Elle Aime Men
I’m Lila, and the Elle Aime Men Podcast is where I speak the unfiltered truth about love, sex, and freedom — and what it takes to stay open, even when it hurts.
I share what’s alive in me — the messy, sensual, deeply human parts of becoming a woman who loves without losing herself, and the ongoing dance between the feminine and masculine within us all.
Elle Aime Men
LMN Ep 7 – Inner Child Work: I Don’t Have to Earn Love
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In this episode, I share a moment that will forever change the way I relate to myself and, ultimately, to everyone else.
What began as emotional overwhelm turned into a profound inner child experience that revealed how much of my life had been shaped by performing for love, approval, and safety. It broke the survival pattern I'd been operating from for most of my life.
This episode is about the power of inner child work, and about choosing the part of me that once felt invisible, unchosen, and abandoned, learning that I don’t have to earn love to be safe.
Something shifted in my nervous system that day. And with it, my capacity to choose myself, over and over again.