الكلمة قد تصنع إنسانًا وقد تحطمه - مشورة الموسم الثاني مع ياسر الحزيمي | الحلقة السادسة والعشرون

حديثنا اليوم عن سحر الكلمات .. ذلك التأثير الخفي الذي قد يغيّر مشاعر الإنسان ونظرته للحياة.

فالكلمات ليست مجرد حروف تُقال؛ أحيانًا كلمة تقلب الألم أملًا، وكلمة تشعل علاقة كانت على وشك الانطفاء، وأخرى قد تتحوّل إلى جرحٍ يبقى أثره طويلًا.

ضيف الحلقة عبد الإله الأحمري، المتخصص في مجال المبيعات وتطوير الأعمال، يشاركنا تجربته مع أثر الكلمات في مسيرته المهنية.

كيف يمكن لكلمة واحدة في الوقت المناسب أن تصنع فرقًا كبيرًا في حياة إنسان؟

يروي ضيفنا قصة كلمة قالها له أحد مدرائه في مرحلة كان يشك فيها بقدراته. كلمة بسيطة لكنها كانت صادقة وفي توقيتها المناسب، فأعادت إليه الثقة بنفسه، وكانت بداية مرحلة جديدة في حياته المهنية؛ إذ استطاع خلال فترة قصيرة أن ينتقل إلى منصب أعلى ويحقق إنجازات على الصعيدين العملي والأكاديمي.

في هذه الحلقة نتحدث عن:
أثر الكلمات في حياة الإنسان
كيف يمكن لكلمة أن تبني إنسانًا… أو تهدمه
الفرق بين الكلام المنطوق وما يُفهم منه
أهمية التوقيت والسياق عند اختيار الكلمات
لماذا يكون تأثير الكلمة السلبية أحيانًا أقوى من الإيجابية
ولماذا يعد جبر الخواطر بالكلمات من أعظم القربات

حلقة تذكّرنا بأن الكلمة ليست عابرة دائمًا؛ فقد تكون كلمة واحدة سببًا في إشعال الأمل في قلب إنسان، أو بداية طريق جديد في حياته.

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SPEAKER_05 0:54

Hayakumullah, Wahadith un Mumted and Sahir Al Kalimat. Hadil Kalimat Aleti Yunkin and Takulha Fatakumul Taiba, Tusha il Alaka, Canat Mutawahija. Whadil Kalimat, Tathawal Ilalakamat, Takhvi Binni Zal, Ala Hayatin, Canat Tambok, Bukulli Jamilin, Bainatara Fin.

SPEAKER_06 1:45

GTO Namage Mashora Stadiusami. Kalim Anni ani elf Kalim. Kuntu Shakikik, Fiqudati, Withakarli, Yaani, Hajj Muhimajiddin, who can attain alkitir, Kelly and Tiabdi rahmub, Utikdar Tukna Ayamil with Hel Aimushkile. Fihadil Marhala, Aat, Jemakwai, Shekhil Kabir Jiddin, Wil Hamdirillah, Yaani Hidal Fatra Basia Jiddin, Sa Adani Hadir Mudir, and Antakil Ila Jih Akbar, Bimans of Ala, Fihiral Fetra Basita Jiddin, Wahakek Dardu Majester, Fihiral Hadi Erah.

SPEAKER_05 2:52

Yimkin Ahnan Shufnan al Gussa Adia Lakinam Lukanat Adia Masana At and San. Arubama Tahdin Al Kerimakanat Athera Bimtawaha Ulb Toketa.

SPEAKER_06 3:15

Bitokait al Muhimjiddin, Fi Fi Babel Hyan Subhanallah and San Yusibah, we shakik Fikud, Lakin Lemayid Kurla, Mudira, Ali Kun Akrab Lah Bishekil Yomi, and Lafedan and Tatigdar, Tinjah, Tigdar, It Haggik Kulin Mustah de Fatali Truhamank, Wakar. Hayan al Kalimatilitusanna, Takunjamila, Fimwatawaha.

SPEAKER_05 3:38

Lemat Gulli Shay Anna Ashik in the Mujud Indi, Fa Tuaidli Uthawuli, a Shekh Ilyakin, Fatakunkawiya Fimwatawaha, Wahyan El Kelimatakunra yeah, Fito Kitia, Mutil Castle Alobama. Lemajikmoya, and to meant about Shanjikmoya unta.

