Getting Kinky, with Phylystyne
A guide to BDSM, Ethical Non-Monogamy, multiple dynamics, polyamory, what it's like to be a Sadist, and how to approach BDSM sensibly
Getting Kinky, with Phylystyne
BDSM 117 - Pretty Red Flags
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Richard
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How do you know if a new potential partner is safe to play with? We look at vetting, what red flags look like, what beige flags might mean, and what happens when you meet someone who skirts past your careful vetting technique.
And what about them? Are they vetting you appropriately? Is their vetting a red flag?
How to navigate the minefield that is getting to know someone and decide if they are a suitable person to play with...