04 6:34

Anyway, next question.

SPEAKER_02 6:35

This is obviously something they'll talk about on the way home. Yes. So since we talked about kind of the negative of your wife during busy season, what is something that you appreciate during busy season that your wife does? Cody?

SPEAKER_04 6:52

Probably laundry because if Addie did it, if nobody washed the laundry, I'd be wearing dirty clothes because I'm I don't take time to do the laundry. I do know how to run it when I choose to.

SPEAKER_01 7:04

You do know how to run it now that I've taught you. Yeah, I was probably right. And you also were grown up saying that you were allergic to tide, and guess what detergent we use? Tide. You're not allergic to it.

SPEAKER_02 7:16

Except I did just get a Snapchat on Sunday that Addie had a nice clean um laundry and the washer that needed to be switched to the dryer. And Cody's dirty church shirt was in it. At least it was a church shirt, wasn't it? Yes, yes.

SPEAKER_04 7:34

Because the usually the dirty ones, I don't know what's dirty and clean.

SPEAKER_02 7:37

It was wet in the washer code.

SPEAKER_04 7:39

I didn't reach in there or stop on top of the washer. I just opened the lid and threw it in there. I was like, oh, at least it's there. Usually when I come in, the bathroom's right there, so I just throw it in there and go.

SPEAKER_02 7:50

Addie's 13. At least 30.

SPEAKER_04 7:53

Can you not agree that at least it's in the washer and not laying on the floor? No. We're proud of you, Cody. You did good. Oh no.

SPEAKER_01 7:59

Tyler, shut up.

SPEAKER_03 8:00

So I will uh answer the question.

SPEAKER_02 8:02

Yeah, what's what's your answer, Annie?

SPEAKER_03 8:04

I'm gonna say picking up parts because that is extremely helpful. That is one thing that I do really appreciate. Yeah. Oh, I want to try the food, bringing lunches out.

SPEAKER_02 8:13

Wait, can I have some bonus points? Because the other day I went and picked up some parts, and I've gotten really good about like, even though I walk in and sometimes the guys are like, Oh, it's a wife picking up parts, she doesn't know anything. Except I went in and I'm like, I need to see that these three packs of bolts are in there. They're in there, they're in there. They were not in there.

SPEAKER_01 8:35

Like they were trying to sell you something.

SPEAKER_02 8:37

No, like mineral.

SPEAKER_03 8:40

Yeah, they just got delivered from the location then correctly, which is fine. It happened. Yeah. We're not in busy season, so it wasn't the same.

SPEAKER_02 8:47

Yeah, it was fine.

SPEAKER_01 8:48

But at least you asked.

SPEAKER_02 8:49

Yeah, well, and I told him, I said, I'm the one that's gonna get grief if I show up and I don't have everything. Like, I know I need three packs of bolts washers. What else was in there?

SPEAKER_03 9:01

Bolt nut space or washer.

SPEAKER_02 9:03

Yes. So I knew I needed those three packs. And I saw yeah, it was grown bonus points to me that they were not in there. So did you get your bolts?

SPEAKER_03 9:11

They showed up today. I go pick them up.

SPEAKER_02 9:13

Okay. So anyway, continue on. I just need one of those brownie points.

SPEAKER_03 9:17

Well, that and probably the kids. I mean, watching the kids for the whole 16 hours I'm gone and not having any help is a big help for myself.

SPEAKER_02 9:25

Yeah. That was nice.

SPEAKER_03 9:28

You're welcome.

SPEAKER_02 9:29

Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 9:29

Brownie points for myself.

SPEAKER_02 9:31

Yep.

SPEAKER_04 9:34

Making meals too at night when I go home, that's really nice. Even if I got warmed up at least. Which is harder than people think because when you eat earlier, it's like I mean, there's some nights that come in at nine o'clock after harvest or ten, and it's like if I need something to eat now, I'm hungry. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 9:51

Yeah. But I'm just not ho I usually teach two to three nights every week. And so I I really could care less about making a meal. Like, I don't blame you. My mindset is like, you're an adult, you can figure it out.

SPEAKER_04 10:04

I'm not but no, I'm just saying when you do that.