SPEAKER_06 3:56

Then as Elk Suahed said the sir Kaf Achtar El Kalima U Kafe in the Eferrig bin a sheks umadayaksit. Lennu Lum Ehna Alkalim Munkin in Hukat in Sankinna Tej Ali Hakakrajat Kibira Jiddin, Mithilma Hassalmei.

SPEAKER_05 4:14

Ana Andana Filkalam Hanugul Mursil Wutalakhi. Kunma can't resaratwadiha, Utahit haarjaid, wa slob l Techdimha, wa al adat isalha, munasiba, hafa andel mutalakti atesho al marrifi. Yani, mahna was salt fikratik, seta la kahatara filahar mankosa, lentakunka makasat, lendel kalam no ein, kalamu mantok u kalamu mafun, kalam mantok an a gilt shay and tefam t shai ah. Ahan tokunishkal fi tokitl uhikra. Tokita fakatl kelimatokita, fi shkali anatikelimat metalan sahe sahe. Not at any kenimat sahe. Ushaxah lihuhata aksahpa. Low anatala kit with takarir a gulik sahe Ushakhasar Aksa Sahim Nah. Nan Sahih Sahim Lan Sahi and Nyanatayib Mavinish nah Lennifi Muktaba. Hadil Kelma Talef Memadrasa, Ugil Klick Sahih, Faksa Hapa, Oh Axa I Jabahtia Nah. Fel Kellimanafsa, Leha Majmuat um Yani Maani Hasaba Siakha.

SPEAKER_06 5:38

Bad Jels to Hwari Mel Stadia Sal Hisami, Tare Hadam Bel Kameland. El Kenima Mumpkin and Yakun Lehman if you wok it wait. Illa antwaz the himada tex Bilkalima. Fa himkin had akbar uh anaimkin fam to Yumakunt Mutawakasalahatan and Hat of Hambiad Tarika, and no bad, Risalatna, Matosal, Bekani Gulh.

SPEAKER_05 6:04

Fi uh Ebarat, Ufi Kalam, my slachtugul, Biljawal, Lazim Tugule, and Mutalaki shoofra de kuj kukef ada ekli uhad sal and tifrigna. Ayanan it's a tokit nefsa a tokit, yefrug, and ad krmar marat. A hadil fuller sali, any bashirni lafia gulda bashirkeobadur, and ne to meleck ya nihatab to work to kitab. Farad rod detay ma brook nashallaf gik wuma iladarikum guilt latinsa al word. Sani hasan nepsa deman, hustant lachbar say the kid. I didn't tell you girli ale romancy. I am a master abtiani I shall fikra u shall lish of Hamakida. Tumadract and Nasia, yeah, an infohima and nanixadlatinsa word. By lish ya del word, lean the zawajomilka okay there, manserf the kar, why nam saraf il a fikrat as horu wordul hadaya orha. By hal anemohta al jabla, halo of hamma hat al jabla in the mahiaja at fisia, Hammarat oja. Da iman a managul kelma e the madnabal etibar, a siar, a tohit, uh cave safe hamha, call hadil awamil, at taj alkalami, youfambaterikab. Ahiana i kun inden mushkila aswan, fianal kelman ofsa, laisalaha mukabil thehni, al an al kalam arba anwa. Howul Hanugul Mushal kalam, almojudat arba, semmetamujudun aini, womu judun dhni, womu judun lefri, mo judun kitabi. Albark, lahu mojud aini, mishufa killin. Walahu judun thehni. Mugul kibark, ya tivnik surat bark, kemahiya, wakema aksudana. Walahu ujudun kitabi, alba wa raw kaf, walahu judun muntok, alu kenimat bark. Lakim lisa kulul mojudat, behadil arba. Lesat kulul moju that, the kulmo judah, the niin, wainian, wa kitabien wal of the kmita. Lematugululik metan o jason mapam. Yaolidi egal. Rayujad shay aini, youfacilli, il agil was shoe. Fa gumul wala diskit mate herlac. Fagul wala gimilab. You gul tip al abu lagle, and a magasatinik el abbihudu, had anat of siri n lil akal andtil abihudu sot. What if sirin lil akal in the mate herlaq? Fadiwa had them t had diat aywal mu juda filluha. Daqala had tala midl imam shafi, wal imam cantaban, faqala ya imam kawallahu lafak. Idrila, fakalahu yabunei, la kawallahu laafi, lahalek. Lauda awta ali, laalimtu, and nakalim turid illa khir. Aladiyatruko l'ahti malat, wayintakil aswa'minha, liyefama fahman layakid. Kalimati to sanna, castle ala. Kalimati la tul kilaha balan titulakha shax, or tus bina canal in minute. Kelimati rahigul helik, bitkunabik, fi wqatikli datik, tikli, makari linte gat tishturfi. Wa dalik al-mudhir al-muatir, uli ihtar kalimati bi naya, li anhadil kalimat in atlaqtaham sadrik,etfi, ulubul akali. Busa atbashani erja ali limokaf kmal al-mudir. Hal kun tahtaj Ila hadil kalimat Jiddin. And kunt mhataj na kani fa himt fidahalik can sort you shek kikfishin.

