Why Do People Do That?! Camille, Iya, and Suzi on Everyday Annoyances

Mga Mars, ready na ba kayo sa isang episode na siguradong makaka-relate ang lahat?

Sa episode na ito, we talk about our biggest pet peeves! Hindi ito ‘yung mga alaga naming pets ha, but ‘yung mga maliliit na bagay na minsan hindi natin napapansin pero pwedeng maka-bother sa ibang tao. Mula sa hindi paghuhugas ng kamay pagkatapos mag-CR, pag-iiwan ng kalat sa public spaces, maingay na panonood ng videos sa cellphone, hanggang sa mga simpleng household habits na pwedeng pagmulan ng inis!

Pero na-realize rin namin na hindi lang pala ito tungkol sa mga nakakairitang gawain. At the heart of every pet peeve is a lesson about consideration, awareness, and respect for the people around us. Napag-usapan din namin kung paano natin maituturo sa ating mga anak ang pagiging mindful, responsible, at considerate sa bahay man o sa labas.

At syempre, gaya ng lahat ng chikahan ng mga Mars, hindi mawawala ang tawanan, mga personal stories, at mga realizations na baka ikaw mismo ay guilty rin pala sa ilan sa mga pet peeves na pinag-uusapan namin!

Tara, mga Mars, sabay-sabay nating alamin: ano nga ba ang mga bagay na dapat nating baguhin para maging mas considerate at mas mindful sa ating araw-araw na buhay?

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Anuba, mi mga geni to baho. Pana anubai mga pet peefs ko. Alwa pet peeves ko yung hindi na kuhu kas na kabai. I just realized, mgaba ba yung pet peeve nag nasa store bwa ko sa ba ingai. Yung ma iing nay mag anun ng kobierta smars. Clink clink clink link ling yung. Bam bam bam bam. Tapas pakin na streach. Baba sanghi ping. Paga ilamg papaso kanang malines na baha hai. Parang na ging practice kosha natin natangal ko yung sapato sko. Leaving drawers open. And not putting things back where they should be. Kasiang ko yung shempre, si no mgaha na, mama, king. Where's the leg ma? Where's the like sure make a lakit tung mga triggers din si guru naps? I'm sure there's probably there's that aspect to it also. But again, taxi bug. Because we are on another episode. And yunga, like I love how we don't overly plan these things in Foi, okay? We pretty much just rock up and we'll be like, what do you want to talk about? Me and Singga pang. I remember our first recording. Yes. But we had something else planned, and then all of a sudden we're like, let's talk about fitness. Magdalena wan tay na mga workout yung. Okay, so today what we will be talking about is or pet peeves. Yes. And go sip kawinito bagg starting. Anuba, mimaga geni to baho. Kasi dimasha normally ma yi isipin na anten mg nyade sha right then and there. Na, pa rang na titra kun nitoa? Pa rang gana noan. Ahun na gua ya na sina bin yan. Pana angba y mga pet peeves ko. Oh my gosh, ahulang yatang my pet peeves. A hula ba mgus na episode. Yung me did something trigger you at big langang na isip mang pet peeves. Yung isang episode na t. No, yuniti taang bagwas na kamay. Ya. Na yung da la wa yun. Dito dinat da ani atis yuung ishun ya satin. Nga ta na tayo. Nga na mgayo. Hindi iba yung pa na. We were talking about money and about the pandemic, people not learning during the pandemic about saving. Pirun na ipa soko pa din yo alung pet peef ka yung hindi na kuhu gas nga mai. Yung parang after mg CR and dina guhugas ng kama mai. Parang hindi ba natin sha na tuto na ng pandemic na wola si lang sawa, si na sabi sate na pa uulit uli na. Wash your hands after you come out of the bathroom, after you touch stuff and whatever ta sako. Andamiko parin na kaka salu bong sa, like say mall bathroom. Na lungbas ng CR. A chok gina gato talaga like to meeting nagusa. Tabas misa tin eating na ko, op to mire chu sala pas mindi na kogas yung kama, binga, ba kit day. It means an easy pinkko. A ka wang sabon. Yan, e moal bath rakwilto. Ah, completo. May bayyan. Completo ta lang. May bay bayan, maybe day. Maybe day, maybe day. Merung ano me sabol, meerung hand dryer, meron tin paper towel. Kus sa kung ba iba na easy p ko sa. Yan. Sigye kung mei sabun man, bawa lang mg panto yo, pa basa me bo. Pero ito kompleto. Yes, wala kang excuse. So kompleto, ba tin tina natina take advantage, yung. Yung fact, oh. Ba kasi mi sanita me handjil na. You know what I realize? Because yung ibab, okay na kasi sa kanila yungga nun ne. Or kasi na alkoho lang o kina yung me. Angel bata ko yung dis sapate. Kai lang talaga, wash. Mero. Aho, I'm gonna try to go into detail why they don't wash their hands. Meansang kase, wola kata lagang hina wakan. Okay, ng. Yung. So na tango, okay. Go. Bina baby su. Kotoa. Squat. Aya hung peep good in. But go ahead, go ahead. Da pos, bug ka squat, kasi shampre gusto mwang. Ayung nag maidikit sa kata wan mo. Pero shampre kung nasa magang ng sha lang molka. Wala na mg problema yan deba. So