Getting Kinky, with Phylystyne
A guide to BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy, multiple dynamics, polyamory, what it's like to be a Sadist, and how to approach BDSM sensibly
Getting Kinky, with Phylystyne
BDSM 107 - Who are these submissives?
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In this episode, we look at the archetypes that submissives present as. Not a one-size-fits-none, most actual people will blend some of these in how they are. But the archetypes give us a map to understand responses, reactions, behaviours, and the headspace that they are seeking from the Dom and from the dynamic.
Submissive archetypes, then, and how to identify, engage with and deliver a positive outcome for them. Well, a positive outcome for that aspect of them, at least... because in the real world a submissive will always be more complicated than that!