SPEAKER_06 10:40

Na.

SPEAKER_05 10:40

Felemaj atl kalima and let you to lam sa the shek he'll let you son at Sharara. Alad Hadit?

SPEAKER_06 10:48

Nah, Feelim. Hadith wayar al Qa'ida Bennis Balib shekel Kamel. But Yim can if you had Lani al Wakt Kunjid Muhtaj had Kalima, Lidaljit and Yanifadikis Sena, Ana Hakakak Darajit Magister, Wukadalik, and Takalt ila shek, Hasalt Alamansub Ali. Nam, Waka Kabir Jiddin Ali.

SPEAKER_05 11:17

Taliq ala mukfli Sarben Kubain al Mudir, Subhanallah Yaani Kem Kalima Yakun Sasalim, Laul Kiba Lahabalan, L'insan, Kem Kalima, La Yulki Lahabalan, Tahui Behvin Naf Sabina Kharifa. Why run Ahayan Kem Kalima Laukil In San Lahbalan, Fil Alakat, uh Tezra Doruba Minashok. Nah, oh, Tezra Hukulan Minalword. Manadrimilizaratha. Ya ni antadal almudirkmanishisma. And Igadam Narujul Naj. Wa hadan Najah, who wa ahad Samarat, Dalikarjul and Ledi Lana Arifmanhua. What the Avamat Dalalatinas Al Kher ul Kalamattai wa Hathum Alef al Al Jamil u Turkil Khabih, Utmar the Allah. Uthman Ledi Te Zewja Mnibate Nabi. Mahatzewjinibnate Nabi Illa Utmar the Allahan. Uthman ledi testaimul Malaik, Uthman and Ledi Baya and Nabisalallah Sellema and Hu bay Atarwan. Uthman lodi Allah an Aledi Kala anhu Nabisalallah Yusallem Ma dharra Utman Mafa ala Badalyom, Uthman and Ledi Sa'adajabal Uhut. Faqal Nabis Allah sallamtis Jabal Uhut Kalath but Nabi Muhammad Wasaddiq Abu Bakr Washahi Day. Um, wait mardiallah. Utman kulha dal Fadul, Wahad Sharaf, Wahadal Umr al Madid Shihidmatul Islam, Hassanah, Min Hassanat Abu Bakr, Liana Hudillah Al Islam, Bil Kalimat Taib. Alidalik is al nafda imanfi Hadil Hayat Men Uthmani. Men in Liana Feelen Giltlik Kilma Hayirat Minhayat Wajat Shah San Achal. Al Imam al Ghazali Matullah Alamajat killem and sana and it killem in San Kalamtai. Tha killem the sana and juzin. Anathana Sana un ala khafi Watana un ala jali. Wal hadith and sana' il jali, with sana al-safi, abda al imam al-Ghazali rahima, feet of sevihi. Asana al Jeli Kul U Tana in Anta muta akkid and na humujudfik Raliban La Yutrib. Wayu shayin anta tashukfiu judhi fiik ida utniya alik ralibin yutrib. Fatatimatalan, ilatil kalfatat, fi have li zawaji achih. Hefustana maram aljibha, metak de ha dahua al jalibnisbeleh. Lakinhashakitisrihatha. Fredajit inta, tuthni alfustanha, leniwat firfiha, likein Lamathni alatisrihatha, onatrab, li annakala mashekula mistahtiach, the rubti shrika, wakanata shrika, ehdashriikatil masula, and uh niwam sahar. Anatakhart al moet, fajitum am shibsira, fulgitatni sahar. Wanaba el shherika, al masula and eh de shrikat masula and had the niva. Fa dam to muhavarahom can machal last, ja attakrim, the almudir temfidi, fay atunidir anbab duabba, giltilhom uh tini dir, alamatani dir, gabdushway, martini gisim, muhalefa. Navarni gal, namatinak, and illi akat. Kana kalima, layunkkin andseha, li anha, askat minakli, takafat, al iskat, sahal and san y kun vahaya W in Khattahin Majabi Tarosud al Acharim, la mu antifamtani halok, analigilt kalma, mufi mahallah, or defekir tariqa, and the anna mis ul and suluki, mis ul and kalami, mis ul anaslubi, waqatkalin the be sallallahu alayhu salim la kadkulti kalima kalima low muzijet bima al bahrila mazajet which can kalima basanim sasalem dakara shachsan fakalem aninda kalat uhsira to sefan a kalima fakanim sasalim laqad ulti kalima lum muzijet bima al baharla mazajet animoitil Baharadi low mazajet lethawa let ila zir teen kin mazajet ya ni halatatil al ma kul or y kalma wahda, kalima ms uliye and kanat sifemika saqad am sakta biha, what inharajet am saket pik.