SPEAKER_01 10:06

Right. Yeah, no, I get what you're saying. I'm just saying, like, and I I do enjoy making meals every once in a while, but it also comes down to when I'm expected to make a meal.

SPEAKER_04 10:19

You make a mean texture sheet cake on you like oh but he told me you made that the other day.

SPEAKER_02 10:23

Yeah. That sounds yummy.

SPEAKER_04 10:24

Yeah, I think that lasts for how long.

SPEAKER_02 10:26

But it's when Cody never blessed Cody with a very high metabolism. I was gonna say, Cody never expects like half that. Not gonna lie.

SPEAKER_01 10:36

Cody never expects me to make a meal. Nope. But it's when he comes home and he's like, Well, what do we have for food? Open the fridge and figure it out. I could care less about what you eat. You're an adult. I'm not you can you can eat a Texas sheet cake for all I care. Like just feed yourself.

SPEAKER_03 10:54

Cody and the air fryer have a good relationship. Yep.

SPEAKER_01 10:57

Simple and you're up. Puts it back away.

SPEAKER_02 11:00

See, this is a good topic because this is kind of what I wanted to roll into to talk about this this part, because I think a lot of times when people do see like farm life or farm wife life on social media, it's very like hyped up and like talking back on an episode that we recorded. Yeah, just like what I talked about a couple episodes ago of how I was raised, and you know, I wasn't necessarily like the farming family, you know, it was my grandpa and then my uncle, and I got to do like I got to go feed water cows, I got to help feed bot baby bottle caps, I got to ride in the combine, like the very romanticized, like fun parts of farming. And so that's made yeah, so that that made me want to marry a farmer. Well, now being married to a farmer, you see everything, yes, a lot of the stuff that is not on social media, aka not wanting to make a meal at the end of the night for your husband, or you know, just so I think that's something that we want to touch light on because it's not all like sunshine and rainbows, like it's very tedious, yeah, not so pretty work a lot of the times. I mean, is there something that you can think off the top of your head that's just like uh about farm life?

SPEAKER_01 12:13

I think it's just the the not necessarily time management, but the true inability to have a true day off. Like you just you don't have that, and people are like, well, it's not harvest time, so you're not working, or it's it's not planting time, so it you have there was that one comment on one of our TikToks for the podcast that they were like, Well, farmers only work three months out of the year and they get nine months off. Yeah, that pissed me off. Six weeks, yeah. Like that that's where I'm like, you can't do that. Where are you going, Tyler? Oh, watching you.

SPEAKER_02 12:53

I thought he was getting up to get another beer.

SPEAKER_01 12:55

I'm like, okay, we don't just get up in the middle of the for anyone that is not watching. Tyler just like randomly got up at the table. But no, I appreciate that. But yeah, I think it's the romanticizing of farmer, you only hear farmers working during busy farming seasons.

SPEAKER_02 13:14

Well, I don't want to put it down, like I don't want to say it's something on social media that's like faked because a lot of like big influencers kind of maybe put on their persona because I don't think that that's it. Like, I do think that the things that are put on about farming are very true, like there are very, very great things. Like, I mean, seeing, you know, like I have a lot of videos of Taylon and the combine, like just the pure joy that comes with farming in those moments, but it's you don't see the the negative things.

SPEAKER_03 13:44

Like, for example, grain bins, they look so cool, right? They suck to work in. Clicking grain bins out, hate it.

SPEAKER_02 13:51

I was just gonna ask what's something you guys want to bring up that a lot of our listeners that aren't farming families don't know about.

SPEAKER_04 13:56

I mean grain working on pivots and a seven-foot-tall cornbill.

SPEAKER_03 14:00

There's a lot of green afternoon grease in. I mean, people That's what I was gonna say. The equipment just runs. Well, no, there's a lot of maintenance to it. You gotta grease it. You gotta change it.

SPEAKER_04 14:10

If you don't do that, then it really costs you a lot of money. I mean, there's just a lot of things behind the scenes that you gotta try and market and do all this on top of that, and yeah.

SPEAKER_02 14:21

I asked Tyler the other day, what is your least favorite thing to do on the farm? And he said greasing. What's yours?

SPEAKER_00 14:27

Hmm.

SPEAKER_02 14:28

Sorry, I kind of hit you on the spot there.

