34. The Flight Response: Why Your Nervous System Can’t Slow Down

Have you ever felt like you can’t slow down? Like your brain is always making lists, your body feels restless, and even when you sit down to rest… you still feel "on"?

In this episode of NeuroHeir, we’re diving into the flight nervous system response and uncovering what happens when your body learns survival through constant movement. Because flight isn’t always running away physically—it can look like overworking, overthinking, staying busy, perfectionism, or constantly trying to stay one step ahead.

Leanna shares personal stories, nervous system science, generational patterns, and practical somatic tools to help you better understand the difference between ambition and survival energy and how healing may not mean stopping altogether, but learning that you no longer have to keep running.

In this episode, we cover:

• What the flight response actually is (and why it's different from fight)
• Signs you may be living in chronic flight mode
• Why busyness and productivity can become forms of protection
• The connection between overworking, perfectionism, and survival patterns
• How flight responses can be shaped by family history and generational experiences
• Somatic tools to help regulate a constantly activated nervous system
• Using the Four N's framework: Notice, Name, Nurture, and Navigate
• Reflection questions to help you understand your own patterns

If slowing down feels uncomfortable or even unsafe, this episode is for you.

Because healing isn't about losing your drive. It's about teaching your nervous system that safety doesn't have to be earned through exhaustion.

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Transcript

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Welcome to the Nervo Air Podcast, the show for cycle breakers, parents, young adults, and helping professionals ready to understand their nervous system through a generational lens, heal what isn't theirs to carry, and consciously choose what comes next. Hi, I'm your host, Leanne Hunts, an associate clinical mental health counselor and certified performance coach. Each week you'll get stories, science, and somatic practices plus my signature 4M framework. Notice, name, nurture, and navigate to help you honor resilience, break silence, and build deeper connection with yourself and those you love, all while shaping a legacy of safety, freedom, and possibility. Welcome back to the NeuroAir podcast. There is a very familiar scene in one of my favorite movies, Forrest Gump, that you probably will remember if you've watched it. Forrest is being chased by bullies on his bike, and Jenny, his best friend, yells, run, Forrest, run. And suddenly his body takes over, he runs, he runs really fast, he keeps going, he's running away from danger. And while that scene is pretty dramatic in the movie, a lot of nervous systems still do this every single day. And not always physically either, but mentally, emotionally, even behaviorally, by staying busy, overthinking, overworking, avoiding stillness, and keeping life moving fast enough to stay ahead of discomfort. Because flight is still a survival response. The body is still mobilized in flight, still activated, still trying to protect you. And the strategy is just a little bit different. So I like to look at fight and flight, even though we group them together. If you learn about somatic stuff, you read about it, you are on Instagram and watching videos, you will just hear fight and flight because they're both sympathetic energies. But what I want to do today is to break down flight so you can see that for you, maybe you are not so much fight and spend more time in flight. Because fight says, I'm going to confront this, and flight says, I need to get away from this. So today we're going to talk about what happens when the nervous system learns to survive through flight. And as I've said before, and I will continue to say, the goal always in me sharing is not to do so through a lens of shame, but through understanding. And before we go further, I also want to acknowledge something that can feel really important. There are people listening to this who didn't just experience everyday stress. There are some of you who are living life more than just the average stress. Some of you have survived real danger. So where maybe your emotional or physical boundaries were crossed or your sexual boundaries were crossed, maybe for you your home didn't feel safe, or maybe you have lived in or are currently living in environments where your nervous system truly has had to activate fight or flight in order to survive. And whether you're someone that I've worked with or someone that's listening quietly to this podcast today, and I don't know your story, I do want you to know that my heart genuinely goes out to you because these nervous system responses are not weakness. They are your body's innate survival intelligence. Your nervous system adapted the best way that it knew how based on what it was experiencing. So the thing I want to go into first is when we think about flight, many people might not recognize it right away because often when people