不要只看見傷口：自殘背後真正需要的是什麼？《割腕的誘惑》

本書深入探究自傷者形成自我傷害性格的原因，並提供療癒的方法。
 
 
 
自我傷害是一種令人恐懼的行為，當我們看見流血的傷口及疤痕，難免心生厭惡及挫折，因而無法看透迷失於痛苦中、急需專業協助的個案。
 
 
 
本書帶領讀者穿越自傷個案的私密心理歷程，了解每一個個案特殊的過往經歷、動機以及傷害自已的複雜心境。自傷者是以刻意製造身體的苦痛，來解決精神層面的痛苦與折磨；藉由血液的流失，來尋求心靈的慰藉。換句話說，疼痛與自我傷害，是用來轉移心理創傷的方式，可說是一種「苦澀的藥物」。
 
 
 
想了解人們為何會一再傷害自己，最好的方式就是仔細聆聽他們的心聲。本書以豐富的個案故事、深入淺出的專業觀點，來幫助老師、父母、精神科醫師及輔導界人士，對自我傷害行為有更深刻的了解，以幫助個案展開「重建」與「療癒」的歷程。

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