SPEAKER_04 14:31

I don't I guess marketing's hard for me. I've always struggled with that.

SPEAKER_02 14:36

Cody, I don't want to call you out, but as much as you stress about marketing, we need to give you Tyler's number.

SPEAKER_01 14:42

And as much as he says it, he's still gonna be a tight bad word.

SPEAKER_04 14:47

I feel like I'm doing good, but in reality it's when I do sell, it's okay, I guess.

SPEAKER_01 14:53

Here here goes like the return on investment, Tyler, is the yes, that might be a price tag that you pay, but it's so worth the mental relaxation of just paying someone else.

SPEAKER_02 15:10

And even the fact that it's not on you. Yeah. And maybe Tyler, you don't maybe you're maybe you don't really like agree with this, but like they call us, like he calls you and is like, hey, do you want to sell migraine for me?

SPEAKER_03 15:20

No, I still have the choice.

SPEAKER_02 15:22

But he watches the markets and has the knowledge, right? And I think that like if Tyler was to pass and I still kept stuff going, like I'm calling him and being like, sure.

SPEAKER_01 15:31

Tell me what I need to do.

SPEAKER_02 15:32

That sounds great. You got it. Because I don't want the mental like load or anxiety that comes with the did I do this? Did I sell at the right time? Should I have waited? Should I have futures this? Like, I yeah, I just don't I don't want to deal with that.

SPEAKER_01 15:45

Yeah, no, yeah, I 100% agree.

SPEAKER_04 15:49

I just I mean you always have crappy jobs, but it's just part of it, it's inevitable.

SPEAKER_01 15:55

Well, yeah, I mean everyone has a part of their life and a part of their job.

SPEAKER_04 15:59

I mean sucks, but don't do it.

SPEAKER_02 16:03

Do you ever feel like um being because I don't I don't I mean I'm sure the percentage has gone down, but I know I did a video of like being appreciative of Tyler. I think it was like farm day or farmer day or something of that nature. But at the time it was 1.4% of the population were farmers. So do you feel like being such a small niche, we are pressured to like be the perfect farming family?

SPEAKER_04 16:29

I look at it this way. It's hard to get people to understand why we do the things we do the way we do them. General society. Oh, that guy's out there spraying. Well, that's bad for Oh, right.

SPEAKER_02 16:40

Everyone's trying to knock farming all the time, like anything we do.

SPEAKER_04 16:43

Advocate for the things we're doing. It's we're doing it for a reason. We're not just out there and not just spray money as money.

SPEAKER_03 16:49

Yeah, you're not just spending money to spray because you feel like spraying. There's a reason for it.

SPEAKER_01 16:53

Well, and yeah, I mean I that just comes to the I used to be the people pleaser and I'm in that era of I really just don't care. And if you don't agree with it, you don't agree with it. Like and yeah.

SPEAKER_03 17:07

Well, I think it's if you want to eat organic, I don't care, go for it.

SPEAKER_01 17:10

Yeah, I'm not growing it. I'm there you go. That's a choice that you make. I respect it, it doesn't affect me.

SPEAKER_02 17:17

Well, I think even with our podcast, like I'm more on the I mean, I'm t everybody at this table knows my stance on organic labeling. But anyway, we won't get into that tangent this episode. But I think with our podcast, and you know, I hope we we gain momentum with our followers, but if there are followers that like young women that aren't married or you know haven't met somebody that, you know, maybe think, maybe farming's not for me, maybe the farm life isn't for me. I I do want to preface and say that like it is a it's really great life, but like you're gonna pay for it. Yeah, but not in a bad way.

SPEAKER_03 17:53

No, I think you're game-wise you're gonna be able to do it.

SPEAKER_02 17:56

And I don't I don't want our podcast to seem like we're talking people out of it, but I want to be realistic, like stressful as hell at the start. It is, but it is it is it's I mean, at most times rewarding, and like to raise kids in it, it is like it's very prideful and joyous, and like there I don't know, there's just something about farming that's I think do you see what I'm trying to say?