nag squat or omo po, okay nag tissue, nagwaip, tina pon, mejo makapal yon sa feeling ma wala ng tama. And then after that, mg fa flush kang a yon. Papa ahin mung yon. Poin na. So nga yang pak la pas ni na feeling nila? Parang malin nis na nahok kasi wola na mghi na waka nyung kamaiko. Hence, hindi ya kha mga guhgas ng kamay. Feeling ko lang ta girls. Mary. Mehi nung san. Mars. Queen sand. Mehi nawangar kaka bang puno yung CR and yung madaming na guhougas. Das ayo ko talaga. Well, I would just go out and just alcohol my hand. Especially wipes my hands. Okay, yuna what I get you. Kasi pak pasak ku ng banyo. Mejo ito che monae. Okay, ano meran sila, okay, they don't have tissue, okay, they don't have soups. So therefore, I cannot touch anything in here. So maybe I kinda get you. Especially ka pa gana ware long drive. Dependes ang karin nagsi, and then you kinda just banyo, and you don't know what kind of banyo you're gonna get. And yin ya when you enter those banyos y siang duminang floor, tapa si nga walangg sabo means yang wal adding too big. Yes. Okay, I get the struggle. Kung in and out. In and out. Gets ku yung part na yan. Pero hina wakan yung yung lactus. Pano kumme bi na me gumaamit no, tapasun na dumi ha nyung kama y nya. Tasha yung humaawak dun tas hina wa kan mudin yun. Susie is talking to yang ka yun ng kamay. Susie is talking to you, okay. Pero gets ku yung ba nyo na wala kana na magaga wa. I think isako pang pet peong. I'm talking about clean bathrooms with complete ambient. There's no excuse. Wala talaga excuse. Pero kame ako, atis personally, as a mom, and even before I became a mom, dal siguru sa naya ho na nagre remote location, kama bit bit mu da pat la. So mero nakung sabon sa bag, me alcohol, ku lang na lang pati too big daling ko na. So completo sha talaga. So meansan, pak kunare, my kita ngami sa na mik kasabaya kha shaan pisa walang sabon. Tas mkita nya bahat mumbula yung kama. Pero sha, bi big yang kwa na lang sha. Pag nga sugas din kay na kamay na too big din lang wola ding na idulut se nyo ya na basalang yung kama y nyo. A yun nga. So ms okay dina mg alko gel nala, or yung mag alkohol na. Or y mugwipes na lang. Pero I think it's even before the pandemic, ma hugas na ta lagasigoro na. Actually sa yo koyun na tatoon at it, because I would see you wash your hands and be like, nahu kasina kuga siya. She makes you feel dirty. Oh yindi na, but she reminds me. Na oga nan nan no. A no, anuna no hina waka na ming kanina. So bagu ta laga yelala pas ng studio, mgahuga shanang kamay. At ito yung na realize ko, ang refreshing bagugas ng kama. Kapag malam mi gang tubi. Parang feeling moon na refresh yung boong pata wanmo just because you feel that your hands are clean. And even if guna alcohol, alcohol, alcohol, and uh, kin taka pa n yung moment na mahuga sa ko sang sabun at chaka too big. Na alal y nyung pandemic, pina uso pangan nila, or ni rare remind nila, when you wash your hands, make it sing the happy birthday song. Right. Like gano katagal mudapat. Sina sabun yung kamay mo hangasa. Gano pagi pagita ngga dalili, hangang koko, hangang gya, hangang wrist, nya. Yes, yaya. Sapas pagina wa mwun iba naalalok itate ko kasi yun sabi nya na. Iba paleng pahiram dam nung pag nag happy birthday ka. Yung ganu ka tagal ka nag sabun, yung linis na linis yung. Hamaim. Problema langsa ma shaadum sa kama, yung mafim geo print mo pa hindi mm. Yung pa na pa. Pagat yung pat nito ndina. Flut na flat na sha, na. I think I guess it's a good reminder, kungan kha important kasi pungbawas nya na n chance mag kasakit kayo. Na yun man yo reason kung baakit shalalginappa alalun ng pandemic, is because yayo natimg pasa pasa. Okay, I'm so curious, na back when your kids were much smaller, uh how did you handle that situation with small kids? Because smaller kids, lalan pako, it's kinda hard to tell them to not touch the things that they shouldn't be touching. Yes. And they don't have any concept of, yeah, that's dirty. They don't have that concept. Now, ah, you touched the lock, someone else could have touched that lock. I mean, even when they hold money, diba. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, like, how did you deal with that pet peeve when your kids were small, like when you would go to the public toilets? Haya, yen young next pet peeve kuna man. Yun next squat tas pinapa baya anilang poro we wi yung toilet seat. Kasi, I have to go inside first. At lili, kunguna yon. So me dala hung wipes, me alcohol ni ko, kaya hola na babuisit kasi, it makes my job harder. Kasi nisa na pa nga squat man it's. So kay la work. Uh okay la mm sila ipa tong gano dan sa toilet bowl tala. So lili ni sin ko sha talaga. So, sa biko pakit pa y mgata okay, I get it, Io nyo umo po for some reason mas malinis yungga puet nyo sa sa toilet seat, diba. Mars, kin puna s mob after. Alam naga toilila. Either pona sa nyo after, isi pin yung gagamit after, or i lift ni yung toilet seat, at mag squat ki yo kasin dina mg 100% shu shut yung we. Mars, i na gwa myoita. I'm practi sado there. Dindi to When I say squat, hindi ya oma sang sa. Oh dumy rang RP. Oh, normal squat. Oh, that's why we work sure that it will not drip on shempirin na many. This is why we work out. Yeah. These are the things that you need to be able to do. Regardless whether it's clean or not, I still wanna wipe it. Kasi shampre may iba parang omopudon. So kung wala kung dalang pang dinis, mg sa squata ho. Pero, yun na, na master ko yung art of na hindi sha tomatal sak. Fairness sakegels exercises. Thankfully. Because point when you get older, hindi wuna shang parang pa shower la ball. Malit ba yung shower stall, so parang hindi kang na yun makabuy lung. Malami shang ibat ibang factors. Na pwing hindi shang ma shoot. Ma shoot. Pwedisha m hindi ma shoot. Or nasa pa release. Kasha me e ting ka pa pik la. Oh yag nasa kag release. Main tang bali yung direction. Way na ku ka se. Wa la kasikami mga bird. Tanga ting na kang oh. And to think sila di maraming maram. Midirin na kaka einan. Ma din. Diva mga pars. Nin sa. Yung na mg perfect shot lag. Trial and error, shaf. Pero chefri magbaba kasakali kana sana this time, um kaito. My idea is if you find a toilet seat that's clean and almost pristine, pag nakbu kasangol hindi nila papa baya nya nabino ksa nila yomon na hindi nila ni lini ni sa nyan. O po an yun na man ko ayun yo pa n. Kasi mirung gga gamit na ibay. So it's the other person's problem. Parasha yok. Magli lini nies, mak sa squat din sha uit, dada mi yung ka paran it's just domino. Parasang clay go. Yeah. Kung mo iko yung na katulun. Iko yung magle. Clean as you go. Ki sa shampi kong accidents ma naga nun. So, iko maglinas kasi sa yu yun n. Na ksa stratagin lang na mang ibo magglinis kasi hindini la dumi yun n. So all the more that they don't wanna touch it. But if it's yours, then I think tapat na man si guru ta na. Tama. Yeah. I think that's really something that we should practice. You know, think about who's gonna use it next. Yes. Tama, I don't know who I heard it from, but it's better if you can leave the place better than how you found it. Gan day, go the extra mile. Yes. Go the extra mile. Daman ang bit bitsabang. Yun yung advokas. Why not? Appreciate you mga washroom na. Mayo din si la kata bino toilet paper. Na sanitizer. Yes. So it's guru na mg si gonna sa etu nga binigain na na mi sa yung la. Gaminha. Sanitizer, uh, na gwambo na ng sabon. Iba tibo mala ay mbalesa yang. Oh, lit ka nyang. Because nga, I feel like you owe it to the person who will use it after you. To leave it as it was. Or sa na to leave it cleaner, composible, or usable. Useable. Yes, yes. And kasinga, if that were you, you wouldn't want someone to leave that mess for you to clean. And my kids, all girls, shampre, they grew up like that. So it sa bi ang bag nila, kay tung. Complete. Nine, me bags lang sanitizer, meron silang wipes, meeron silang tissue. Kasi kun na yn dina la o kasama. May no, toilet yan if ever. Pak kasunud nyo akho or any of my children, na gumamik na siy. Maha o ku kayo after. But of course, ibang situation yung. When you find it natal. Pikit mata na lang kase, wala kana ibang. You just have to go. Yeah, go ka nalang. Kalat na tong. Nina natito malili nies and it's a big. Pera yung kaya pa nama man. We do what we can, pa ng giny nyan. Yun so think about it next time, you guys. Nibba when you use the toilet. Think of whoever's using it after you. Okay, so I guess we should start this on the clean side. Do you have any pet peeves like this? Aho pa rang for me. Naria la is kung na pet peeves kosha ng in isip ko talaga. So, isasamga things na payang kuma so isip ko. Yung pak aila mg papas so ka ng malinis naba hai. Aho, parang na ging practice kosha natina tangal ko yung sapatosko. Yeah. Either they tell you to not to, I would remove my shoes. Anyway. Anyway. Okay. Kasi a parang sa isip ko, shampre kung sa ansa an nang galing yung sapatos ko salabas. So shampre kust to kwa na man na out of, you know, courtesy. Uh oh. Yeah. You don't take the cue of the host. I remove it right away. Unless she tells me na ko yin de okay lang yan kasa nili lina. But I'd be like, uncomfortable. Kasi parang la luna kung along kung san kananga. Even if you see everyone else wearing their shoes. I'll ask for house slippers or something. Okay. But I would rather nasana. Uh uh. Ta tangalin ko yung shoes. Aha na man, I take the cue from the host. So pak nakita o shang sinalubung nya o salabas. Hindi. Pero kamaikan den paknarit. Even if their houses nag mgalugar na pinok tana min are very simple, very small, pag naha nami nag tangal ng