hear fight or flight, as I said a few minutes ago, they tend to lump them together as if they are the same thing. And again, yes, they are both sympathetic nervous system activation states in the body where the body mobilizes and is preparing for survival. There's also similarities such as heart rate increasing, adrenaline rising, breathing changing, muscles getting tight. Even though all of that is common, I do really want to spend some time separating them in this series because while they come from the same survival system in the body, they often can show up and organize differently in real life. Fight tends to move towards the threat, as we talked about last week. It pushes back, it gets louder, it becomes more confrontational and more explosive. But flight often is trying to move away from the threat. And for many people listening, you may realize I don't actually spend most of my time in fight. I spend most of my time in flight. Because unlike fight, flight often can look really productive. It can look responsible. It can look on the outside like it is successful and high functioning. But internally, the body may feel really restless, might feel anxious, unable to slow down. Vite says, I can overpower the power this. And flight says I need to escape this. And sometimes that escape is physical, sometimes it's leaving, sometimes it's avoiding, sometimes it's running away. But in modern life, flight often becomes psychological. It can show up as overthinking or overplanning or multitasking or this constant need to stay busy, to overwork, to have struggle resting, to be stuck in some perfectionism patterns, always needing to stay ahead. And sometimes what looks like ambition again can be this stored survival energy. So sometimes what looks like having it all together is actually a nervous system that never learned how to fully stop running. And you guys, I can relate to this so much. I was thinking about, I don't know if you guys have seen The Devil Wears Prada 2, that new movie is out. And so it got me comparing as I went with my girls to watch the movie, I was comparing the new movie to the original, because the original is just such a classic. And so as I started to think about it, and as I've been bringing movies into this series, the original Devil Wears Prada is actually such a good example of modern flight energy. Because unlike fight, which often looks explosive or outward reactive, flight can look incredibly functional from the outside. Almost every scene in the first movie feels pretty urgent. Like there's a lot of urgency. There's fast walking, there's fast talking, there's a lot of pressure, there's anticipation, there's trying to stay ahead of the next demand before it even happens. And that's what makes flight so tricky sometimes because people often don't realize they're in survival mode when the survival mode is constantly being rewarded. I'm gonna say that one more time. We often don't realize we're in survival mode when that survival mode is being rewarded. And in the movie, Andrea isn't screaming at everyone. She isn't slamming doors, she isn't exploding the way fight energy might. Instead, her nervous system survives by accelerating, by working harder, by moving faster, by staying hyper-aware, by trying to predict what's needed from her boss before anyone asks. And throughout the movie, you can slowly watch her lose connection with a lot of different things, including rest, including her relationships, like with her boyfriend and her best friends, her own needs and her body. Because flight says keep going, don't slow down, stay ahead. And it might even say, if you stop, you'll fall behind. And honestly, a lot of nervous systems live there every single day. Especially think about in a cultural sense. Think about cultures that praise overworking, maybe praise overfunctioning, or being constantly available and pushing through exhaust and exhaustion, which is why flight responses often get praised instead of recognized. And I believe, especially in women and caretakers, and high achievers and helping professionals. And it's interesting too, because with the devil wears Prada 2, you can feel a difference in Andrea's energy. In the first movie, her nervous system often feels like it's living in chronic flight. Again, there's that constant urgency, there's that anticipation, that pressure to perform. But in the new movie, in her, there is more groundedness. She's learned so much. There's more steadiness, more boundaries, more ability to pause and respond instead of constantly react, almost like she's living with a little bit more capacity and more access to her own window of tolerance. And that's what nervous system healing often looks like. It's not becoming unmotivated, it's not losing ambition, but it's no longer needing survival energy to run the entire system. Because eventually the body begins learning, I don't have to stay in constant motion to be safe. And I think a lot of people know what this feels like in their body. I want you to think about it for a moment. It's that moment where you cannot fully settle. Your thoughts keep moving, your chest might feel tight, your nervous system has this sense