SPEAKER_01 18:19

It it does get better over time because it you just get used to that way of life, and that you find it on your comfort zone. I wouldn't necessarily say that, I would just say you you get to a point where you finally understand why people do the things that they do when it comes to farming, because someone that's outside of farming coming in, especially like myself, I'm like, why are you doing it this way? Like, why do you have to do this and then this? And that's gonna take so and I'm just I have obviously professional certifications about eliminating unneeded work out of everyone's job. And so me looking at farming, I'm like, you are wasting so much time and wasting so much effort on XYZ.

SPEAKER_03 19:00

So it's probably the exact opposite.

SPEAKER_01 19:02

Uh farming.

SPEAKER_03 19:03

Yeah. I mean, farming is the exact opposite, you don't want to waste any money if you don't have to.

SPEAKER_01 19:07

And like my job, one of my jobs in my professional career is to identify those areas where I'm like, this is a redundant step, why are we doing it? Where there's always a reason with farming, like, there's you're not just like building something from the ground up, kind of where I I am, in a sense. So understanding that there's always a reason behind it, but it takes time to understand the reason and then understand that the benefits of doing it X, Y, Z way, is the reason that there is that benefit.

SPEAKER_02 19:41

Yeah, and I think I was just trying to say, even though you know, we talk about we're very realistic about the hard times and the more negative side of farming, because we are such we are getting to be such a small niche, I like there's really good times too. Right. And like just being that farming family is really great, and I don't ever want to talk anybody out of it. Do you I mean, uh, does anybody else have any thoughts before we move on, I guess? As far as like the social media trap and just what people think.

SPEAKER_03 20:07

Don't believe what you see.

SPEAKER_01 20:09

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 20:10

Yeah that's a really good one.

SPEAKER_01 20:11

I would say don't be the keyboard keyboard warrior. Oh, yeah. Cody and I just went to a fire banquet, and the keynote speaker said, Don't be a keyboard warrior. Everyone is gonna knock something on social media. Yeah, no matter what you do, you could do something perfect, someone's gonna find a negative in it. So don't be the person, which I started right when I we first had that first video kind of go viral on uh TikTok where I'm like, I'm gonna respond back to this because this pissed me off.

SPEAKER_02 20:39

I like, you know, after I'm like, okay, I need to reel this back, like but sometimes it comes down to like be like educating people also.

SPEAKER_01 20:47

Yeah, and that was my intention.

SPEAKER_02 20:48

Like because even in the world, like real world, like I'm very blunt when it comes to things I have opinions about, and it's not because I want to sway you, but because I want to educate you maybe on maybe something that you haven't looked very much into.

SPEAKER_01 21:01

Right. And I'm always gonna do it in a respectful way, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 21:05

But I mean, for instance, like literally, uh there I posted a clip of Talon and I doing a little activity together that kind of went viral. It's at like 35,000 views. Yeah, which is it was so fun and lighthearted, but um, I have people commenting on there that are like, you need to tell her no. This is behavioral, don't tell her good job. Like, get real, Karen. Like, this is seven seconds and she's two. Like, this is seven seconds of our life. Right. Like we're having fun, right? So, yeah, I think that's really, really good advice is like, don't believe everything you see on social media because it's very cut and don't worry about what people say about you.

SPEAKER_03 21:40

Because the people that bad mouth you, you probably don't want to switch shoes with them anyway.

SPEAKER_00 21:45

True.

SPEAKER_03 21:46

I think it's easier said than done. But yeah, I 100%. If they're dogging on you for what you're doing, there's probably a reason. Because of jealousy or this and that. Right. It's probably not. Because I mean most of the people that hate on you, you don't want to switch shoes with them and be in their place. One of the best they're jealous because of that. So you just roll it off your shoulder, it is what it is.

SPEAKER_01 22:11

Yeah, and it's not necessarily like what exactly in the same context, but I uh one of my favorite sayings that I heard growing up multiple times is you never tell someone how much money you make because there's only two reactions. It's either one, their reaction is gonna be jealousy of how much you make. Yep, I'm jealous because you make X amount of money, or the reaction is going to be you're lower than them because they make more. There's no other.

SPEAKER_04 22:38

So you just never tell people Yeah, there's no like fine line happy for like Yeah, they want to be real surprised to come to the farming world, and you'll you'll crap with how much you spend and what you get back.

SPEAKER_01 22:48

Yeah. So I want to kind of switch gears and we're gonna do a rapid fire questions to you two boys. You just have to say what's on your mind.

