EP16｜怎樣才是對的人？｜如何重新相信愛情和婚姻 ft. 彭一峰 Sam Pan (30menu) (下集)

在這個看似連「承諾」都變得稀缺的時代，一段健康和經得起考驗的關係，還可能存在嗎？

這一集，我和 Sam 談到他的感情歷程。從過去害怕承諾，到遇見現在的太太後，重新理解什麼是愛。

我們也討論：
 「喜歡」和「愛」之間的差別是什麼？
 又該如何判斷，一段關係值得繼續努力，還是應該放手？

如果你正在愛裡猶豫、掙扎，或不確定眼前這段關係是否適合長久發展，這一集或許會給你一些更清晰的判斷方向。

也許，所謂「對的人」，不是完美無缺的人，而是兩個人是否願意在關係中一起成長。
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00:00 預告
00:44 什麼經歷改變對愛的看法  
02:08 從花心到願意付出承諾    
05:02 喜歡與愛的區別 
06:15 和妻子關係猶如相思鳥 
09:04 怎麼知道對方是對的人    
13:44 你聽過最好的婚姻建議 
14:41 你聽過最差的愛情建議      
16:03 你理想中的完美人生是什麼？       
17:36 給不再相信愛情的人的建議       
19:03 你生命裡最重要的一首歌 
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｜來賓｜彭一峰 Sam Pan (30menu)

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

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SPEAKER_01 0:08

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SPEAKER_00 0:12

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SPEAKER_01 0:28

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SPEAKER_00 1:14

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SPEAKER_01 3:31

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SPEAKER_00 3:43

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SPEAKER_01 4:31

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SPEAKER_00 4:47

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SPEAKER_01 5:02

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SPEAKER_00 5:06

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SPEAKER_01 5:40

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SPEAKER_00 5:46

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SPEAKER_01 6:03

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SPEAKER_00 6:07

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SPEAKER_01 9:03

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SPEAKER_00 9:47

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SPEAKER_01 11:36

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SPEAKER_00 12:01

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SPEAKER_01 13:07

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SPEAKER_00 14:11

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SPEAKER_01 15:23

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SPEAKER_00 15:26

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SPEAKER_01 16:03

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SPEAKER_00 16:06

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SPEAKER_01 16:31

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SPEAKER_00 18:17

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SPEAKER_01 19:02

Joe Hagamant.

SPEAKER_00 19:25

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SPEAKER_01 20:17

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