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WTF Just Happened: Life is messy. Let's talk about it!
WTF Just Happened… Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It is the podcast for women who realized midlife hit harder than expected. From grief to divorce, dating disasters to financial rebounds, Botox to boundaries — nothing is off limits.
Hosted by two women who’ve survived loss, heartbreak, and starting over (with humor intact), this show is part therapy, part group chat, and part “did she really just say that?”
Hosted by Hilary and Sada....two BFF's smack dab in the messy middle!
If your life feels messy, you’re in the right place! Grab your favorite cocktail, or mocktail of choice, your favorite emotionally supportive snack, get cozy, and come hang with us!
Episodes
11 episodes
WTF Is Happening to My Hair? (Illness, GLP-1 & Menopause) | Aria Pilar
Hair loss is more than cosmetic — it’s emotional, personal, and deeply tied to identity.In this honest and compassionate episode of WTF Just Happened — Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Sada and Hilary sit down with ...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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1:25:37
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Starting Over Financially: What Women Need to Know After Divorce, Death, or Financial Betrayal | Michelle Perry Higgins, CFT™
What happens when you suddenly become responsible for all the money — after divorce, the death of a spouse, or the discovery of a financial betrayal you never saw coming?In this powerful and necessary episode of WTF Just Happ...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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1:11:50
Your Makeup Isn’t the Problem. Your Face Changed. | Nicole Wagner
What if makeup wasn’t about looking younger — but about feeling confident, polished, and like yourself at every stage of life?In this episode of WTF Just Happened — Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Sada and Hilary sit ...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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1:12:12
Midlife — Turns Out This Is the Good Part
We were told midlife would be a crisis.Turns out… it’s a glow-up.In this episode of WTF Just Happened — Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Sada and Hilary dive into the funny, honest, wildly relatable truth about life in your...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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50:58
No Is a Complete Sentence (And I Finally Meant It)
If we could live the exact same lives again — the love, the kids, the marriages, the friendships, the mistakes, the growth — we wouldn’t change a thing.Except one thing.Boundaries.In this episode of WTF Just Happe...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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35:31
Slowing Down in 2026: Time Is a Scam and We Want a Refund!
Did anyone else blink… and somehow lose an entire year?In this episode of WTF Just Happened — Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Sada and Hilary slow things way down to talk about something so many women are craving — but don’t k...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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1:07:02
La La Land - Escaping Reality, Grief Fog, & the Messy Middle of Midlife
In this episode of WTF Just Happened — Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, we dive into what we lovingly call La La Land — the emotional place you slip into when real life feels too heavy, grief is suffocating, or adulthood is s...
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Season 1
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Episode 5
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49:58
WTF Happened to My Face? Aging, Aesthetics, Facelifts & Real Talk with Amy Melchior, MSN, APNP, FNP-BC and Owner of Medical Rejuvenation in Gladstone, OR
In this brutally honest — and genuinely funny — episode of WTF Just Happened — Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Sada and Hilary dive into one of the most requested midlife topics: our faces, aging, facelifts, fillers, and what the hel...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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1:08:55
Plot Twist: The Day Susan From Wells Fargo Hard-Launched My Divorce - Hilary's Story
In this raw, deeply honest — and at times darkly funny — episode of WTF Just Happened? Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Hilary shares the true story of the day a cheerful call from “Susan at Wells Fargo” blew the lid off her ...
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Season 1
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Episode 3
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1:04:08
Paradise Interrupted: Widowhood, Love, and Learning to Breathe Again - Sada's Story
Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of sudden loss, widowhood, trauma, and grief.In this unforgettable episode of WTF Just Happened — Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Sada shares her full, unfiltered story ...
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Season 1
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Episode 2
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1:20:39