SPEAKER_03 22:58

Is it a yes or no? Uh it depends on the question. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 23:03

But you don't, you just say the answer. Okay. Do not give an explanation unless we ask for it, okay? Okay. So between you and your spouse, who would survive longer alone? Cody. Alright, too slow, Tyler.

SPEAKER_03 23:20

I'll take myself. This is rapid fire.

SPEAKER_04 23:22

I'll take myself. I mean, that's a tough question.

SPEAKER_01 23:24

I didn't I didn't I didn't ask for an explanation. It's a rapid fire.

SPEAKER_04 23:28

It depends on the situation. How about that?

SPEAKER_01 23:30

No. Survive longer alone.

SPEAKER_00 23:32

Go.

SPEAKER_04 23:33

Me.

SPEAKER_01 23:34

Okay. Now let's explain why. Tyler. 15 seconds.

SPEAKER_02 23:38

Wait, before you answer. Who would survive longer alone? Like in like you live your exact life, but no people. Me or you.

SPEAKER_03 23:50

Oh, I couldn't do that. I like to talk to people kind of. I would survive. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 23:54

Now, like wouldsy alone, Tyler would survive.

SPEAKER_04 23:57

Okay. Yep, exactly me. Put me down in the hills and leave me alone. Don't see me. I'm fine. I'll survive.

SPEAKER_01 24:05

Okay. What is your wife's most used phrase? Cody. You kind of suck at this.

SPEAKER_03 24:16

I do.

SPEAKER_01 24:17

Tyler.

SPEAKER_03 24:17

How cute. I feel like you say that to about every little animal. How cute. And now Talon's picked up on it.

SPEAKER_04 24:23

No. I'll say this. Your my response is not PG for this. Abbreviate.

SPEAKER_01 24:32

You just say I'll bleep it out if I have to.

SPEAKER_04 24:35

S-D-F-U.

SPEAKER_01 24:36

Shut the f up.

SPEAKER_04 24:37

Yeah, don't do it. Don't you not.

SPEAKER_02 24:39

Do you say it in meanness and in funniness and in oh, all things. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 24:44

I mean like shock, like I just say that's a lot.

SPEAKER_01 24:47

Um not shock. It's mainly like, get out of my house, shut the f up, and get out of my face. Or it's funny where he's just laughing because he's like, oh, look at this TikTok, and I'm like, just shut up. Like, no one cares. Like. And that sounds horrible, but I we just dropped a lot of F bombs right there.

SPEAKER_02 25:09

It's bleep, bleach, I know.

SPEAKER_01 25:11

It wasn't me. I know. Okay. Cody, what is one purchase that I made that you still do not understand? Rapid fire.

SPEAKER_04 25:22

There's a lot of things. I mean, just pick one real quick. I mean, you're you can't get your lint roller. I never understood.

SPEAKER_02 25:28

A lint roller is great. Tyler loves a lint roller.

SPEAKER_04 25:32

Oh, the linen roller. Again. I was like, what in the hell is this thing? And then you're like, oh, this is Tax write-offs. Yeah, I see why that's a lot better now.

SPEAKER_02 25:41

Linens, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 25:42

Like my big rotary iron. Yeah. Okay, Tyler.

SPEAKER_03 25:47

Any organizer that Brady has in the house. Why? Because they have drawers. It's already organized.

SPEAKER_02 25:52

Why do you have a toolbox in every single piece of like any vehicle? Even the side-by-side has a toolbox.

SPEAKER_03 25:58

Because it's like a drawer. You put it in the organizer. You already picked up a drawer that organizes it. You don't need another organizer inside the drawer. So you don't have little spaces. It's rapid fire.

SPEAKER_01 26:08

Okay, Tyler. What's something that you admire about Brady that you don't say enough?

SPEAKER_03 26:13

Everything.

SPEAKER_02 26:14

Ew, be more specific.

SPEAKER_03 26:17

I'll say her selflessness.

SPEAKER_02 26:19

Oh, that was that was kind. Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 26:21

Because you're a kind person.

SPEAKER_04 26:23

No, you're very kind to Addy.

SPEAKER_01 26:25

Why do you have to copy everything?