of feeling on no matter what you do. You finally sit down to rest, and almost immediately you have restless energy. Maybe your leg starts bouncing, maybe you reach for your phone without even realizing what's happening. Maybe your brain immediately starts making mental lists. And I'm sharing all this because you guys, these are things I'm still working through on a very, very regular conscious basis. There may also be over planning or constant problem solving or trying to put out fires before they even happen, or this sense of scanning for what's next. Maybe even silence feels uncomfortable. I know that one too. Maybe your body struggles with stillness. Or maybe you feel guilty slowing down or anxious when there is quote unquote nothing to do. And for some people, rest almost feels unproductive or unsafe because over time the body has learned a lot of different things. And maybe it has learned movement equals safety or staying ahead keeps me protected. And often people with strong flight patterns don't even realize how activated they are because the activation feels normal. It feels productive, it feels functional and responsible. But underneath it, the nervous system may rarely ever feel settled, like the body never completely gets to exhale all its air. And sometimes when the nervous system finally does slow down, that's when emotions begin catching up. That's when exhaustion catches up. Sometimes even grief catches up or a sense of loneliness. That feeling, that movement helped outrun starts becoming more noticeable, which is why stillness can feel threatening for people with strong flight patterns. Not because they're failing at rest, but because slowing down can feel unfamiliar to a nervous system that learned survival through constant motion. Sometimes also productivity isn't just productivity. It is a form of protection. Because maybe your nervous system learned very early, if I stay useful, I will stay safe. Or if I am productive, I am valued. Or if I prove my worth, then I am loved. Or maybe it's if I kept moving, I won't have to feel what's underneath all of this. And for many people, this started a long time before adulthood. Maybe it was growing up where mistakes in your family were not tolerated. There wasn't room for mistakes, or maybe rest was being labeled as laziness. Or maybe your environment rewarded achievement more than emotional expression. Maybe for you, slowing down never actually felt safe. So over time, the nervous system adapted by staying ahead, staying busy, staying prepared. And again, as I've said, this is something I deeply relate to myself. I learned very early that staying busy was one of the only ways I did not have to feel and sit with my emotion. And looking back now, I can see how much of my own flight energy showed up through constant movement, through overfunctioning, and even through my relationship with food and my body. I think that some of my eating disorder behaviors were deeply connected to flight energy, and not consciously because I didn't know it at the time, but from a nervous system perspective, it was a way to temporarily leave, to disconnect, to not fully have to sit inside my body or my own reality. And even the eating itself often felt really, really frantic. So when I would overeat, it would be fast and it would be felt really like really urgent. Like my nervous system was trying to outrun something internally. And the other day, I came across an old picture of myself standing on a scale. It was a January picture. So like January 2nd. So I knew it was me trying to like make new goals and set a resolution. And I happened to have on a shirt that I wore almost every day, probably for two years. And the letters on the shirt said slay all day. And at the time, again, I was taking this as a progress picture, but looking at it now, it makes me so emotional. Because when I look at my face in that photo, I do not see confidence. I just see so much exhaustion, so much sadness and disconnection, disconnection from so many people, including myself. You can almost feel how far removed I was from my own body. And if you follow me on Instagram on my page aligning with Liana, you can probably see it. I posted it maybe just a week ago. And I can now recognize how much of that season of my life was spent trying not to feel doing whatever I could to check out. And during that period, when I was constantly pushing and performing and staying in motion, my chronic illness symptoms were some of the worst they had ever been. My hormones were completely out of whack. I was dealing with extreme exhaustion and fatigue. Because remember, the nervous system can only outrun itself for so long. And I can also see now how flight showed up later in my marriage, too. When I think about flight in my relationship with my husband, this was mostly in our conversations and in hard things we had to face. I wouldn't stay in hard conversations. I would mentally leave. I would emotionally leave. Sometimes I would physically leave. And it wasn't because I didn't love my husband and I didn't care about the conversation or resolution, but because staying present, sitting in my body during discomfort wasn't