sapatos. Boys tangal. Tang. Hindi ng sa na ng pinto. Ayu hun, I don't like it. I love leaving the door open. And that's what's funny about pet peeves. That's what's funny about pet peeps, kasib. It wouldn't matter to me and it couldn't matter to somebody else. Yeah. Okay, so si Mars, yung, sa door, akwa diko din na easi pyung pa ng. But I'm not. You leave it open. I can leave it open, I can close it. It doesn't matter. But it matters to Mars. That makes sense. Uh oh. Yung parang. Lalun nakunare means. You share a room with others. And they always keep the door open. And pay rang for me, kirap nahirap na taang palam miggin yung quarto natin, guys. Bibatis pa rang la baspa sok nga, so talaga inevitable na na ie na shap. And then used to leave the door open. And for me, lang, it's just the privacy. Na shampre means naka higa ka na ka ano. So ku possess. So pa rang sa na man lang. Isara natin yung. Dibaka sa, parang private space yun perang. Alam wana. So parang nahaka ilang din nag sasara duh nmusilinang pinto. Just because na i wan chang na kabukas. Yun yung mga na realize kana dapat isara natin pagluma bus kanang na kasara. Isara mopero hung ka nga bukhas na yan. Tas duma an kalang. No problem. Ma laikba kung gusun yun na bokas ta. So what do you do? Do you tell them? Oh, sara poo yo pint pinto. Pak sara poo yo pinto upun tilamo. Mina din nga hong isa na putin na lang. Sabiye. Sabah yin yubas sabintana ka yu duma di. Kasi para wala ka yung pintu sabah. Yo and this courtina lang nakalaga se nyo. Asa nga bango talag tomata la. Oh, mm. Baba yan. At ng piperi me pasha. Orbex. Oh, sabiko, wow, that's such a good analogy. Uh baka yung pin to baha hai. Sabintana baka yu domada. Dami yang. Ang simpli ng ng pak sara ng pinto, guy. Manage. Na isip kun ik prepairman. Because ibang topika kupo ta natin yan someda. Yeah. Kasi yu. Nati ismu naman, or na hihiya gang mag salita, pak mejun ndu dokasa moment na yun. Ya rihi kayo. Uh oh. Nahulang. Pak kunare kung mahain. Da pas madame. Tas alam mong ymarame pang hindi na kaka huha. Tasa ubo sing mung yung lama nung pa gain. Para bata tata wa yung diclutter. Par makin lalasi. Pang hindi. Raise your hand. Shamprim, kasi tumma n yung mga anakosa gang ida, de yung para ng la as na lang komain. Taska pang favorite nila. A kuta laga yung wit. Hindi. Pag na ubos o order ta yo ole. Pero hindi mo u ubousin yan. Yung kanin. Ii ikot yung kanin. Uh-u. Tas alam mung mara mi pang i ikotan. Tas u uboosin mo. Talaka minsan pak mala young ana. Kos alam ku talaga kin di tko. Mipang hindi na ka. Oh. Yun pet beef ko talaga shamar siung para. I cannot. Na ti pasha pra teating na mway paligin. Way maka sama mua. Tas parang mejo tatan chahin mwung por shin nan. So easy. Bana na parang opte ka meju mana mpangdina kahuha. Ganon. So pet peef kusha. No, but I love it, kasi. You're teaching that also to your children. To be considerate. Kasi. Consideration yun na. I think a lot of the pet peeves that we're discussing, it's parang consideration for other people. It's like it's common sense paro hindi na yare. Hindi. Oh, hindi pala sha common for all. Pero also, kunara yung kids ganyan. Gutum sila, diba. So it's a parents talaga pala yu mag tuturu talagan. Kasi otherwise. If they can take all the chicken, they'll take all the chicken, di ba. Pero maganda yun na pakasa bian sila early on. Oh. Pero pan bigy yun la. E kutum ma kwe. Mama me. Mars. Mga swapang. Mars. And na pipikon si ju kisa alam nya kung da hilang khuba kit sila swap. Oh yin bushug namanalaha. Naha in na pa hima gas na yanyi. Panghima. Oi kao. So it's your pet name, you know, stuff like that at the house. These pet peeves. But it's just about being mindful of others, the people around you. But it's I don't know if everyone really cares about it, but when I hear loud eaters, yung so funny. Like when I'm eating and I hear it, I just I can't. I can't. I can't. I can't. Weight loss program. But like, how do you tell someone that? Don't you give them? You just give them the look. You just give them the look to Mars, but even then, like, I don't even think I don't even know if I could give you the look. Sabina, let's say I don't but now that we've spoken about it, Sigoda. I can now. It's just you're chewing that's the problem. Or good friend. I think ma ka pagpatawa ho. Marsh. Commercial. Commercial. But I'm not going to go. I don't know how to tell her. Like how example, so my experience. Wow. I think we must okay pating natin yung mosa dentista. Kasi delika do yan. Way dika magamai green. Kung ko yung grinding. Oh oh. Yung grinding densa through sleep. Like the si duday. When I hear that, it's like it's like I'm waking up. What's grinding? What's grinding? What are you talking about? So like that. Like it's grinding and loud. Yeah, like so loud. Uh oh. And you can't