Bay to Barca
I’ve spent 20 years telling clients to “do hard things.”
Here’s proof I take my own advice:
You know that voice that says, “Well, what if we just…left?” I listened to it.
We moved to Barcelona.
Look, I'm 47 with three kids. Sara and I had everything figured out in the Bay Area.
But here's what kept bothering me:
I found myself having the same conversations over and over.
Football, real estate, stock picks. I'd go to these dinners and think, “How many times can we talk about the same stuff?”
We get really good at executing the playbook, but sometimes you need to throw out the playbook entirely.
Sometimes you need to do hard things. You have to be comfortable being uncomfortable.
So, we packed up our family of five and moved to Barcelona. Now Sara and I are writing about it.
And I'm still running Object Edge full throttle. Turns out you can do hard things from anywhere.
But being here, watching my kids navigate new playgrounds in a new language, sharing killer views with Sara on Sunday afternoons…it's irreplaceable.
If you're curious about what happens when a tech CEO trades Silicon Valley for the Mediterranean Sea, when a family chooses adventure over optimization, come along for the ride
Bay to Barca
Latest Episodes
Episode 9: It's just Wright
This one feels like the episode where the move really hits us—in the best way.After a little break, we’re back with something different: friends visiting us in Barcelona. Ryan and Antoinette (plus their daughter Aubrey—on...
Episode 7: Honeymoon's over, but we are still in love
Soccer wins, Sunday blues, and the seven changes we’re making to fall back in love with life abroad.We’ve officially entered the “trough of disillusionment.”That magical phrase every expat hears about but hopes won’t appl...
Episode 6: La Hermana
Every great family story needs a sibling to stir the pot—and this week, it’s my sister Ritu’s turn in Barcelona.She arrived with equal parts curiosity and chaos, ready to explore the city we now call home. Within days she’d covered more ...
Episode 5: Paperwork, Pitches, and the Padrón
This week we discovered the most powerful word in Barcelona parenting: empadronamiento. Not tapas, not Barça, not siesta—the padrón. If your kid wants to lace up for a local club, you don’t just bring shin guards; you bring d...
Episode 4: First Days, New Schools, and Saying Yes
We recorded this episode a little differently—on the beach, cava in hand, with the sound of the Mediterranean as our backdrop. The kids are finally (mostly) back in school after a long summer that started way back in May, and we’re finding our ...