SPEAKER_04 26:28

Can I not? It's the first thing that you thought of.

SPEAKER_01 26:32

If I start with you, you're like, ooh.

SPEAKER_03 26:37

Say it again.

SPEAKER_02 26:37

Wait, she's not done. Well, wait till she's done, then you can ask.

SPEAKER_01 26:41

Cody, what is something that God taught you through marriage?

SPEAKER_04 26:45

Patience.

SPEAKER_01 26:46

He stole mine. That's a good one. I was gonna say, he's been stealing yours. So answer differently.

SPEAKER_02 26:55

No, I think it's a great answer.

SPEAKER_01 26:56

No, I I think it's a great answer.

SPEAKER_02 26:58

You already have to do it. But you already are very patient.

SPEAKER_01 27:02

You are very patient.

SPEAKER_02 27:03

You want something else that God taught you through marriage.

SPEAKER_03 27:09

Lovingness.

SPEAKER_02 27:10

You don't think you were loving before?

SPEAKER_03 27:12

I'm not like I am now. Okay, my turn. Oh, okay. We're just gonna do the same questions. What are they out on this sheet?

SPEAKER_01 27:21

No, I'm not following those questions.

SPEAKER_02 27:24

What? Come on, just do something different. You ask one, Cody asked a question. You guys should have came with some content.

SPEAKER_01 27:35

Who's more stubborn?

SPEAKER_04 27:37

Definitely me.

SPEAKER_02 27:40

Yeah, I'm really stubborn.

SPEAKER_01 27:41

Okay. Who would survive a bad year better emotionally?

SPEAKER_04 27:48

Myself.

SPEAKER_01 27:50

Tyler, what did you say? Myself? Yeah, me. Okay.

SPEAKER_04 27:54

Probably you.

SPEAKER_01 27:55

Yeah, I would 100% agree. Who is better with money?

SPEAKER_02 28:02

Tyler. For sure.

SPEAKER_04 28:06

I did. I I uh uh ran a$1.8 million company. Don't you think I can't. It was not a company. I did not say that.

SPEAKER_01 28:17

Yeah, I mean I had a very multiple.

SPEAKER_04 28:20

Who's better with money? You know I'm tight with money, but then I spend it when I need to.

SPEAKER_01 28:24

Yeah, so there. I'm better with that.

SPEAKER_02 28:26

I have a good question that I want to ask Tyler, just because we're on air and he has to answer. What is your feelings with my new farm venture?

SPEAKER_03 28:36

Uh I'm good with it. Cool with it?

SPEAKER_02 28:38

You you don't have any.

SPEAKER_03 28:39

No, you can't bankrupt me with 30 acres.

SPEAKER_02 28:46

Okay, well.

SPEAKER_03 28:46

If it works, I'd be really proud and we'll implement it into the next year.

SPEAKER_02 28:50

But you think I could kill it all.

SPEAKER_03 28:51

No, you're not gonna kill it all, and don't worry about that at all. That's why I said you can't like bankrupt it. So it's it's a good thing for me because but bankrupting is different than killing.

SPEAKER_01 28:59

Right, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 29:00

That's true. You can't kill it with what she's using, trust me. So my thing is it's a good thing because if you lose, then I get a well, and I think I'm asking if it yields, if it has a negative ROI, I get a B. You can always go to the smaller. You have that option. Then I can give it to you, then I can make it just bring it up all the time. But if it works, you succeeded, that's great.

SPEAKER_01 29:26

Sorry guys for the very abrupt ending. We ran into some technical difficulties when trying to figure out life in general and getting this all uploaded. So, um the ending of this episode pretty much we wrapped it up shortly after this, and we just wanted to thank you guys for listening. And then if you guys have any other if you liked the guest that we had, aka our husbands, or if you're like, we need different guests on these podcasts, or whatever the case is, please let us know. We want to invite other guests, we just are trying to figure out what that means and how that looks and all that stuff. But um, if you guys submit what you guys want to listen to and hear and all that fun stuff, we are down for it. So thank you for listening once again, and we will see you next week.

SPEAKER_02 30:13

Thanks, guys. They say a farmer's work is never done. Well, neither is ours. Come back next week for a new episode of Life Between the Rows.