even grind your teeth to make it sound that loud. Like we I'm sure we grind. Grind sa min a si liona. So kung baga hind dilat ng kids ko na ga grind. Pag pina baya mkisha. Mika sa m ka me. Naha sa yung yi pin. Yes, and then naturally you touch a nerve and then it can get very sensitive, Mars. So yun na approach na ting na yung kai blanc. Alamo blanc. It's concerned ko lung. Concerned kolang. What's grinding, mama? grinding baka. Grinding alam yung. Yung iba, I guess they outgrow it. Yeah. Pero we have a friend who took it ang sa nag adult. So yung teeth nya na ging pak slanted. So you only grind mostly on one side. I don't think you grind pan taiya. Magin teasta, please try. So one side ka mejomas naga grind. Kanun yung yi pin. Anghirip nah bulinuna. And I know that there are also pa ng mouth guards. Yes. Yan yan yan. Which we shampre dail malit yung bibni do day like I have to have one made for her. Uh cost of it. Okay, lang pay pasaja. But anyway, so there's grinding, yeah, the noisy eating. Leaving drawers open. Leaving drawers open and not putting things back where they should be. Because the leg? Yeah. Mama. Uh b Bob, do you know where? So it's like I'd love to help you, but if you didn't put it back where it's supposed to be, then it, you know, it takes time away from me. Yeah. And from doing other things that I should be doing. And akhunoman, actually, it's a toxic trait of me. I have a hard time saying no. So when I should be busy doing something else, I will find myself, even if I know this is more important, I will find myself looking for this tiny toy that Ashra is looking for or looking for whatever. Mayra but say, it takes years, it takes years to develop that. I tried to defend you, but you're too old. I love you, Bob, but you're my sixth child. Exactly. Especially for the kids, na means. So like leaving drawers open. See drew n m yung pet peev nya shoes also. Lalun na in the ban yo. Shoes. So yeah. Yun yung Manget pip sa mg haly. Yung a chaka yun yung ia announce la hat na oy gays wagnatin tung gaga wen na ganun. Yes. Kalin lahat tayo nag pa follow ta yo sa ii isang rule. Like, I remember VJ told us before na guys, kung sa an yo kinha dun yu ibalik. Kasi yanghirap magana. Yeah. So parang, it's like a family meeting. Na kai langang chang pak o sapan at opu an na la hata tayo, ito ang magi ging galo natin. Kasi otherwise, mag sa struggle ta yung lahat. Changak kontiniti isbulang sha, nagug groulan ng k festo, yungg k festo yung inismo. At na papa good kadal ikaw din ng yunggawa ngawa. But I guess it's also different because your kids are much younger too. It takes years, alam yung pak pa alal lang alang sa anila na magtut brush gabigabe. It takes years bago nila gaga yan on their own. So the young ones may hip good laidru. Pero maganda yung family meeting talak. You know, this has been bothering me. And I feel like this will really help us. Kung itong simple n bagay na to, gaga winatha. Something like that. I love it. Kumerun na man kayung bang stuff. Umakyat, boma ba, whatever yung gamit. Baga yu umakyat, ting na yo ka anu yung gamit, na pa ka ilang yun na yyat yat. And vice versa. Right. So pa ng through the years, na pa ka tagal din. Migin nun na palang habit yung kids ko. Na pa yung only see the progress after a long, long time. Parangga peru mej juk ma oulit nyana. Ma oulit. Never, never-ending constant reminder of doing such and such. May isapha na e se. Yes! Yung! Excited kame. Yung ko narin na public place. Tapas angla kasma no od ng reels. My gosh, yung parang. Or face. Or what? Kasi parang? Oh. Shempra, sometimes we're in you're in a public place. It's either you try to make use of the time wise. Either you're answering emails, I'm writing like a caption that's needed for a brand campaign. I'm reading a book or whatever. So ka pagmina rin ni kung malakas na no na concentration. Tumata wuna. Ha ha ha, paro. Correct. Share wuna sa ming lahat. Kasi ng. You know what I think? They're so into it they don't even realize the volume. And I'm trying to remember if at any point, me na sabiha naho. Yeah, pay ano. I think I have. Sorry, sorry. Pang sometimes. And I think also for some, like my mom. Me, hearing problems. So it's simple momiko. I'm sure it's not just my mom. I'm sure, you know, especially the elderly. I have hearing problems, Mars. I get what I mean. Like for the older people, I realize that yeah, they have like hearing problems. Kaya mejo amped up narin talaga yung decibels, Mars. Wunday alamo agree, kasi now that they're talking about it. Yung na papapan sing kungan is an older person. Not usually a younger person. Kasi y younger person, day pala gi na me na kabit sa mga theng a yungga. An older person. So I guess if you could, if you have the courage to remind them, and I think I have done once