something my nervous system had ever really learned how to do. And sometimes that fight energy still shows up, you guys. Like I said, this is something I am still working on. Sometimes that fight energy still tells me, Liana, you need to leave, or it's safer to bypass, it's safer to disconnect, it's safer to use food. But even though these patterns still come up is what I meant to say, I do not live there the way that I used to. And I think that that's what healing often looks like. Not never having that pattern again, but recognizing it sooner and starting to understand it differently. And then slowly building the capacity to stay present in places that your nervous system once had to escape. And just like fight, flight can also be for sure generational. There were generations who survived through constant work because they had to. They had to have a constant state of vigilance, constant movement. There were generations who truly could not afford to slow down through so many different things like war and displacement and poverty and food scarcity, immigration, survival-based labor, economic instability, families who had to keep moving in order to survive. So when we really look at history and look at our families, our family systems and even our communities, there were many periods of time where flight energy actually makes so much sense. There were mothers trying to keep their children alive during war. I could not even imagine that. There were families fleeing violence or persecution. There were so many people, including my relatives, working exhausting hours during the Great Depression just to survive. So so many of these generations learned if we stop moving, we may not make it. And even emotionally, many families survived by staying busy instead of feeling, by working instead of taking time to actually grieve the loss, by pushing through instead of processing emotions and by staying productive because survival required it. And over time, those survival beliefs can get passed forward to those same beliefs, such as work harder, don't stop, push through, rest comes later, keep going no matter what. And remember, you guys, the body learns from repetition. And sometimes what gets celebrated culturally is actually a nervous system stuck in chronic activation. Because in many ways, our culture rewards flight energy. Just think about it. Think about ads you've seen. Think about some big businesses and their logos and the messages that they're trying to put out in the world. There's so much hustle and grind and constant sense of having to be productive. And there is this big thing, there's this big theme I see of an inability to slow down. But underneath it, so many of us are exhausted. We're still trying to survive environments that may no longer exist while the body continues responding as if slowing down is dangerous. And as I talked about last week, I brought up the autumn, the autonomic nervous system. And this is constantly scanning for safety and danger. And when the nervous system perceives threat, that sympathetic nervous system activates. And this is where that adrenaline rises. This is where our cortisol increases. So when I was learning later about how irregular my cortisol was, I can totally see that was connected to those periods with my chronic illness when I was stuck in flight energy. This is also where our heart rate speeds up, where our breathing changes. Because with the autonomic nervous system and the sympathetic activation, it is helping our body prepare for survival. And this is important to understand. The brain and nervous system adapt to what they practice repeatedly. There's research I've shared before from Amy Arnstern showing that even mild, uncontrollable stress can shift the brain more towards survival and threat detection, which means that under chronic stress, the nervous system has a harder time accessing flexibility, slowing down, taking time to reflect, and feeling grounded. So instead, most of our bodies have become more practiced at things like anticipation, like scanning the room or the scenario, like staying alert, staying productive, or having to keep moving. And over time, constant urgency can start feeling normal. Stillness can start feeling unfamiliar, which means someone may genuinely struggle to slow down, to rest, or feel fully present because their nervous system has practiced acceleration for a very long time. Maybe your system has been practicing this for years, and maybe it has been in your family for more generations than you even can count. And eventually over time, the body can start learning like it no longer knows how to fully exhale. And if you've been listening to this podcast for a while, you've probably heard me come back to this idea again and again. Because the goal is instead of asking what's wrong with me, we want to start looking at what is this pattern trying to do for me? Because this question can really help shift so many things. And flight is often trying to avoid overwhelm. Flight may be trying to stay ahead of pain, to prevent failure, to help you maintain a sense of control, to help you escape discomfort, or to help you outrun emotions the body