Same D Different B
Welcome to the Same D Different B podcast where we help women navigate an increasingly challenging dating environment by providing an experienced, male perspective. My goal is simple - to provide honest insights, clear up misunderstandings and create more meaningful connections between women and men.
In a world where social media often amplifies division, confusion and conflict between the sexes, this podcast aims to bring people together. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or simply trying to better understand the opposite sex, you're in the right place.
Episodes
11 episodes
38 and Single: Dating With a Deadline
Alegria is 38, single, and wants to get married and have children. Her situation is increasingly common as more women spend their 30s focused on their careers, the rising cost of living makes starting a family more challenging, dating apps have...
The Dating App Diet
Maybe it’s time to stop blaming the dating apps and start taking a little more accountability for how we use them.Is it possible to self govern our dating app behavior and actually get better results while experiencing less burnout? I be...
The Filtering Challenge: Three Dates That Could Change Everything
Would you go on three dates with three men who don’t fit your usual filters or standards if it could ultimately lead you to the right man?What if, instead of immediately swiping left, you challenged yourself to step outside your normal d...
The Single Life Echo Chamber
In this episode, we dispel the misconception that promoting healthy relationships means putting down the single life. Ira explores the male and female echo chambers that have formed on social media, where singledom is often glorified while the ...
He Likes Me. He Likes Me Not. The Hot & Cold Dating Game
Rachel is exhausted with dating. And the biggest culprit? The inconsistency and confusion of the men she’s matching with and talking to on dating apps.One minute they’re interested, the next they’re distant. It’s hot and cold, confusing,...
Decoding Your Dating Profile With Rob From Chicago
Your dating profile is often the very first impression a potential match has of you, and it might be sending a message you never intended. Are the photos, prompts, and bio you've chosen actually reflecting who you are and what you're looking fo...
Is it Ever OK to Initiate Plans With a Man?
In this episode, we continue exploring some of the dating behaviors that could be influencing how a man views you and ultimately treats you. The objective of this episode, and the entire pod, is to help you filter out the men who won’t take you...
Can Rebecca Succeed On Dating Apps Without Her Sexy Photos?
In this episode, we begin to explore the behaviors that could be influencing whether men take you seriously or casually, potentially before you even meet. Could your pictures and social media be having a behind the scenes impact on your dating ...
Is Dating the Most Important Job of Your Life?
In this episode, we explore the characteristics that may be blocking a man from pursuing a woman seriously. Which are true deal breakers, and which can be overcome? We also discuss whether thinking of dating as a "job" is simply a negative idea...
Should Christina Date Younger Men? What About You!?
Why are some women placed in the "casual" category while others are considered serious relationship material in the eyes of the same man? In this episode, we begin to unpack the psychology behind that distinction and help Christina determine wh...
Can Lauren turn a Situationship into a real relationship?
Dating in today's environment has gotten messy. In this episode, I introduce the premise behind the show and explain the meaning of its title. Then, we step into Lauren's shoes as she navigates a situation we've all experienced, exploring how w...