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Welcome to Divorce the IRS, the Retirement Income Planning Podcast—built for people who want to pay the least amount of taxes possible and create retirement income that actually lasts. Inspired by Jimmy Miller’s bestselling book Divorce, the IRS, this show takes you behind the scenes of the tax rules, retirement strategies, and planning decisions that can quietly determine how much of your money you keep.

The truth is, taxes aren’t just “something you deal with later.” The U.S. tax code is massive, confusing by design, and full of traps that can hit hardest right when you need your money most. From 401(k)s and IRAs to Social Security and Medicare, many common “smart moves” can turn into expensive surprises—like required minimum distributions, Medicare surcharges, the widow’s penalty, and other retirement tax time bombs most people don’t see coming until it’s too late.

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Tax Time Bomb 8: Paying Taxes from the Grave

April 21, 2026 • James Miller

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What happens to your money after you pass away?

For many families, the answer is more complicated and more costly than expected.

In this episode of The Divorce the IRS Podcast, we break down the final tax time bomb, often described as paying taxes from the grave. It is a hidden risk that can leave your heirs with a significant tax burden, even if your intentions were to pass along as much wealth as possible.

We walk through how tax-deferred accounts like IRAs and 401(k)s are treated when inherited, and why recent rule changes have made this issue even more important. For non-spouse beneficiaries, the requirement to withdraw funds within a limited timeframe can create a tax spike, especially if those heirs are in their peak earning years.

We also explore how this tax burden can be larger than expected, depending on who inherits your assets and what their financial situation looks like. Without proper planning, what you leave behind could be taxed at a higher rate than what you experienced during your lifetime.

The good news is there are ways to prepare. We discuss strategies that may help reduce or eliminate this burden, including the use of Roth accounts and how certain types of life insurance can be structured to offset future taxes for your heirs.

This is not just about what you leave behind, it is about how efficiently it is passed on.

If leaving a legacy matters to you, this is a conversation worth having as part of your overall financial plan.

In this episode, you will learn:

How inherited retirement accounts are taxed
Why the 10-year withdrawal rule can create a tax spike
How your heirs’ tax bracket impacts what they actually keep
The difference between passing assets to a spouse versus other beneficiaries
Strategies that may help reduce or eliminate taxes for your heirs

Make sure to subscribe so you do not miss the next episode, where we begin to tie these strategies together and show how to apply them within your financial plan.

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Welcome to the Divorce the IRS Podcast, the retirement income planning podcast designed specifically for those who want to pay the least amount of taxes possible and build a retirement income that lasts. Inspired by the best-selling book, Divorce the IRS, you get to go behind the scenes with financial planner, author, and speaker Jimmy Miller. Learn how to set yourself up to pay the least amount of taxes in retirement when you'll need your money the most. And now, here's your host, Jimmy Miller.

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Welcome. Welcome to episode 17 of the Divorce IRS Podcast. In today's show, we're going to unpack the final tax time bomb, paying taxes from the grave. Let's dive right in. Now many people would love to leave a legacy to charity or the ones they love the most. But even if your goal is to die broke, it's likely you will leave something at the end of your life to someone. This can be yet another tax time bomb explosion. It's one that you light the fuse on, but doesn't go off until the moment you pass away, leaving a tax burden for the ones you love. If you've managed your golden years correctly, you've already diffused many tax time bombs. Now, you may also have a growing estate and are thinking about passing that money to the next generation. Proper estate planning is designed to avoid paying more to the government than necessary and to make sure you're passing on as much as possible to your loved ones. At the end of your life, if you have money in a tax-deferred retirement plan like an IRA or 401k, you can bequeath it to anyone you choose. But you should know that they will have to pay taxes on every penny they inherit from these types of accounts, unless you give your money to a qualified charity. This can create quite a tax explosion, depending on who inherits your money. Let's look at how inheritance taxes work. Now, if your spouse inherits your IRA, assuming they're a US citizen, the process is fairly straightforward, and they can just combine that money into their own IRA. They still have to pay taxes on the money as they withdraw it though, now at the single tax rates, as we learned about with Tax Time Bomb 7, the widower's penalty, in the last episode. If you pass the money to someone other than your spouse, another explosion starts. With the passage of the new Secure Act that changed the rules for taking money from inherited IRAs. In general, a non-spouse beneficiary, like your kids, for example, will have up to 10 years to take out all the money from your IRA, and they'll pay taxes on every penny. The stretch IRA is now a thing of the past. Now, this can be a bigger explosion than you realize, as the tax rate on that money is now at the beneficiary or the kids' tax rate. And the kids may still be in their working years, making really good money. Let's say your beneficiaries are your kids. Now that the money is theirs, the withdrawals may be taxed in an even higher tax bracket than you were in, or even worse, the money may push your kids into an even higher tax bracket. Now you can diffuse this bomb with the same strategies we've been talking about, or not. Some of the people I work with don't care about the tax burden they may leave to their heirs once they've departed this earth. And that's okay. I totally get it. They say their kids should be happy to get anything. And if they must pay a lot of taxes on the money, so be it. If this is how you feel, there's no need to worry about this tax time bomb. Others care deeply about this issue. Some people want their loved ones or chosen charities to receive every penny they possibly can. Others have a huge dislike for the IRS and don't want to offer them a single penny extra if they don't have to. If either of these describes you, don't worry, there's ways to defuse this tax time bomb. The two most popular strategies are the same ones used to defuse the last tax time bomb of outliving your spouse. If you planned earlier, shifted your money to the tax-free bucket, and utilized Roth strategies, you can sleep well knowing that anyone can inherit your Roth accounts completely tax-free. Even if they take every penny out on the day they inherit the money, it doesn't matter. It's all tax-free. The other popular strategy is to make sure you have a permanent life insurance policy in place. Then when you and your spouse have passed, your heirs will receive enough tax-free life insurance proceeds to cover any of the taxes due on the other money they inherit from you. There's even a special kind of life insurance designed specifically for this tax time bomb called second-to-die life insurance. Second-to-die life insurance is exactly as it sounds. It's a policy based on two people's lives, and it pays out when the second person or spouse passes away. The kids will then inherit the tax-deferred accounts, and they'll need the life insurance money to pay the tax bills they also inherit. These policies are usually for married couples who want to defuse this last tax time bomb and not pay taxes from the grave. It's best to work with a financial planner or a state attorney if you're considering this strategy, as you care deeply about this issue and you want to get it right. Now, we've discussed all eight tax time bombs that can cause you to pay more than necessary to the IRS, both before and after you retire. They are exploding tax rates, early withdrawal penalties, sharing your retirement with the IRS, Social Security taxes, Medicare premiums, required minimum distributions, outliving your spouse, and now paying taxes from the grave. It can feel overwhelming to see all these potential bombs ready to explode, but as I have explained, there are ways to diffuse all of these bombs. In the upcoming episodes of this podcast, we will cover what you need to do with all this information, including how to identify your ideal number and how to work with these strategies to diffuse the tax time bombs. We'll then review some case studies so you can see how these strategies work in the real world. Make sure to stay tuned so that you can put the strategies to work within the context of your financial plan and diffuse these tax time bombs. Don't forget to like and subscribe to the show so you don't miss any important information.

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