doesn't yet know how to safely hold. And when you start looking at your patterns through that lens, maybe you can start to move out of shame and into awareness. Because we can shift away from, okay, it's not that I'm lazy, I'm not broken, I'm not too anxious. And it can become my nervous system learned movement as protection. My body learned that slowing down did not feel safe. And this awareness is so important because we can't gently work with patterns that we only criticize or judge. And this is also why practicing regulation matters so much. Because once we understand what the nervous system is trying to do, we can begin teaching it something different. And this part is really important because many people think I'm going to slow down once this phase of life calms down, or once I get through this project, or once I get through this year. But for nervous systems that live in flight, slowing down can initially feel really, really uncomfortable. And I'm telling you this from experience. It can feel really restless. It can feel unsafe. Because if the body has spent so much time surviving through movement, through busyness, through anticipation, or through this sense of staying on, that stillness can feel so unfamiliar. And the nervous system, again, learns through repetition, which means when the body is highly activated, it has less access to flexibility, grounded responses, and new learning. And the system is going to shift more towards survival. So that's why we want to practice regulation during the calmer moments. That's why we want to use these tools that I share, not just when we're feeling dysregulated, because again, we will be less likely to use them and to find support in them. We want to try them more when we are when we feel like we're within our window of tolerance. Because over time, the body begins learning oh, okay, so slowing down does not equal danger. I can pause and still feel safe. And eventually over time, the nervous system starts building more capacity to stay present without needing constant movement or distraction, which I feel. Is really, really cool. So this is where the four ends can become really supportive. So we're gonna look we're gonna look through them through this lens of quite. So the first is thinking about notice. Just think about these questions. When does my system tend to speed up? Are there certain times I notice it speeding up over others? What just generally happens in my body when I start to slow down? Do I immediately reach for something like my phone or food? Do I start multitasking? Do I feel restless? Do I start mental checklisting? So just think about that with a step of notice. Second is name. And here's a few examples. Maybe it's a part of me feels unsafe stopping. Maybe it's a part of me learned that movement equals safety. And then when we look at nurture, it's just offering ourselves a little compassion, such as this makes sense. Or my nervous system learned this for a reason. Or I don't have to shame myself for a survival pattern. And in that nurture, maybe it's sitting in a self-hug or sitting in a place that feels really good for you to do this reflection. Maybe it's sitting outside under a tree. And then navigate. Now we help the body experience slowing down safely. And again, we want to start really small if it feels like it's too much for you. So maybe if it's sitting outside, you can sit outside under a tree or in the grass for just a few minutes longer. Maybe you want to take a bath and you want to put your phone down and you just want to breathe for a few minutes. Maybe you want to sit and watch a sunset with yourself or with your family or someone you love and take it all in. And next, I want to share a few somatic tools for flight. These tools, again, there's no perfect way. Not all tools are going to work for everybody. And we don't know what tools are going to work for us until we try them out. And remember to try them out when you are feeling more like you're in a regulated zone. So you can see in that state what it does for your body. And then you'll be more likely to use them when you are out of your window of tolerance. And these simple tools are about helping your nervous system be able to feel like it can slow down a little bit, that it can ground, and that it can experience safety in the present moment without you doing more. Because as we've talked about, flight energy again often feels like urgency, restlessness, or this sense to keep moving. So many of these tools help focus on helping the body come back to the present. First is one of my favorite. It's orienting. I love it. Slowly, we want to help our nervous system, our brain and our body all together take in our current surroundings. You can do this inside, you can do this outside. If your inside environment feels a little too overwhelming, please go somewhere that feels okay for your eyes to scan. Just gently, slowly, slowly, slowly start at one side. Let's say you want to start at the left, turn your head, and you're just gonna slowly turn your head all the way in 180 degrees until you get all the way to the right side. Start taking in as many senses as possible. Notice colors. Notice light