SPEAKER_06 15:46

Shukran, laya tikum shukran dise. Zadat kana aasy, what you manib kellim akhar wa akhar you shekel mufasan.

SPEAKER_05 16:00

And adjim in al mudir makani twaqakar and kelma bira munkin and tasnahayat kadima, fi kalb insan. Yal kelma humushet, hadid fa'ana ilet ummulkatiran and the kulmazat hajmek fihayat in san of kalb insan o machanatik in the insan, yajib and tuai kul herf to gula, ferg kabir ben and sadigik, you gul annik kelma bibkoisa, ferg and uboak, youf sadma annik, kulmazat the hajman in san, fihayatik, asbahat kalimata, laha thukal kabir, finaf sikk in kanat haira bali.

SPEAKER_07 17:33

How will I jar him?

SPEAKER_02 17:34

Lemma had uh my roof metal anna sawaiter. What ye metal and sha see at any of which he kid. I under Hatteria and you literally matin la tul kila balan.

SPEAKER_05 17:56

Taco images what he a jed what Hamas at a wabinat letter can camel in minute.

SPEAKER_03 18:04

Can my taliba and a hib naftsus soft ma can be killamith here, like in hatlib mushkila. Anucktah kun teddy in the other nafsy, a gum at the jes of the old fail, sert akabnukadha nafsi and uh or a goalha e the shiftab at the hil killam aisha. Fa hatel talibatli manatumana saw nafsi shay naduhabnikah, bada hasara hamarf ashara lehabisma shiftaha or malwak sirt anab at the kilmokadi a go tista, malwaktiom bad to ashway ziada sertomiri and nibni, a go inigal tana and them in ikit astam na kadlafa dudha. Shay lisa weta canmar. Elham fame kedash kilima tdi and umkilme conferos.

SPEAKER_05 18:56

Nadima ail asaf uh chabadiklma.

SPEAKER_03 19:02

Hal tatamina fi studio mashura betidar Ay and Hambiburn Mashura uh Tidarmannikalisar Gabil uh shakralha.

SPEAKER_05 19:18

And uh Fima can ahadiya rifle when Timazit Krihabhair with Krihabimatarfiman Khair, Wop Kidan Shallah Yaani uh has sent you. And Nedemu Tauba.

SPEAKER_00 19:58

Leh al Kilma Silbia, Tat Sirakilmi Jabia, metan the good trik and checks Jamil, tadil kelmayan, but Silbiya tip gazette numur.

SPEAKER_05 20:07

Shukran Alaswalik al Jamil Shuf Ayikelima Tuafuk Diah and Uhawl Mukawanta Twa Tirfina Akter. Sa Al Insan Yahrobman Shay, Wyotlob Shay, Aikelma Takidrendema Yahrobman Raliban Yan Tebela Ayikelma Tushekilta Hadid Benisbell Insan Yen Tebella Akhtar Mur Waikalima Ana Abti Adin Anha Walesnaptira Biyimenha Yan Tebala Insan Akhtar Fidi Rasa Faransian that had that anal in San Yadkur and Kerimat and Musias of Alf El Kerimat and E Jabir and a wakal Dimagal Anna to Shekilta Hadid, Yafer Dakila, Aktaru Akta. Ayan al Kerimel Jamila Nashuk Kalha O and Nahujamin. Oh Nashuk Fista Lakin Ahyanan Matkun Kalima Sia Shoona Nahna Stahka Shourna and Nalikalehakaleha wawasad ku bitabiru jazm ejananat etar bitabi atna Bilkalam selbi akharmant ethurna Bilkalamli jabi. Wahitaman Takuru andan Nabi Salalla Mayakul a Habul a mali ilallah Surur Tudhileh ilakalb Muslim, kem Jabbarat il kalimat Minhawater, wayakul Sahwi rahimahullah Jabbrul Kawater Min Ava Mil Kurobat.