or twice. Very anun na mansilan na pa rang hindi na lana realize na ka bother sila. Actually, yung a tiki kung, ma, ma use your hearing it mi ganon. So akuna mana be like, mom, ano. Ah oh. And then she'll go to the room and then she'll listen. Akona man for me, it's cause her grandkids are around her. Hey, naga afternoon drama shama. Iung drama rama nya di ba. Yeah, still be curious. Kasiata nga what's happening there. So yeah, it's really trying to it's hard then, but just trying to be conscious about the people or the children. The mindfulness. Like, sina na nit. But alamang na sala baska, don't watch reels ng nakam to do yung yeah. Kasi in disha it's ni shining. Hindi ba usually na games. I feel like kayana mansila hindi na gi earphones. Kasi hindi nm nila intention ma no od. Yes. Na poopun ta na lang sila dun, ka yang a deba tauk sa ka na doom scrolling. Kasi pa nag technically ata you just see that and like na entertain ka and then you just hop on to the next. But it's not really intentional. Kasi hindina man yun yung a maggree real saho. Hang yindi shaggano. Error kasi. Or you have a series that you're following. But yung mga useful na short videos na yan. Uh uh. Talagang hindi ka maggi earphones for that. So paran anunang talagesha, mindfulness lang that your volume is a little low or something like that. Lagna in a public place. I think also when you're so into it, kasikwa ng pin na palat mo excited na excited kay, hindi muna noti sa na aka bother na palakin na iban tao. Cacause I remember nung datikamin na drew. Na, putata misa para me isa. Matagil na matagal nato. So brang i nain na min. So brang sa nailang kamin na nag dadal daal kasa gii no man ka. So ang yingang ying na sina pak sa sa bi yang kamino kabilang table. Si na sabi dun sa waiter. Na sabiin salin. Oh, na ang hingga ng nila. Masha do sa lang masaya dun ha. Masha do kaming masaya. Kaya, I think when I got older also, I got so aware na napara. Kun tayu taya maka sam, parangapa sa n lug naparang satin lang. Na pa ka yingga. So ndimu nami na realize, kasi, we're just having fun, we're just making kwentoha. But we're actually bother other people. So, the champagne na una para na iiniska mina para, ka mghi nama na kjay na man. Kalang sa toto tongbu hai. They also are there for gusun lang na ni la kumain, ma kwintuha, di ni la maga. Uh restaurant to e pa ndi pa msado usong samgip nan parang samgip restaurant. Wa favorite ni dru na koreyan restaurant to sa. Likudba hai nywe. Grab y likudbahai. Para halam koyan. Janggani. Jangani. Yan, yan yata. Yan. So paran na pak sa bian. Kami and. One time, kami ni shaira, din sa unanghireit, na gin tae kami ng turn nami nag. Dun sa intro na min. So yung news ang sa ta si Arnold, si maris umali, si ate sousa, s nga kwentuhan kami. Along na fast. Na tumabut pala dunsa. Khanila. Shabri, this is every day. You guys see each other every day. Every time. Arnold gumanun samin shh, gumanunun talagisa, hindi kun na rin niks na kata biko. And that's a dadal daalin na kamit. Sabrin lang kaming excited. And also, kasinabi bing y na rinya tagonti yunti. My kids are they kinda make fun of me, but at the same time are actually truly concerned. Ma mejomina na n pandinik ma. So maybe I think I also talk loud because I'm maybe losing my hearing a little bit. Yes. So Pita Ellen, I understand you. I get you. I get you. I get you. I get you. But it's funny because now that you mentioned that, it's hard now because you know, you think that these places are public places. And you're free to use it however you want to use it, just as much as the other person is or the other table is as well. So, like when we meet up with Judai, the panties, when we meet up, talagang de Mars, anokhame, where the wives, our husbands, date, actually, date, nak mm tor sila. So the wives would also get together. Sangbabond kame. But we rarely see each other. So when we see each other, we have so much to catch up on. So when we do plan on a gathering, it's always, oh, da pat si guru, don't se lugar kung santaiu pweding mag in. Because true enough, yung hulina pinunun tah. Now that I think about it, malamong there are other people there who just wanna have a nice lunch together. Yeah, yeah. You know, just a baby meeting, or you know, just like a nice little catch-up in the yung. So I guess it's that is being considerate. And I think another thing, and being observant of what goes on around you. So the one thing that you can do is share get off your phone, pa mean sandi bakasi, na kuhulang na taya sa pa na interpersonal sensitivities kasinga. We're always on our phones. So I love that. Oh, hindi wuna na papa n sina. Ay sorry na ka rang pala, n ka rang pala. Kasi, uh, to mingila kong nak phone, phone na kudito. Da anang pala tuna ta o hindi ko diba, yung. Hindi wuna mini