and shapes and different textures. Maybe even starting to notice sounds. Let your eyes land on the thing that feel neutral, steady, or supportive. Because when the nervous system is in flight, attention narrows towards threat. And orienting helps remind the body, I'm here right now. Think about if you were actually in a situation where you were a bird, like if we think about fight or flight, right? You're a bird that was flying away from predator. You are not literally taking in all the places of like, where do I want to? What's the tree that looks the coziest for me? We're thinking about how do I get far enough away so I stay alive. So as we slow down the orienting, it reminds us that we are not having to run from something. Another one is grounding through the feet. Sit or stand and deliberately really push your feet and your toes into the floor. It's best to do this barefoot. Encourage you to get outside if possible. Notice the support of the surface underneath you. Sometimes even gently pushing your feet downward can help the body feel more anchored and stable, especially when the mind feels like it's moving 100 miles an hour. Another one is longer exhales. So if you're going to inhale through your nose for a count of four, the goal would be on these longer exhales is that anything after four, like a count of six or eight, would be the intention here. Because longer exhales help activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which signals safety and slowing to the body. The next would be a physiological sig. This is one of the fastest nervous system resets for acute anxiety. So you're going to take two shorter inhales in through the nose, followed by one longer slow exhale. And you can do that as many times as needed. This can help reduce nervous system intensity fairly quickly. Another favorite is what I call warmth and comfort. Sometimes flight energy responds really well to warmth, such as a warm shower or bath, a sauna if you have access to one, a heating pad on any part of your body that feels that flighty, anxious energy, holding a warm drink in your hand. My favorite is passion fruit tea, wrapping up in a blanket, maybe it's even a weighted blanket, because the warmth can help communicate comfort, grounding, and safety to the nervous system. Another one I think we've talked about is bilateral movement and a butterfly hug. So if you're watching on YouTube, you can see that. But what you're going to do is cross your arms over your chest and just slowly alternate tapping your shoulders. You can also cross your arms on your lap, like if you were at a work meeting or you were sitting at school under your desk, you can cross your arms on your lap and tap. And we want that that's bilateral too. Also try just any type of movement that's crossing the body, walking or slow bilateral movement. This kind of rhythm can help bring more regulation online. I also like bilateral stimulation music. One of my favorite playlists is on Spotify. I think the same one is on Apple Music. There's also some free ones on YouTube. Just go to any of your music platforms and Google bilateral stimulation music. It's also known as EMDR music because it's the music that we use in trauma therapy, but you can use it anytime. The only thing I suggest is sometimes it's so calming. I just tell my clients to not listen to it when you are in a car. And the other cool thing about, I mean, when you're driving in the car, if you're a passenger and feeling like you're trying to check out, feel free to listen to it. The other thing to note with bilateral simulation music is it does not have to be loud. Barely audible is fine. So once you put your headphones on, you want headphones on with bilateral music because it's getting that music as close to the brain as possible. And it's helping that logical and emotional brain come back online and work together again. And it's great for kids too. I have clients of all ages that use this music sometimes every single day. Okay, next. So slow rhythmic movement. This can just be gentle rocking, whether you have a rocking chair or not. You can even rock in your sit in a fetal position. This is stretching, gentle swing back and forth, and just mindful slow walking. Flight energy often does really well with rhythm and slowness over intensity. Okay, another favorite is reducing stimulation as much as possible. Trying to not pick up your phone first. Put your phone down and try these other things first. Trying to take in less constant input and trying to increase moments of intentional quiet. Sometimes the nervous system needs less stimulation before it can finally settle enough to feel safe. And this is again where that bilateral music can really, really help, especially if silence or quiet feels scary or unsafe for you. Put on that music again, barely audible. So you're still allowing yourself to not have multiple stimuli, but use the music to give your body a sense of safety. Another one, this kind of just encompasses some other like things that we've already talked about, grounding through all of your senses. We can use all of our senses. And some of us have a more dominant sense than others. So this