你贏咗場交，卻輸咗段關係！《不吵架也能贏的溝通術》講透感情裡最蠢的『贏』

專業人身傷害訴訟律師提供的三大溝通策略

讓你的下一次對話改變一切

在日常生活中、在職場上，甚至在家庭裡，

我們總會碰到不好相處的人、無法避免的爭論，

以及困難的對話。這時，我們常常會想……

「早知道剛剛就這樣說！」

「如何清楚表達我的想法？」

「要怎麼溝通才不會吵起來？」

「如何回應對方的挑釁或貶低？」

這正是作者傑佛森・費雪每天要面對的難題。

費雪身為專業的人身傷害訴訟律師，也是現實世界的頂尖溝通專家，

他在本書中強調，重點並不在於應該說什麼，而是應該怎麼說。

他將每天在現實世界中處理爭吵、分歧、激烈爭論，以及艱難對話時汲取的教訓，

整理成教科書和課堂沒有教、源自實際經驗的實用建議。

無論是要面對激烈的爭論、應付難搞的人物，或是自信堅守立場，

書中的務實技巧能夠幫助讀者輕鬆應用在各種對話情境，

克服生活中的棘手難題。這些技巧可歸納為三大法則：

掌控你的說話方式。

說話時要有自信。

說話是為了建立連結。

作者還提供隨時能派上用場的策略和語句，以及禁得起考驗的溝通框架，

幫助讀者透過改善下一次對話，來改變日常生活和人際關係。

你想表達的一切，以及你想表達的方式，解答都在本書裡。

各界好評

費雪結合個人獨特的專業知識和非凡能力，將以證據為本的方法淬煉為輕鬆好記的工具，不僅讓人第一次就上手，也讓今後的每次交流都能創造更有效的對話。

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