mean to do that, pero hindi kan na ma sadung aware sa surroundings. And it's become a norm. It's become a norm. I like, I like that. Kasiya, to be honest, ate. Itung ng karan tay na mga cell phone, at lahat kwa di ngga win sa cell phone atin. Wa ng tung rules. Wula ng na glay down, sa anin ng mga ta mg etiquet, yun tamang para anang pa gamet, sa an ka daapat huminto para mg cell phone, kung baga pa rang it was such an easy access. To appoint na na wola na rin tayo ng pa rang guidelines or sa realing awareness. Kung saan at pa' ano sa daapat gina gamet. So I think it's also sometimes a good way to like na yon, dail mejo me awareness kana para hindi a ta tama yungga ni to gana ni to ganyan. So you pass it down to your children. Yes. Kasi to each his own tayo sa gana ni tung ka la kara nit. Hindi yung tama sa yo ep, sa iba nari realize na na oga pa nag hindi gata yun na debaba. Pero I get what you mean. Kasi the moment na na distract ka na ng cell phone mo, mm-hmm. Hindi mo na talaga na mama laya n yung mga na sa paligid mo. Baka masma agamun na realize. Na, ay hindi pala ma sadu da pat malaka symbose score, parang baka masma agamula nari realize than the other person. Or, na kita mungasi saha na. Pero hindi mo lang na realiali. Kasi igo yun peru del na kaka kita kan ng someone na gina wa yun parang oh my gosh, guru mi mga time nag gina waha. Ngha per y hindi ako aware. So now I should be more mindful because I could be her. Right now. I might be that person that's kasala yung. Ang ying alakas ng bosses ko. Kasing ng kokwa yen to kna. Tung kul dun sa malakas yung pa nun na od nya ng. Ng phonya. So yun din pa ng sha, eh, actually, yakudin make time. Malakas. Good realization. Uh oh. Yeah. Oh, it's funny though. Because yung, it's different for you, it's different for me. It's gonna be different for everybody. But yeah, I guess at the end of the day, what matters to you, eventually it's also gonna matter to your children. That's true. That's true. And of course, in this world, hindi lang tayo ang nabubu hai dito. Kailana iki bagay tayo, dun sa maka tabina tinza mana ka salamwa natin na kasama nat, kait maka sama sabahai. Na. So it's always important na la ginati isi pen kong. Kamusta basila. Hindi lang yun sari ling yon, ku anulang yung comfortabl. Sa nyo kwa alulang gusun yungga win. Just be mindful. Oh. I like that. I think yun la mang yung concept to ng pet pi vi. Kasi gina gawa sha ng ibang ta'o, admin aa apek to hang ibang tao. So, da hil dito, marivalize na tita shocks a no kaya yung mga gina gawa kuna adang na kaka apek to sa iba nag hindi pa la tama. Yes. Atung da jan, itdahil mga tao tayo, we always want to be better and better. Yes. Yungga things na hindi nati na tuto nan before. Aba kay tumatan datata mio ka pareng bagung matututo tuna. And kasama na ja nag habits, kasama nja na pa ki bages. Eba. You can still keep honing and honing and honing that skill as you go along this shape. That's true. I just realized, ma baba ba yung pet piv na ma ingai na na sa storboa ko sa ba inguma e. Hinder, kasi si paolo pet piv nya rin na. Kasi na realize ng. Mars. Oh, si paolo, hey ayo dinya. Hindi nan ndina sha nag aa anusa sakit, ndina sa am i the problem? Na problem of course. Kasi diba depending a dog, nankura deba. Like, Japan they like it, ka pa gamwa. Dito na mansa aatin pa. Quiet. Ako iso eto, weha n dial na bangit myan. Ayah, yung ma i nay mg ano ngko birta smars. Clink clink link clink ling yung. Bam bam bam bang. Kapas pakin na preachy. Ba bangga sa n ni ping italagam pa rang. It's one of my kids. So I'm like, yung, bang, bak kung maka ing ka wak mwa ng bang bang, ba sa talagam, ba what hamba galao ng anang kalansing, ng kalansing, yung pa ng kasi na ka andasha distractha kung maka nga. Na karin de. Na kaarin disha. Oh oh. So mga things like that. But I like them. Na pa good realization. Plus, these are also things that our kids can learn from us, diba na. Hindi na nasasabi sa anilan ng lahat yan. Wait ato. Pinangko lang yung kase. Shep bwa bati nakamigu sa mata o na ng sa su chance. Okay. Ah, see, Miss Mimi. Oi, si mimi. Oh, Miss Mimi 1987. Yang gusto ko yang guilty pleasures and pet peeves to be an episode here. And your beauty routine na den and bag great. Thank you so much, Miss Mimi Bagrate. Gusto ko den yung beauty routine. Actually, I realized we can do an episode on like beauty finds that we have. Gadget, gadget ninak. But yes, dials of pet peeves. Thank you, Mimi, for that. Because yeah, gave us an idea. Yes. Or a topic for an episode top. And as we go along, parang all of them, I'm like, I'm just reminded of the things that my children do. Here's another thing. And it's like, do you have to make that sound? It's like, why are yung kung baku? Like Leon will just like drag a chair from one end of the other. And