can be a fun one to play around with. So for some people, that's going to be feeling the warm tea in their hands. For others, it's going to be sipping on it. For some people, it's going to be noticing the texture of where their feet touch on the ground. For some, it's going to be listening to calming sounds like the bilateral music or ocean music. Sometimes it's putting a hand on your heart and feeling your own skin, a weighted blanket or a pillow against your chest. These sensory cues can help communicate you are safe enough to slow down. And something I forgot about too is some clients are their strongest sense is smell. And because it's not for me, I often forget this one. And then when I have clients try it out, they'll be like, yes, I keep this oil in my bag because when I feel like I want to check out, I can take a few breaths with the oil, like breathe it in, and it totally helps settle my system. For some people, it's candles. So just notice different smells are going to create different senses in the body. So some smells are going to be more invigorating. So for some of my clients, those are going to be like citrus. Those are more motivating, more uplifting. Also, some of the pines. But for others, the pines are that do the opposite and are completely calming, also like lavender. So you just have to play around with senses. And then we talked about last time, I think the deep low voo sound, like voo. It's almost you want to make your voice sound like a fog horn. This helps create vibration through the chest and torso that helps calm the nervous system through vagal stimulation. And I'm sure you can go to YouTube and Google it and watch people doing that. And then another one I like is gentle shaking. Unlike fight, where shaking may feel more activating or releasing for flight, gentle shaking can help discharge excess adrenaline without overwhelming your system. And this is important too. Remember, we do not want to wait to practice these when we are feeling overwhelmed. Your nervous system learns best through repetition inside safety and capacity. And as I've said before, some of these tools are going to work better for you than others, but you aren't going to know until you practice them. So it's all about slowly helping the nervous system experiencing something different. And over time, your body can begin to learn it is safe to slow down, it is safe to pause, and I do not have to stay in motion to survive. Because flight energy often needs help remembering you do not have to outrun safety. You can actually feel and experience safety where you are in your body right now. And if you want support practicing this, this is exactly why I created the NeuroAir Regulation Support app. This is such a great tool, and it is currently free inside the NeuroAir Coaching membership. So if you have any questions about that, you can reach out to me at Aligning with Lianna on Instagram or go to my website, Lianahunt.com, and read all about the membership. So there's a few reflection questions I want to leave you with. Again, these and the tools will be in your show notes for you guys to look at whenever you want to. So I'll just read them and maybe you can reflect on them or come back to them later when you need them. The first one, when do I feel most unable to slow down? What emotions tend to surface when I become still? What might my busyness be protecting me from? It's a really powerful one. What happens in my body when I try to rest? And the last one, what support helps my nervous system feel safer slowing down? So in closing, I want to leave you with this. Just remember your constant movement is not proof that you're failing. It may be proof that your nervous system learns survival through staying in motion. And healing is not about becoming lazy, passive, or unmotivating. But it is about helping your body realize that safety does not always have to be earned through exhaustion. You, my friends, are allowed to rest. You are allowed to slow down and allowed to take those longer, slower, deeper, more meaningful exhales. And maybe healing looks like realizing you no longer have to keep running the entire time. Maybe healing looks like discovering that your worth does not disappear when you pause. And maybe for some of you, the bravest thing your nervous system will ever learn is how to stay present without needing to constantly stay in motion. And next week we're going to talk about freeze, what happens when the body no longer speeds up, but instead begins shutting down. And this is where we sometimes can experience that numbness, that exhaustion, that disconnection, and that feeling of being stuck. And we're also going to go into why freeze is so often misunderstood, especially by people who have spent most of their lives believing that they just needed to try harder. Because remember, freeze is not laziness either. It is also a nervous response too. So thanks you guys so much for being here. Thank you for being a part of this series. Again, any questions, send them to me at infolianahunt.com. That's my email, or just drop a message on Instagram at aligning with Liana. 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