we're just like, why? I think that's like a perfect opportunity to teach them nah. Oh. Look, I'm sure. I'm sure make a lake tung mga triggers. Which is why i kung parang. That is really getting me angry right now. So I'm sure there's probably there's that aspect to it also. But I'm not going to be able to do it. Where is that coming from? Being a bit more self-aware. How am I affecting other people? Right. And also, how can I teach my children to have better manners, to be more mindful, to be more observant? But manners and right conduct. I love it. Shut up! So before we end this episode, we want to thank Avi Content Studio. We love it here, Avi. Yes, we're very comfortable here. So Kamiang in yung manga. Yeah, yeah. Kamehang in yung manga. Uh uh. Sorry, sorry. Therapy session batto. Mm-hmm. What episodes are you guys shooting? So, guys, what do you think are my pet beefs? When we hit the back of your foot with a grocery cart. So brang sake. Guys, the bat experience yunam. Actually, I'm not going to be able to do it. Actually, wedding shopping cart, weddings uh airport. But then it's scraping against one. Yes. Yes. Mago over shasha. But total. Kesi mulan nun sinaasabiny. I'd like to push the art for you. But migilka. Esila ang alam ng nila dere chung lahad lang. Eto migilka. Ah, puedere. Kasingga mikohunin ka? Pwee dere. Maganda. Maganda yan. Maganda yan. Salalan no mar. Kasalana kupa pala. Sasu la. Gma wana lakaminang arrangement. Sima na angokusha. Mayon kumba bigat pa ano ekopare. Take it. Maging a ti mga tao na nasaliko ni susy na next shop. Manghi mokila. We were talking about that. As yin ng yak. Oh my god, I'm sorry. It's okay. Kindi kosha kaya. You're not gonna get the best verb particular moment. But I'm gonna go. Grocery. Grocery. Um, kito jong. Sina big no to summarse before. Hindi ko alamko anoyimas ayoho. Yung pak pumasu kasa isang tindahan or shop, yung hindi ka binate ng shopkeeper. Alongata deba. Or, binati ka ng shopkeeper. Pero iko na yung hindi so magat. Yuna remaka sa baika. Good morning, ma'am, gagata. Tasa man, good morning, diba ganya ta. Morning, good morning. Tas yung binabati, iba tasa. Pumaso kata, okay, good morning, tas dined maha. Uh uh. Yun mama says, Papa so kasa store. Wellana mila ibang customer. Iko lang na mando. Yung nini salun na babata. Nisa wung bate. Pan kung tuming yin naman at in acknowledge na manya na pa nangan. Pana pa good na pa good nabasi linghi nin la maku hangma. Now I feel like. Good morning ko. Mima akasa ba ya hobbi na bati, sila ng guarja, ng ng tinda. So pa na sa kung di ku na lukwa ni ms ayoho, pero pareoko si lang aya. How rude can you be na somebody's actually talking to you? Tas ni hindi ka mang lang suma go ng. Okay, okay. But morning. Even acknowledge na kina usa lang. Piba. Piba. Sok na yan sa anu wee. Being rude. Yes. Yes. I find that rude. Actually, I'm a friendly person, but I can be guilty of that because sometimes I feel like it's just their job and they don't actually mean like it's just like, uh hi ma'am. And I don't think much of it. So sometimes I'll just parang I'll just like put my hand up. Yeah. Oh no, you at least acknowledge. Oh, yeah. Okay, so mg guards. Sorry, na mung. But it's a lobby na minute. I'm so sorry, kung kasi na realize ko si drew, si drewung parate na kahay ka. Oh, there were random days that would be like, hi kuya, or hi ate. But I'm sure that there were days na I didn't think much of the like morning, ma'am. And then I'm still looking at my watch. I'm sure I'm guilty of some of those days nah. But I'm not sure. Hindi ko na return yung hello or yung good morning. So I'm so sorry. Oh, hi jan. I will make an effort. Hi, kuya! Uh-oh. But yeah. But you might be want to not really think much of it. But yeah, I mean, what is it? To say hi and say good morning. We're just here to remind each other, lang na man. I don't think anybody plans it that way. But if they don't realize that they're would be better. In a world that feels connected because we're always on social media, but disconnected at the same time. But it's being a model to others. Because what if everyone started thinking the same way I did not? It's just their job. It's just the guard's job to say good morning, uh to say good morning. So I don't have to acknowledge it. Right. If everyone started to think that way, then I mean what a sad world would this become. If you can model that, and then it'll encourage also others to be the same way, then you know, I'd like to think it's also a way of contributing to building a happier place. Absolutely. Because nobody wants to feel rejected, even though you feel like it's only just your job. Yeah. But stuff, but you might not feel rejection. I love it. Wow. Nice girl. I love how we picked up our mics. Yeah. Most likely hindi. So that's it.